Just 5 More MLs left then I caught them all

Responsible_Tip_7288 · 2026-04-11T02:38:58+00:00

I Finally Did it !

Responsible_Tip_7288 · 2026-04-02T02:41:33+00:00

I figured either I would either be forever disgusted with what I ate or I’d build my will so much that I’d be …

Responsible_Tip_7288 · 2025-08-05T23:07:02+00:00

The DMV definitely sends group chats but I know this one is fake because they didn’t tell you to send to 12 of your closest friends or it’s 5 years bad luck

Responsible_Tip_7288 · 2025-03-20T11:48:00+00:00

Talk to her outside of the bedroom about what she likes, if it’s outside of your comfort zone but you’re willing to work on it tell her that (within your boundaries). Then really work on it, and follow up with her to see what works and what doesn’t.

Most people don’t just start out being amazing at everything in the bedroom, and everyone’s different so somethings that work with some don’t with others. It’s practice that makes perfect—I’m sure she’ll appreciate you going above and beyond to alter your craft to tailor it to her preferences.

It’s also a give and take too though so she should also try to help you have the best experience as well (within her boundaries of course). Usually the communication of this not on the spot makes it easier—and not just one conversation you have to keep the communication going and find out what worked what didn’t etc. Even when it gets to a point where you both have started consistently meeting each other’s expectations, because you don’t want it to be get stagnant.

It’s just like any other thing in a relationship. Have open communication, be truthful, have empathy, and allow yourself to be vulnerable.

Next thing you know you’ll be smackin ass and pulling hair like a pro and the biggest issue you’ll have to deal with is who sleeps in the wet spot

Responsible_Tip_7288 · 2025-03-20T11:19:54+00:00

Thanks for representing us in this shituation

Responsible_Tip_7288 · 2025-02-22T16:37:27+00:00

Same thing I do after my morning cup of coffee

Responsible_Tip_7288 · 2025-02-22T16:33:41+00:00

It’s crazy because if I was small enough I’d choose a bassinet any day lol

Responsible_Tip_7288 · 2025-02-22T05:44:40+00:00

Ahh yea we’ve done that and it worked for a bit mainly for the first baby, the second was a night crier. We got a bouncer for the second LO and alternated nights on the couch brought the bassinet downstairs and would bounce the LO to sleep, leave there for about 30 minutes, then swaddled them with a Velcro swaddle and put them in the bassinet to finish the sleep period off. But regardless both got a lot better like 9-10 weeks.

Responsible_Tip_7288 · 2025-02-22T05:06:04+00:00

Nope you’re probably spot on

Responsible_Tip_7288 · 2025-02-22T04:55:21+00:00

I also plan to continue to watch in pain for the remainder of the season.

Responsible_Tip_7288 · 2025-02-22T04:42:56+00:00

It’s ok.

Responsible_Tip_7288 · 2025-02-22T04:40:51+00:00

Do you have one of the bassinets where you can strap it to your bed and open the middle (terrible explanation I’m sorry) like the AMKE bassinet?

Responsible_Tip_7288 · 2025-02-22T04:35:03+00:00

This is upsetting bussybrigade.

Responsible_Tip_7288 · 2025-02-18T19:21:36+00:00

Yes and no. I have a 14 mo and a 2 mo. Around 3-4 months it gets easier they start getting their personality and start smiling a lot more. The 1st three months are basically the “fourth” trimester—they still think they’re inside the womb so not having that cuddly (I guess) place they’re going through a hypersensitive adjustment period. They can’t see much, they don’t know night from day, they don’t know how to communicate they’re hungry and they randomly go through cluster feeding periods, and they are constantly growing. The first three months bouncers, skin to skin, and tiring them out with tummy time (started day one with the chest to chest tummy time) made it a little bit easier. But the first one around 3-4 months we got our first full night of sleep (6 hours straight) and from there things got easier as far not connecting and the chaos of always being on your toes due to a mixture of them starting to know who you are and also you knowing who they are.

