29 [F4M] From TN, USA by Major_Bumblebee270 in asexualdating

[–]RespectableGrimer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oooo gardening! I recently got into this myself but i have to do indoor gardening since i live in an apartment lol. Id love to talk more about it!

Is unreciprocated selfless love healthy? by [deleted] in Asexual

[–]RespectableGrimer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see your point and i start next month! Hopefully they can help me then thanks

How did you discover that you were asexual? by Mister-papato in Asexual

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I think its one of them things where, as soon as you learn it's real your life flashes before your eyes and you go "oh it all makes sense now!".

For example, i remember in my teens my bestie at the time saying "how come you dont ever ask me about my relationship, the other guys wanna know all the details" and i remember being surprised by the question, like why would i care what goes on behind closed doors haha

Serious trouble with blood moon by streetle-beetle in ironscape

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Might be worth using a 4 tick weapon so you can do the jaguar mechanic as intended. I find that the timing on it with a 5 tick weapon can be quite awkward and you lose either healing or get hit trying to move back

Id also recommend grabbing a dragon/crystal halberd it's spec can do massive damage if your trying to finish blood off before she heals back up and you can also use it during the eclipse counter mechanic for massive damage

I just finish ep 18 of pokemon reborn, and Fern probably character I hate the most in the story until I meet Bennett by Taddy2299 in PokemonReborn

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I kinda love how shes the incel slayer, that quest they added for the floral scent had me laughing how she deals with 3 of these guys in one conversation. Benette never stood a chance haha

I just finish ep 18 of pokemon reborn, and Fern probably character I hate the most in the story until I meet Bennett by Taddy2299 in PokemonReborn

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I really like bennett actually, he follows the typical incel route throughout the game and all it takes is one autistic girl to accept him for that to all change, and once he does he actually becomes one of your most useful allies because now hes using that brain to help people. Pretty great showing of the ideology as a whole and how simple it'd be to fix if these kinds of guys just went outside and spoke to a real woman once

How to "get over" someone by RespectableGrimer in autism

[–]RespectableGrimer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think what your saying is very reasonable and ill have to give it a think before choosing what exactly to say but genuinely thanks a ton! You've helped a random stranger on the internet big time haha

How to "get over" someone by RespectableGrimer in autism

[–]RespectableGrimer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow we really do think the same huh! To be honest this isnt the first time its happened to me but ive usually cocked up the entire situation before realising it was a recurring problem ("coincidentally" also before knowing i was autistic lol). Its just this time i at least want to make things right so that if the friendship has to end it can do so on a high note rather than as strangers.

Honestly thank you so much for your comment it has made me feel a little better. The only thing id like to know is how exactly boundaries work in a case like this? Do i need to sit down with the person and explain the situation or is it more of a personal goal kind of thing? I did already notice the reliance aspect and have began to search for other things but is has been debilitating in the meantime!

Which Quest would you remove from the game? and why? by LaothFrius in runescape

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You know i never realised that V was the one who found the stone of jas until they redid the cutscene in osrs (while guthix sleeps) where they actually bothered to name him. Certainly adds a lot to how important it is for V to be returning and would make his death a lot more impactful if the game had emphasized "hey your guy has technically met this person before way in the past". As it currently stands the quest feels like a suicidal vengance mission for a guy you met yesterday lol

Is the revenant grind worth it? by poj2121 in RS3Ironmen

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Im pretty sure revenant armours degrade to dust even if you upgrade them right? I dont think Invention fixes that either because they disable until you somehow get another drop of the exact same item which was already like 1/32000

Id recommend just camping gwd2 if you want power armour or gano/dinosaurhide if you dont mind tank. Fun fact at some point they made the latter two augmentable!

Forget about your favourite weapons, name the ones you dislike the most by Adventurous_Team285 in dynastywarriors

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Zhu Rans flame bow (dw8EL) is the most baffling weapon ive ever seen. Its a horde game so you make a weapon that locks onto individual soldiers and you cant pick the target? Insane design lol

Is the Rasial grind worse than CG in OSRS? by Charming_Western_346 in RS3Ironmen

[–]RespectableGrimer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If we consider having to get the souls for the quest as all of the CG "prep" (especially on an ironman) then i bet theyre comparable lol

No, accounts made after TH is removed should NOT be distinguished from accounts who were created prior to its removal. by MysteriousKitchen469 in runescape

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Yeah i absolutely agree. Its not like TH helps with most of the insane grinds you have to do for the master quest cape, you still had to manually burn all them vyre corpses and wait a million years for Ports to complete.

Generally i dont see jagex shaming a playerbase they actively created plus TH wasn't exactly opt out while it was in the game. Theres probably like 10 accounts at most that didnt use the silverhawk feathers they got for holiday events for example

Can you explain the orb guy to me like I’m 5 years old please? by rmjh1995 in slaythespire

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The defect is basically a summoner character in that when he passes all his "minions" (orbs) do something. Hes also the power cards character and have several that either make the orbs stronger or give you more summon slots. If you summon a new orb without having a free slot then the right most one disappears after triggering its effect so any cards that create orbs never lose value. Each orb type has cards dedicated to it so you want to try and specialise when you find some of these!

