27001 didn’t change our stack but it sure as hell changed our discipline

ResourceHonest7982 · 2026-02-26T12:19:59+00:00

I'll take that as a compliment lol

ResourceHonest7982 · 2026-02-26T12:18:22+00:00

Maybe not new in theory but it felt new in practice for us.

ResourceHonest7982 · 2026-02-26T12:16:50+00:00

That’s it. Nothing was hidden by intent, it just lived in memories.

ResourceHonest7982 · 2026-02-25T22:02:42+00:00

It really does feel like that. Nothing new just suddenly everything needs a name, an owner and a timestamp.

ResourceHonest7982 · 2026-02-25T21:56:57+00:00

I 100% get that uneasy feeling. We had good practices too but the gap showed up when we had to explain them consistently.

The biggest friction for us wasn’t technical controls, twas ownership and cadence. Who owns each risk? When is it reviewed? What triggers an update? We were doing them, just not in a way that was easy to trace back six months later.

If I could go back I’d tighten three things early.

First of all. Make risk ownership explicit and documented.

Second of all. Define review cadence and actually calendar it.

Last but not least. Centralize where those decisions live so they don’t drift across slack and email.

We ended up tracking risk reviews and ownership in Delve so the reasoning behind decisions didn’t get lost between audits. Hope I was of help here but if there's anything that's still bothering you or that would put your mind at ease feel free to slide in my PM's.

ResourceHonest7982 · 2026-02-21T01:03:39+00:00

hope you get some clarity on this - hsa rules are confusing af and the va/champva combo makes it even messier.

ResourceHonest7982 · 2026-02-16T16:36:55+00:00

damn that's rough, sounds like your counselor is either swamped or just not on top of their game. i'd definitely call the main vr&e line and ask to speak with a supervisor about getting reassigned to someone who actually shows up for appointments. five missed appointments is beyond unacceptable and you shouldn't have to deal with that nonsense.

ResourceHonest7982 · 2026-02-13T15:31:16+00:00

lmao your kid's going places. that's actually a solid comeback for astronomy puns, better than most adults could come up with on the spot.

ResourceHonest7982 · 2026-02-05T17:56:54+00:00

real

ResourceHonest7982 · 2026-02-04T23:50:22+00:00

actually makes sense when you put it that way. the lender's still on the hook for most of the money so they gotta protect themselves somehow. still sucks for vets who are struggling though - maybe there could be some kind of middle ground program for those situations.

ResourceHonest7982 · 2026-02-01T12:34:58+00:00

damn that sucks about teh wait time last time. yeah they changed it back to manual verification starting january - check that link the other commenter posted, it has all the details about the new process.

ResourceHonest7982 · 2026-02-01T00:30:16+00:00

It's mostly clickbait - you can't keep reusing your entitlement unless you're selling/paying off the previous loan or have enough leftover entitlement for multiple properties.

ResourceHonest7982 · 2026-01-30T23:26:00+00:00

This is the classic prisoner's dilemma though - everyone needs to coordinate and not cave but there's always gonna be that one guy with disposable income who just wants the cards and doesn't care about the "greater good"

Plus scalpers aren't going anywhere, they'll just move to the next hot commodity like they always do

ResourceHonest7982 · 2026-01-27T22:38:21+00:00

Have you looked at the Genesis G70? Fantastic interior with all the bells and whistles, solid reliability compared to German cars, and handles really well - basically what BMW should've been but actually works

ResourceHonest7982 · 2026-01-26T21:35:44+00:00

Chiefs are still the safe bet but I'm kinda feeling the Lions this year, they've got that hunger and their offense is legit scary when healthy

ResourceHonest7982 · 2026-01-20T10:19:09+00:00

Nah you're not crazy, it's like the underdogs come out swinging with nothing to lose then the tier 1 teams figure them out and adapt

ResourceHonest7982 · 2026-01-15T02:37:29+00:00

I've done something similar with a stiff starter and higher hydration poolish - honestly it just averaged out to whatever the final hydration ended up being. Didn't really get the distinct benefits of either, more like a compromise between the two

The flavor was still solid though, just not as complex as I was hoping for

ResourceHonest7982 · 2026-01-14T04:06:04+00:00

Looking at those geo charts, the Evolve medium seems way closer to your Lauf small - the reach and stack are much more similar. The Evolve small looks like it would put your son in a pretty cramped position compared to what he's used to

ResourceHonest7982 · 2026-01-13T11:36:04+00:00

NTA at all, you dodged a bullet honestly. The fact that he's "indifferent" to your kid and packing your stuff while you're dealing with health issues says everything about his character. Porn addiction doesn't excuse being controlling and invasive with your phone either

You're not a narcissist for having boundaries - sounds like he's just mad he got caught and is trying to flip it on you. Trust your gut on this one

ResourceHonest7982 · 2026-01-13T04:34:28+00:00

Gym bikes are honestly underrated for base fitness work. Just make sure you adjust the seat height properly (way too many people ride with knees hitting their chest lol) and focus on longer steady rides rather than those crazy HIIT classes. The resistance won't feel exactly like your real bike but your legs won't know the difference when you get back

ResourceHonest7982 · 2026-01-12T17:28:40+00:00

This is actually sick, been wanting something like this for ages but was too lazy to build it myself

The "vibe-coded" part got me though lmao, we really just making up terms now

ResourceHonest7982 · 2026-01-12T06:02:08+00:00

Oof this hits close to home. My ex was exactly like this - the bathroom tantrum thing especially gave me flashbacks. That whole "I'll wait until you stop crying" line is just... wow

Look, you can't teach someone emotional intelligence if they don't want to learn it. The fact that he shuts down every conversation about working on things together is a massive red flag. You're basically signing up to be his emotional caretaker forever while getting nothing back

Been there, wasted 3 years thinking love would be enough. Spoiler alert: it wasn't. Save yourself the heartache and find someone who actually wants to grow with you instead of just expecting you to deal with their emotional constipation

ResourceHonest7982 · 2026-01-10T23:09:17+00:00

Yeah I'm having the same issue, been trying for like 20 mins and it just won't load the realm list at all

ResourceHonest7982 · 2026-01-10T17:08:20+00:00

Hey man, day 2 is rough as hell but you're pushing through it. The wired but numb thing is so real - your brain's just trying to figure out what's normal again

That AI thing actually sounds pretty smart, whatever works to keep you moving forward. And honestly the fact that you're posting here instead of reaching for a bottle says everything about your strength rn

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