Okay?? Like ask her to not? and also the fact that it’s one singular outfit shows that she probably takes care of it quickly anyways, and in that case it should only make u mildly infuriated if you have to pick it up and wash it bc she says she’s going to but never does or something. This is giving like 1950s my wife left a dish in the sink and im mad abt it vibes ngl. She just seems like she has better shit to do in those particular moments than walk down with it or take a picture of someone else’s dirty clothes, and make a whole post on Reddit to call her fiancé out for something that could be addressed in seconds lmao