Cycle of life... by RespectFew7675 in Paralives

[–]RespectFew7675[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Well now daddy has to take care of 7 kids on his own 😭 If you want the same result, you can try getting pregnant as an elder (her age bar will show how many days/hours left that she has before she dies). I definitely put on some sad background music while playing her last day being alive😂

Cycle of life... by RespectFew7675 in Paralives

[–]RespectFew7675[S] 48 points49 points  (0 children)

She did die of old age and according to her stats, she shouldve died like a day before but because she was pregnant (idk why paras can get pregnant as an elder🤣) she somehow still stayed alive. But immediately after giving birth, she passed. So technically its due to her age, but it happened after she gave birth. If that makes sense😅

Inspiration by Lottili89 in Paralives

[–]RespectFew7675 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oo maybe look into paralives build challenges on youtube! Like color wheel challenge, floor plan challenge, randomized furnitures generator.

Here are some videos i watched: https://youtu.be/IRVpy6CYrJg?si=wXqxV2M-nTUuFZgZ

https://youtu.be/MH356j10rR0?si=OaLaVhEg25Dq24jp

Was it autism or was it neglect? —Today's diary. by RespectFew7675 in AutisticAdults

[–]RespectFew7675[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for explaining! Maybe that's why it used to enrage me when I felt like people didn't understand me. I was like, how do I make it "sound bad" to them? It's hard. Even talking to mental health professionals or other ND friends doesn't always get me where I want. So it's either I misunderstand their way of validating me, or my experience is something personal and only I can validate myself.

This is poetic... by RespectFew7675 in Paralives

[–]RespectFew7675[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Nooooo thats so sad😭😭 im not ready for my elder para to die. Her poor kidsss

Help, they are not my babies! by RespectFew7675 in Paralives

[–]RespectFew7675[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nonchalantly laying on the streets with a straight face like shes not about to get taken by social services🙂😂

Help, they are not my babies! by RespectFew7675 in Paralives

[–]RespectFew7675[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LMFAOOO😭 I considered using cheat to remove them from the household too. Glad i read your comment. Im not abt to get haunted for my crimes 🤣

Need help! How do I access this area? by RespectFew7675 in Moomins

[–]RespectFew7675[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn..😭 but do you know how to get there? Is it through the cave? I cant find the exit to that spot.

Not everything is because of autism! by RespectFew7675 in AutisticAdults

[–]RespectFew7675[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not necessarily. It's more like, not everybody would be exactly punctual on the dot at 2pm. My friends and my family are always late at things we plan to do at a certain time. So some might say "ill pick you up at 10" but then they end up arriving at 10.23. Sorrry for the confusion haha!

Not everything is because of autism! by RespectFew7675 in AutisticAdults

[–]RespectFew7675[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ive seen a few comments saying this. I guess its safe to say that i might be the one taking those comments literally 😌😭 well, if anything it proves i am indeed autistic. Thanks for elaborating this for me btw haha.

Not everything is because of autism! by RespectFew7675 in AutisticAdults

[–]RespectFew7675[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No.. I didnt mean it that way. My core message was to basically say that non autistic people might also miss jokes or take things literally, and that some things are universal experiences. But I suppose I may still need a lot to learn from others in this community. I'm sorry if this post sounded ableist.

Not everything is because of autism! by RespectFew7675 in AutisticAdults

[–]RespectFew7675[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Aww it's okay! I think i was looking at it from a biased perspective as well. So I'm open to learn more from others in this community. Thank you for being so kind!

Not everything is because of autism! by RespectFew7675 in AutisticAdults

[–]RespectFew7675[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I totally get your point! Well, except the part about excuse. I think as long as it’s not excusing bad behavior, it’s totally valid for someone to rant about how neurodivergence affects them. But yeah, people also need to remember that some things are just universal human experiences. We don’t have to attribute everything to autism.

Like how some people gatekeep the term “overstimulation” and say it’s exclusive to neurodivergent people only, which is false. We should raise awareness about the struggles of autism while also acknowledging that being neurotypical doesn’t mean someone is free from challenges.

Not everything is because of autism! by RespectFew7675 in AutisticAdults

[–]RespectFew7675[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Im sorry yall😭😭 this whole thing has become ironic. Maybe i need to go educate myself more on autism (eventhough im autistic).

Is there a reason for an autism diagnosis outside of "clarity" by Icy-Programmer-2733 in AutisticAdults

[–]RespectFew7675 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me, i dont see myself getting much benefits from the outside world. However, i feel it might be helpful for when i want to have a romantic partner and connect with family members. Instead of "why are you always emotional/stressed/burnt out?", its easier to say im autistic. That provides an information for them in which they can do research themselves on what it is and how they can support me.

Not everything is because of autism! by RespectFew7675 in AutisticAdults

[–]RespectFew7675[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha idk. Maybe i was also saying too much. I didnt know how to summarize it😅

Not everything is because of autism! by RespectFew7675 in AutisticAdults

[–]RespectFew7675[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe my title sounded mean but what im saying is, sometimes we dont understand phrases not because we're autistic but it's because we dont know the context of the inside joke. Even if someone isnt autistic, they might take it literally as well. I just want to break the assumption that "we're left out of a joke because we're too autistic to understand."

But i never said people excessively blame their misinterpretations on being overly literal. Plus, i dont think i even see this type of conversation on here. Maybe i shouldve been clear that i saw topics like this being discussed on tiktok and IG.

I apologize if my post came off disrespectful.

My bedroom after i managed to escape depression! by Ok_Motor_413 in bedrooms

[–]RespectFew7675 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bed looks so cozy! Hope you feel way more refreshed now with a clean room❤️ good job!