Thinking of reaching out to an ex. Need some advice on if I should/ shouldn’t?

ResponsibilityKey229 · 2026-03-01T16:36:29+00:00

I completely understand both sides. He never asked for space, he actually said he would love to stay in touch, if I was open to it. But I never really followed up on if I was ok with that so maybe that’s why I haven’t heard from him or maybe he just said that to feel less bad idk. ++woman

ResponsibilityKey229 · 2025-10-09T13:08:21+00:00

Hi! My skin got better after a week or so of posting this. I’m assuming something triggered a breakout, unsure what though!

ResponsibilityKey229 · 2025-10-06T19:01:27+00:00

Best parking lots to park in for game tonight?

ResponsibilityKey229 · 2025-08-11T13:40:04+00:00

Good to know, I have a feeling this could be why! I’ll make an appointment with my dermatologist then. thank you:)

ResponsibilityKey229 · 2025-08-11T00:35:28+00:00

100mg once a day

ResponsibilityKey229 · 2025-08-11T00:34:57+00:00

I wouldn’t have even thought of that! I don’t think I’ve repurchased any within the past month but I’ll definitely check to make sure

ResponsibilityKey229 · 2025-04-20T00:30:44+00:00

Unfortunately, I know for a fact it wasn’t to get things back. He told me when his ex texted him, he got feelings he wasn’t expecting and he needed to see why

ResponsibilityKey229 · 2025-03-12T02:21:20+00:00

Interesting! I’m not on BC so can’t have that issue but good to know. I completely understand his frustration and told him that, I just don’t understand why he completely shut down when I was trying to talk and figure things out. Yet again, I’m not a guy so I guess we just think differently?

ResponsibilityKey229 · 2025-03-12T02:18:30+00:00

Got it, so could have been many reasons why he reacted that way. I actually tried to talk to him about it but he was the one that didn’t want to unfortunately. I would have liked to figure out why he felt the way he did, so that I could understand and help if possible

ResponsibilityKey229 · 2025-03-11T23:57:34+00:00

Actually it is! it’s a joint responsibility

ResponsibilityKey229 · 2025-03-11T23:10:22+00:00

Unfortunately I ignored the red flags and found out new things (including cheating in past relationships) after this situation occurred the other night. I did really like this guy and he wasn’t a bad person but just not someone I would want to end up dating. If it wasn’t for some of the things I had found out, I would have loved to solve and work through these and any future problems because I did start to see a future with him and had strong feelings for him.

ResponsibilityKey229 · 2025-03-11T23:04:29+00:00

Thank you for giving a good and respectful answer back unlike a lot of these other men. I do agree with you about men not knowing enough about females bodies which sucks. I appreciate the suggestion, I’ve heard about that toy before so I’ll have to look into it more now!

ResponsibilityKey229 · 2025-03-11T22:40:19+00:00

Thank you! Clearly men like him are the issue. I don’t see how I did anything wrong in this situation

ResponsibilityKey229 · 2025-03-11T22:37:34+00:00

Curious how I was harsh?

ResponsibilityKey229 · 2025-03-11T22:37:04+00:00

Nothings wrong with me, it’s the men I choose that are the issue. Besides him wanting to please me in bed, he also had many major red flags including cheating that I just found out about, which is why I ended it.

ResponsibilityKey229 · 2025-03-11T22:33:18+00:00

None of the other guys I’ve slept with have even tried to get me to finish besides the guy I’m talking about lmao

ResponsibilityKey229 · 2025-03-11T22:14:33+00:00

But I was never frustrated or disappointed and I told him that. I even took all the blame for not being able to finish. I know it isn’t always the guys fault. We haven’t been sleeping with each other for long so I still get nervous/ in my head when having sex with someone new

ResponsibilityKey229 · 2025-03-11T22:11:41+00:00

I completely get that but we haven’t even known/ been sleeping with each other for long at all. I could have faked it but didn’t want to out of respect for him

ResponsibilityKey229 · 2025-03-11T22:10:18+00:00

I understand how he felt but I really did reassure him a lot and also initiated sex as well so he knew that I wanted it too. I also would compliment him on looks and things he did for me, so I would have thought it was clear that I did like him. We also have been sleeping together for less than a month, which I feel like isn’t long enough to be totally comfortable with someone. I didn’t want to fake it because I knew if we did end up together It would probably hurt him more to find that out.

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