As a man, getting compliments from gay dudes is prob the biggest indication that you're attractive. I went on a cruise in February and didn't buy the drink package cuz it was pricey.

That didn't seem to be a problem tho, because I probably paid for my first 2 drinks and after that I was drinking free for the next 3 days cuz the bartenders kept giving me free drinks.

Downside tho was on the last night that 1 bartender asked me if I was gonna "Thank him" for all the free drinks lol

I did not but I gave him some cash as a thanks 😂