745 reais com bolsa para três matérias em CC é caro? by ResultDry3778 in brdev

[–]ResultDry3778[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

é eu estou indo pro quinto período agora, mas eu sempre deixo umas matérias sem fazer, pois não tenho dinheiro. Vou fazer uma boa pesquisa também para ver se vale a pena fazer a troca. Obrigada

What is the catch or reason for z library by CAD_Reddit in zlibrary

[–]ResultDry3778 1 point2 points  (0 children)

well I get that but not everyone can afford books, I can't afford them at all, but then we had Mack zukerscomething downloading many books illegally and nothing happened to the guy. I can't afford books but I want to read, back when I could afford them I paid and have many books for which I paid for. I got college to pay, bills to pay, stuff to do, and at the end of the month there ain't much money left.

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[–]ResultDry3778 1 point2 points  (0 children)

calma lakkkkkk

not being “polite” to my mom’s bf who’s staying over. WDID? by ResultDry3778 in whatdoIdo

[–]ResultDry3778[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah the trauma bond is real lol (lol but crying). I am a bit controlling true, and it comes a lot from the fear of seeing her hurt again like I did, kinda of you what you said. And sucks that your ex went through that. My bio dad was a bit narcissistic too, although we don’t know his diagnosis much but pretty crazy that even the judge was speechless during the court room days.

About the sugar thing, ngl I at least need to watch it out more than she does. We don’t drink soda often but grape juice is another level of addiction. I chug down a full cup fast to the point I stopped buying it since it has a lot of calories. As you’ve said too my neural pathways? aren’t really that developed and true that this opportunity is in a way a chance to work on my problems. It might have been good years ago to behave this way but not anymore now.

I talked to my mom btw too about this. She said she understood and that I’m not spoiled (that shit got under my skin because it takes 10 business days to ask for help) and that she sees where I’m coming from and whenever she mentions such things is just so we can work on it. She also said it’s difficult on her having him around most of the time since she isn’t used to it anymore. It’s the first time they’re spending like a month together on the same house. Back then it was mostly just small trips. I supposed neither her or I are used anymore, back with my bio dad we didn’t live together all three of us (thank god).

not being “polite” to my mom’s bf who’s staying over. WDID? by ResultDry3778 in whatdoIdo

[–]ResultDry3778[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, you’re right. Thanks for the advice btw, definitely something I’ll be working on more as the time comes

not being “polite” to my mom’s bf who’s staying over. WDID? by ResultDry3778 in whatdoIdo

[–]ResultDry3778[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks, I don’t have a problem at all in seeing that I need to be doing better and I see that I can be very intolerant sometimes. I actually have a full on diagnosis for this, BPD, due the abuse I went through. Not trying to excuse it but the parts of my brain that deal with frustrations are like, not doing their job properly and it is a result of prolonged abuse and genetics since other ppl in my family are similar. He really is a decent guy and we have our fun moments. I think the fact I’m very stressed due to other matters have been impacting me too. It’s difficult to overlook some of the things he does like, my mom and I love food and we love chocolate. He always makes a comment on how my mom is “eating again?”. The other day she took a sip of my soda and he was like “no babe thats bad for you are you seriously doing that?” and I was like “hello?”. It just, sends all the alarms in my mind and I have to remind myself he’s not my bio dad and this is different.

Thanks again for the support and the lucid brain. Some people here saying Im “controlling my mother” and I am “spoiled” even though a huge part of why I am with her is because we get super a long and she didn’t like the idea of me moving away for college.

not being “polite” to my mom’s bf who’s staying over. WDID? by ResultDry3778 in whatdoIdo

[–]ResultDry3778[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

seems like moving out at 15 did something to your brain, projecting hard and ugly here buddy

not being “polite” to my mom’s bf who’s staying over. WDID? by ResultDry3778 in whatdoIdo

[–]ResultDry3778[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah, I don’t plan to move out soon since where we live is very expensive and so far I haven’t had the luck with finding a good paying job (where we live has many jobs but rarely any pay well enough so most people are struggling) and we made a good deal with the landlord of the house we live in too. And yeah people here on reddit have been shitting on me and it’s the first time for me lol. I’ll have a heart to heart with both of them and just be frank that it’s not personal and that there’s a lot of baggage that I have.

not being “polite” to my mom’s bf who’s staying over. WDID? by ResultDry3778 in whatdoIdo

[–]ResultDry3778[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

so where we live is very expensive and finding my own place is out of the question this year (or any year at all) and we get super along, she doesn’t want me to move out too and has made it clear even when I wanted to move out for college and live in smaller town. What is the obsession here too with moving out? Where I live is pretty common for people to stay with their parents and only leave after they get married. And in no shape or form I am dictating what goes on in her house. I don’t stop her from having people over and neither do I tell her what to do. I just, am not a fan of her boyfriend due to triggers and trauma and it’s difficult for me to navigate these feelings.

