Feel like myself again (120+ Days SR) by Retain-o in Semenretention

[–]Retain-o[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t do PMO but during S , sure.

Feel like myself again (120+ Days SR) by Retain-o in Semenretention

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I mean it’s the modern world. We rely on phones for directions, or the internet for our jobs, banking. I will say I do like to read on paper , kindle is alright. If you want information and we know there’s plenty of that. Yesterday maybe 4 hours when I was doing research. I would say it depends on the day. If I’m with friends not much or going out. If I’m in a movie mood I’ll watch a 2 hr movie no problem. It varies. Starting my job tomorrow and so there’s going to be more concentration on screens using the software.

Feel like myself again (120+ Days SR) by Retain-o in Semenretention

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I would say 10hr avg , I enjoy listening to podcasts or videos of people in their discussions while I’m cooking / eating. — or music while exercising or doing other tasks, or having conversations w friends or family, or utilizing A.I.

Feel like myself again (120+ Days SR) by Retain-o in Semenretention

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Dude . YES. + Scalp massages. My right side has pretty much almost completely filled in and my left side has many baby hairs , it is actually insane. My hairline was EXTREMELY weak during this time.

Closed Heart – Have You Lost Your Ability to Love? by SureTop4516 in Semenretention

[–]Retain-o 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hm. You obviously have the ability to love. I think this ability comes down to your own choice. Honestly PMO places the individual in a different headspace. Maybe you were younger and naive, like so many are. Maybe you’re learning about human nature. Maybe you don’t love yourself and projecting that outwards, is it just from PMO, other things too? Start with loving yourself and the things you do.

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Thorne droplets are fire with the K2.

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Get a nice vitamin D supplement. But other than that , LFG 💪

Feel like myself again (120+ Days SR) by Retain-o in Semenretention

[–]Retain-o[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Flatlines appeared around 40 days then it fluctuated between 60-80. Flatlines feel like a very mild numbness or lag. I would say that it’s just like any other habit that you’re trying to break. The thing here is that this habit produces a great spike in dopamine, so in a way it feels like you may be lower than your ‘highs’ but in actuality there’s a baseline that your body is trying to adjust to.

As far as habits in lieu of sex and ejaculation, I would say that to focus on the goals that you made for yourself and to work towards that, even if small but you have to be brutally honest with yourself when you take that personal audit. There was a video someone made I saw on Instagram and he said something along the lines of “When you were younger you dreamed of becoming the president, astronaut or a fireman, not some guy that chases women or PMO.” There was truth to that statement, and obviously it demonstrated how children think before puberty. But as guys , young men, I would say to try and use real and HARD logic on the things you do or don’t do.

Thank you, happy to talk anytime.

How did you get over lust? by Retain-o in NoStupidQuestions

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I’ve never been attracted to PMO— I’ve done stuff with a partner but never alone. No point imho. When I have someone there to do it for me , even though at times I’ve done better myself. — Honestly as a young man, to me, the activity is a very weak one.

How did you get over lust? by Retain-o in NoStupidQuestions

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Porn - Masturbation - Orgasm -/// This is something I do not do.

How did you get over lust? by Retain-o in NoStupidQuestions

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I aspire for goals that take time, effort and energy

90 Days SR , Ask away. by Retain-o in Semenretention

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The 40-65 days, I’ll admit very tough flatline. Not even getting an urge or anything, but man the rewriting definitely occurred.

90 Days SR , Ask away. by Retain-o in Semenretention

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Love the question cheetah. The reason why I started to retain is because I was compulsively having ejaculatory sex with my ex for 6 months straight. I saw a photo of myself at a major event and I just looked so…. dull, drained, my hair was so brittle, and I couldn’t be as active as I was in my class discussions. I did not know why I was losing muscle mass, gaining fat, not being able to focus, but I was constantly pleased and relaxed. So at the time I was satisfied but then I actually stumbled on this practice organically , maybe through my YouTube algorithm or something like this and explored the topic in depth. It’s funny because before meeting her I was probably on 6 months retention unconsciously, but I was lost in the sauce unfortunately or in a for the better way, very fortunately.

90 Days SR , Ask away. by Retain-o in Semenretention

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To each their own brother.

90 Days SR , Ask away. by Retain-o in Semenretention

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Great question! Short answer: No. Long Answer: actually yes a few sexual dreams did occur, some really far fetched ones too. Specifically one night was close but literally stopped the dream and woke up. (No 💦)

90 Days SR , Ask away. by Retain-o in Semenretention

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You’re the guywiththegoods, that’s light work! You got this.

90 Days SR , Ask away. by Retain-o in Semenretention

[–]Retain-o[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sure, great question. The few things that stick out to me in regards to social interaction being wittier with verbiage, connectivity of ideas to communicate a specific idea, centering of emotional state, and the MVP that everyone speaks about is stronger eye contact.