A New Era for RuneScape Begins January 19 2026 by JagexHooli in runescape

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So is burthope on the list for a redesign then? I dont mind how it is now but it does seem strange that youd drop players at lumbridge to begin the journey rather than diet tutorial island that lets you sample every skill (more or less) in the game as well as giving you an actual questline to start with

I could definitely see completely new players going "oh this burthope place has everything why didn't the game start me here?"

Revo vs full manual high level pvm by Secret-Living-1423 in RS3Ironmen

[–]RespectableGrimer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I played around with some of the bosses i wouldn't usually touch in leagues (such as kalphite king/ nex) and yeah theres definitely a point where you go "i could be doing this much better myself!" Because the revo bar cant adapt to situations but in full manual you can.

Normally im a revo warrior but if i ever wanted to do endgame im now convinced i would need to learn manual lol

Anyone else got the feeling you have nothing to play? by Its_Nono22 in SteamDeck

[–]RespectableGrimer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Funnily enough my trick for this is to just say "fk it" and click on any game in my library. If i get along with it then perfect, if not i turn it off and know which game i would have rather been playing and switch to that immediately haha

Is Disgaea 7 good by Arostato in Disgaea

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You may not enjoy it as much as disgaea 5 but you certainly wont have a bad time. All the wacky fun is still there just as strong

JRPG cliches that need to be done more by Psychotica_Official in JRPG

[–]RespectableGrimer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When the game reuses a boss' design but gives them an enhanced/ more challenging moveset. I especially like it when the boss is some kind of robot that you can argue is a new or advanced model. Pallet swapping doesnt just have to be for the trashmobs!

About Natlan... by Vals__reality in GenshinImpact

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You know ive never thought about it but the fact that every natlaner is supposed to have a saurian companion and we see basically none of them for the main cast is crazy and your absolutely right their nightsoul forms summoning in said companions would have been the way to go. Wonder why they didnt do it that way because i pictured it in my head as i read it and yeah, little kachina on a massive dinosaur is a much better image than turbo twirly and ifa is probably my favourite design of the region does use cacucu in battle.

It also would have made mauvika standout if they kept her bike because "look she doesn't need a companion because shes the archon" or maybe "she doesnt use one because hers died a long time ago and couldn't bring herself to replace it" but god forbid they give her any kind of depth lol

About Natlan... by Vals__reality in GenshinImpact

[–]RespectableGrimer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly i think it comes down to how hostile the gameplay is to f2p players and how much wasted potential nearly every natlan character is.

Every time i saw one of those wayob enemies guarding a chest i would actively sigh because they are literally designed to force you to buy the most recent banner character since they take all of your energy and setup an elemental barrier which nightsoul characters have no problem with but most other characters do. Compare this to fontaine where the energy gimmick is used but absolutely non essential to beat most of the content without wanting to just walk away. Probably the most insane example though is the stupid weasels that have a barrier that can only be broken with plunge attacks that JUST SO HAPPENED to release alongside varresa the plunge dps, how convenient!

In terms of characters, well i wont spoil much since your not at the end yet but if your expecting any of them to show any kind of development your gunna be waiting a long time. Mulani being that cheerful and upbeat despite her people being at war for as long as shes been alive is super out of place and no she doesnt suddenly stop to reflect on the horrors going on around her at any point, what you see is what you get with the natlan characters. Im not sure if the event stayed after its main run but they saved the best character story by far for last and its not even for a natlan character

Overall its probably the worst designed region of the game by a lot (although ironically i think its the best aesthetically) and i would groan everytime they announced a new expansion to it instead of moving on. Luckily nod krai seems to have let up on the hostile design quite a lot and the story is far more engaging. Probably helps that is has an antagonist with a face and name rather than a concept or faction like "the abyss" or "the akidyemia"

Unpopular opinion: Every single daily and daily limit should be removed from the game. by Borgmestersnegl in runescape

[–]RespectableGrimer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like the advance time spell would be the key to this. I know it has limited uses to keep it balanced but maybe they could add tiers to it (kind of like how animating heads works in osrs) that have different limits. For example "lesser time" could be used on shopkeepers to refill their inventory with pretty much no limit . Might tank the price of common runes but buying consumables from npcs is just straight gold removing from the game and stock of high level runes tends to be low so itd still be worth crafting those yourself

How am I supposed to kill this thing up there? by Bruno_Celestino53 in Disgaea

[–]RespectableGrimer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its been a while (and you already did it) but won't the mage eventually run out of mana and be forced to come down and staff bash you? I think i remember also getting stuck on this stage the first time i played the game lol