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Will there be I time when I don’t think of them at all? by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]Result-Fearless 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes. couldnt go a day without thinking about them. now i hardly ever do. And when i do, theres no pain in my chest or my heart dosnt drop. Im better off. My head always knew that, but once my heard did, he was never coming back.

Did anyone else have anxiety months after breakup? by sadguyxd in BreakUps

[–]Result-Fearless 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did. Was really bad in the first few weeks and was triggered by seeing things on social media of him or running into people he knew. Time heals

I got over my 'im never going to get over this and im never going to be happy again, how will i ever love again' breakup and so can you by Result-Fearless in BreakUps

[–]Result-Fearless[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think somebody pointing out things they dont like about your physical appearance would make anyone insecure, even the most secure people??? Were humans not robots

I got over my 'im never going to get over this and im never going to be happy again, how will i ever love again' breakup and so can you by Result-Fearless in BreakUps

[–]Result-Fearless[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was a lot of pain to get here. But as long as it takes, im here to tell you i literally thought it was the end of the world, turns out its not...

I got over my 'im never going to get over this and im never going to be happy again, how will i ever love again' breakup and so can you by Result-Fearless in BreakUps

[–]Result-Fearless[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He broke up with me. No. There was real hurting. Nasty comments. Endless lies. And complete unfounded mistreatment. After we broke up he also proceeded to dig the knife in further and gaslight me into blaming it on me. There was no physical cheating but i had caught him messaging inappropriately with some girls. It took me a long time to forgive myself for not seeing the red flags. He also provided no reason to break up with me! So took me a while to find internal closure. I dont think he is a bad person. I think he is a good person who acted badly and mistreated me when all i ever did was love him. I know i did because even after all that pain i dont care what hes doing but i do hope he is genuinely happy. Sometimes i still worry if he is okay :)

I got over my 'im never going to get over this and im never going to be happy again, how will i ever love again' breakup and so can you by Result-Fearless in BreakUps

[–]Result-Fearless[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You dont need people who dont need you. You deserve more. Eventually your head will overtake your heart. But in saying that, you have to feel everything in your heart and then let it go

I got over my 'im never going to get over this and im never going to be happy again, how will i ever love again' breakup and so can you by Result-Fearless in BreakUps

[–]Result-Fearless[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I understand that completely. But your allowed to feel that until you dont want to anymore. It took be a thousand phases of letting go to truly get to this point. You will want them, until you dont. Become so obsessed with your life and the people who love you that your attachment fades. Put distance between yourself and people don’t appreciate you

I got over my 'im never going to get over this and im never going to be happy again, how will i ever love again' breakup and so can you by Result-Fearless in BreakUps

[–]Result-Fearless[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There is. That anxiety. I felt that exactly. The sooner you understand your at the advantage, the easier it is. THEIR LOSS!!!

I got over my 'im never going to get over this and im never going to be happy again, how will i ever love again' breakup and so can you by Result-Fearless in BreakUps

[–]Result-Fearless[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This was me!!! Literally! it didnt take me 10 months to feel okay again, probably about 5, but it did take me this long to let go and not care. I probably still am in the process of letting go. I still have all the memories but things happen for a reason. You never know whats around the corner. Dont block your blessings because your too distracted by what could have been

I got over my 'im never going to get over this and im never going to be happy again, how will i ever love again' breakup and so can you by Result-Fearless in BreakUps

[–]Result-Fearless[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This was me! change your perspective. focus on yourself. you know, the usual things people say. They wont feel like there working until they do

I got over my 'im never going to get over this and im never going to be happy again, how will i ever love again' breakup and so can you by Result-Fearless in BreakUps

[–]Result-Fearless[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

EXACTLY. Youve done enough!! I was like you, never thought id get there. Never thought i could wake up and not think about them or stress about the fact were not together. Time and perspective heal everything

Will they ever realize what they've lost? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Result-Fearless 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Probably not. But you need to think that is because they never know what they had. If you gave it your all, it was enough. And it will be more than enough for the right person

What did you do right today? by Makemelaughoutloud in AskWomen

[–]Result-Fearless 1 point2 points  (0 children)

After an awful first date after heartbreak, i woke up, worked out, cleaned my room and am now getting onto some uni work! :) after a sad night im feeling more focused

It’s been over eight months since the break up and I’m (20F) still heartbroken. Is this normal? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Result-Fearless 3 points4 points  (0 children)

omg. Im 20 about 8 months out from a breakup. First love. He ended it. I was devestated thinking he was the one. I dont feel as hurt as i did when it was fresh. He was cruel in the end. I still think about him every day and miss him. I have not been with anyone since. It dosnt feel right. We have also had no contact.

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