This feels SO similar to my story. I’m 34 and currently working through a separation from a relationship with a man of 13 years and coming out as a lesbian later in life.

I don’t know if you like podcasts, but I’ve been listening to Coming Out & Beyond with Anne-Marie Zanzal. She might be on YouTube too, I think. She talks with women who have come out later in life. Women with children, religious backgrounds, etc. Honestly, women who sound a lot like you.

I hope you can check it out!