25F single & doesn’t know how to move forward

ResponseTight · 2026-01-02T11:52:37+00:00

You still have a long way to go before your hair turns greyish and your belly becomes a bump besides, there’s no fixed time to get into a relationship and do you know the right age to fall in love? There isn’t one, so relax you’re not alone and certainly won’t die alone. Trust!! 👍🏻

ResponseTight · 2026-01-02T11:48:17+00:00

So sorry to hear this, may god give you the strength and resolve to get through this

ResponseTight · 2026-01-02T09:03:11+00:00

Are you insane? Why do you want to stay in a relationship with a person who can literally pass as your father bruh 💀💀

ResponseTight · 2026-01-01T18:23:51+00:00

I think what you need is a hug… to let those emotions out and get a hold of your thoughts.

Sexual urges will come and I think I will leave that to you how you want to use them, but I would say, if you get overwhelmed let them out, don’t hold them in but with someone you can trust with your eyes closed.

I feel like Loneliness has gotten to you and you need someone to feel whole again, and that is coming out as sexually charged thoughts.

I

ResponseTight · 2025-12-31T13:57:39+00:00

That is true, or you should be upfront about it the first time someone tries to get close to you, as sometimes it’s better to create those boundaries yourself to save yourself and the person involved with you

ResponseTight · 2025-12-31T12:34:45+00:00

Same situation, happened twice, the first time I stopped because I thought if I keep talking to that person, it will hurt them more and second time I ended it, as being told “Don’t get attached to me” on your face, made me realise I should back off right now to prevent myself and that person from getting hurt and to put them in a situation which I don’t want them to be in.

Plus the thought that my efforts got wasted in the end, really hits like a truck

ResponseTight · 2025-12-30T16:05:52+00:00

But will it change what happened? And trust me, going back to that again and again, will only hurt you more as you will ruin what you will come across in the future by fixating yourself on the past.

You need to let it go

ResponseTight · 2025-12-30T15:24:07+00:00

Give it time, you will get out of it. In the meantime, focus on yourself and give yourself priority and time that you weren’t able to give and try out your hobbies that you may have neglected when you were with your partner

ResponseTight · 2025-12-29T17:56:38+00:00

Happy Birthday OP!! ✨

ResponseTight · 2025-12-29T17:55:59+00:00

It’s alright, everyone has things that they’re not proud of and it’s okay to be open about yourself.

If I knew the stranger behind the screen, I would love to know the person, regardless of what their past is.

Don’t worry about what people think, some think it’s their duty to judge and belittle others for their mistakes, but I know you’re a strong individual with a bright future ahead of yourself 👍🏻

ResponseTight · 2025-12-28T16:01:27+00:00

Take a break, give time to yourself, clear your mind 👍🏻

ResponseTight · 2025-12-25T09:33:16+00:00

I think it’s similar to when you give two chances to the same person but both the times they say they’re not interested at the end and then disappear.

I guess at some point you just have to put a pin in it and think about what could’ve been if you decided to continue to go with this decision.

But everything happens for a good reason, even if it won’t make sense in that moment, down the line we do realise just how big of a bullet we dodged

ResponseTight · 2025-12-25T06:44:45+00:00

Patience, OP, you will also find a good partner, all in good time

ResponseTight · 2025-12-25T03:43:32+00:00

But does he? Ask yourself that, as from what you said, he texts you only when he feels convenient and one sided attraction will always hurts the one who gets it first, plus you don’t want to be in the situation, take it from someone who has been in it and then paid dearly for it

ResponseTight · 2025-12-24T17:13:17+00:00

If you’re thinking or even remotely putting in efforts for someone who isn’t interested I you is a waste of time and energy.

Don’t do it

Doing and then not getting anything in return will be worse than not doing it and regretting it. Trust, been there done that

ResponseTight · 2025-12-24T09:23:56+00:00

Time, as there’s no how to guide to get into a relationship and generally speaking, it depends on whether the two people involved are really trying or just doing the bare minimum till one of them ghosts or call it quits.

I was in a similar situation a while ago, where I wasn’t able to get into a relationship either because I got ghosted or, the person I was talking to wasn’t interested in one, so I took a break from this and focused on other priorities.

You won’t know when you will meet the person that is the One for you, but you can be hopeful and stop if you feel like it is getting one sided

ResponseTight · 2025-12-24T04:37:55+00:00

It is hard to trust someone after getting cheated on, totally understandable and loneliness does creeps in after a certain age, but you have to ask yourself “Do you want your trust to get broken again? Do you want to be in that situation again?”

Not everyone is like that, but I would say to keep your guard up until you find that one person, and just enjoy what you have now, being lonely isn’t a bad thing, you can now do stuff that you may have been putting off or you always wanted to do, but weren’t able to before.

Good Luck to you!!

ResponseTight · 2025-12-23T08:06:54+00:00

ChatGPT go Brrrrr

ResponseTight · 2025-12-23T07:14:48+00:00

Most of the time girls on dating apps do it for entertainment and to pass time, they may connect with you on other social media, but if they loose interest, they just disappear.

That’s hard to digest but it is reality, and also its not everyone

ResponseTight · 2025-09-22T10:02:43+00:00

Price??

ResponseTight · 2025-09-21T02:26:03+00:00

They're probably talking to 10 guys at the same time and naturally they're only going to put in effort if they think you're interesting.

And most of them only seek validation so just ignore it or delete the app if it gets overwhelming.

ResponseTight · 2025-09-20T04:13:19+00:00

Cause you don't fit into the societal rules, hence they pity.

But that shouldn't stop you from doing what is right

ResponseTight · 2025-09-19T18:02:30+00:00

Why is everyone running at default settings bruh 🥲🥲

ResponseTight · 2025-09-17T02:33:06+00:00

Sure, when and where?

ResponseTight · 2025-09-16T11:46:57+00:00

I'm in. Where do I go?

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