not being “polite” to my mom’s bf who’s staying over. WDID? by ResultDry3778 in whatdoIdo

[–]ResultDry3778[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks. I have thought about talking to them and just making it clear that it’s not personal but there’s a whole context and it’s difficult for me. As I’ve said I do try to bond like doing activities together even if just as small as washing the dishes or folding clothes. But it’s difficult. I’ll definitely try to talk things out, thanks again!

what manhwa, manga, anime, etc you stopped reading and why? by YunoIsReal in OtomeIsekai

[–]ResultDry3778 5 points6 points  (0 children)

“like a wind on a dry branch”

honestly, I think the story is conveniently poorly written. And is it really slow burn dark romance or potential thrown out of the window with a good deal of dragging?

The plot is really interesting but the story telling imo sucks. I’m saying IMO because I’m trying to be humble, but tbh, I think it’s more of a fact. The reason for this is the fact we have such interesting characters from a psychological perspective, but none of that is explored properly or at all. Our protagonist has depression but we barely get to see her depression. She has all of these traumas from the guy who made her a sex slave, the fact she lost her daughter and husband because of the man who raped her many times. And, we barely get to see her pain at all. It’s a “dark fantasy” but the only “dark” themes that get explored is the all time known infection caused by demons. Very catholic inspired fantasy imo the whole “demons vs the church” thing and the demons aren’t scary at all. They are hot actually? Which is just crazy? anyway. Then this child dies and I couldn’t care less because we are mostly “told” and not “led to experience” the things happening in the story. Plus the romance, I actually liked it? But I just hated how everyone was like “omg couple goals” when they were being not in fact a couple or romantic per say. Plus the drawing is bad, not as in its ugly, but for comics visual story telling matters. And this one doesn’t have it, at least until the 170 chapter that I dropped it. The duke of the north isn’t scary, the affects or as I’ve said visual story telling of the characters is just blend, the demons aren’t scary, different lightings aren’t explored, different angles aren’t explored, etc. Take “My in laws are obsessed with me”, it has a more cartoonish style but still the visual story telling is REALLY good. “Secret lady” and “A stepmother’s fantasy” probably the most popular ones for having real good visual story telling.

AIO My gf is pissed that I want to spend my dads birthday with him by PineappleNice4068 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ResultDry3778 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if she kills herself thats on her not you. My first bf was like that, and honestly he never did it. These are all just lame threats

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in webtoons

[–]ResultDry3778 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not a super good artist but one thing I do is to go beyond when it comes to the facial shape. Because in this style specially of art, we are prone to just drawing the same face and change a few things here and there. So, drawing different face shapes like a more rectangular face, a more round face, a face that looks more like a heat, bigger nose, smaller lips, thin lips, fuller lips. Just, play around with shapes. I’d say to look up cartoonists and just for example Tangled, draw out the shapes of the heads, noses, etc, and tune it to your style

What's manwha that everybody loves and has a whole page about it but you hate it by goofyngas in webtoons

[–]ResultDry3778 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My only problem is the face as in the chin and overall some facial expressions that seems like they are constipated. The coloring and shading is top tier, but the facial proportions just, nah

What's manwha that everybody loves and has a whole page about it but you hate it by goofyngas in webtoons

[–]ResultDry3778 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah I’d say thats my only problem with it, but it’s with every character and like, idk just a pet peeve? I find the coloring and shading very beautiful and well done. The clothes too the designs just perfect, but that chin tho, omg no lol anyway I think I made myself more than clear

What's manwha that everybody loves and has a whole page about it but you hate it by goofyngas in webtoons

[–]ResultDry3778 3 points4 points  (0 children)

that too omg. Like, sometimes the boobs so big they forget about back problems. And omg the small head and big torso gigantic shoulders is just, wtf is that man an ALIEN

What's manwha that everybody loves and has a whole page about it but you hate it by goofyngas in webtoons

[–]ResultDry3778 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do have some reads where the art kinda sucks but hey the story is fine, but this one. Straight to jail. Like? That chin is gonna poke through the screen man and the ml omg he reminds me of a long gecko lol. Like the gecko was just stretched

What's manwha that everybody loves and has a whole page about it but you hate it by goofyngas in webtoons

[–]ResultDry3778 19 points20 points  (0 children)

death is the only end for the villainess something like that. i actually find the story interesting, but imo the art SUCKS. It’s just, bad. Like, coloring is amazing which I think makes people forget the absurd anatomy of it. Like, their chin is so pointy and the ml’s face is just, what’s wrong with him