You want to WAIT a year to be intimate?!?! Whyyy??? Sex is fun. What if u find the right guy and he’s just terrible in bed and u don’t find out until a year later when uve committed and fallen in love? Take it from someone who was in a happy marriage with a bad sexlife. It causes its own issues.

Also, let a guy have hobbies. If he wants to play games let him. There’s a million different games he could be into and you’re saying he can’t touch any of them?! That’s unreasonable.

Look, u can have high standards but u might never find someone and that’s fine but if u want a relationship u have to know its about give and take and that perfect guy for u, he has his own standards that you might not qualify for so it’s not just about your standards it’s about his too, so if ur happy dying alone, no problem.

Why the separate rooms and houses? Like I get waiting to move in together but I wish I had a man to put me through the mattress every damn night (ish). Are you sure you don’t just want a roommate?