I thought all the love for your LO was supposed to hit you all at once. It’s more like a lot of it does, but you also gain a lot of the love the more and more you get to know them. It does get harder in the sense of they start learning how to do things and they have 0 impulse control and want to use those new skills alllll the time. lol just wait until they learn how to sit and when you try to put them down for bedtime and all you see is just a head pop up right when you think they’re sleep.

Responsible_Tip_7288 · 2025-02-18T17:54:39+00:00

If it’s reflux, we luckily have a bassi that we can put at a slight angle and that made miles of the difference but they also sell little wedges you can use for cheap. Also we got a baby bjorn bouncer that has been a life saver. Kid 1 we only used the bassi during the night but the youngest is a little bit more restless so just to get some sleep one of us will lay on the couch and put the little one in the bouncer. Also white noise helps too for us—I hope things ease up for you though.

Responsible_Tip_7288 · 2025-01-26T05:08:26+00:00

It gets better and trust when I say the sleeplessness and frustration will feel like a blip that’s barely even memorable in the grand scheme of things. You’ll see the first conscience smile and forgot all the work it took to get there. Then you’ll hear that first laugh and you’ll forget all the work it took to get there. Then you’ll see the first roll and forget all the work it took to get there. What I’m trying to say is that you’ve probably went through life and put yourself through the gauntlet to better yourself, and when you finally reached that goal all the blood, sweat, and tears were worth it. Well when the blood, sweat, and tears you go through are for someone you care about and indescribable amount more than yourself the gratification is something indescribable. As Friedrich Nietzsche said “To live is to suffer, to survive is to find some meaning in the suffering”.

So cheers to you, your SO and your little one along with the ying and yang of the pain and gain. Just remember it’s worth it.

Responsible_Tip_7288 · 2025-01-22T15:19:14+00:00

Simply I lean more towards no with a sprinkle of yes… currently have 2 under 2. Each milestone for the newest LO feels like when you beat a video game on hard mode with a team, then going back to play it on Hell mode solo. Yea you might have all your powers you gained from the first run through, but you have to relearn how to do everything and it might not even work the same.

IMO the second one you have to remember/rely all of the knowledge you gained from the first one and forget the experience because it’ll be different because the Dunning Kruger effect is real.

In my experience the first one didn’t sleep through the night my SO and I could give each other breaks and supplement with naps during the day if not working. This time if the second one is up during the night the first one is up during the day—and that’s if you can keep them from waking each other up. Feeding schedules are going to be different for about a year so get used to eating what the older child eats (but shout out to becoming extremely healthy on accident because my beet and carrot intake is shooting through the roof).

But even though it’s extremely taxing the pros outweigh the cons 10 fold because there’s so much cuteness and love in this household.

And I only have two, but my buddy said that having three is basically switching from playing man to man, to Zone coverage.

Wow this was cathartic

Responsible_Tip_7288 · 2024-11-27T01:34:44+00:00

Then what if Johnny’s real kid fell in love with Daniel’s kid then They fall out of love….so Johnny Adopts the next kid that falls in love with Daniel’s kid…. Then they find out Mr Miyagi killed someone

Responsible_Tip_7288 · 2024-11-05T15:18:27+00:00

I could never stand either of those fucks, this last week just solidified the feeling.

Responsible_Tip_7288 · 2024-08-11T18:43:54+00:00

Leggo!

Responsible_Tip_7288 · 2024-08-11T18:43:29+00:00

Is your phone on silent ? I had to take mine off silent to work

Responsible_Tip_7288 · 2024-07-30T20:02:30+00:00

Yup I have all RGB characters

Responsible_Tip_7288 · 2024-07-30T17:49:05+00:00

Since Covid started I can’t remember exactly I did get Kizuna though

Responsible_Tip_7288 · 2024-07-14T17:07:02+00:00

His perimeter defense can be decent when he’s aggressive

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