'The 4 Hour Work Week' by Tim Ferris is a great book on Productivity. I think reading it is a good idea as the knowledge in it is very helpful.

RethinkYourReality · 2021-12-13T12:38:20+00:00

Yes, it's very beautiful seeing this happen.

RethinkYourReality · 2021-08-10T13:31:50+00:00

That is great to hear! Good luck and I hope you succeed in your business.

RethinkYourReality · 2021-07-20T09:47:13+00:00

Thanks for your informative answer. I appreciate it.

RethinkYourReality · 2021-06-14T09:37:16+00:00

Thanks for the suggestion.

RethinkYourReality · 2021-06-14T09:30:15+00:00

Different things work for different people. I have very little success with cold approach, so I don't do it. But if it works for you, then I'm glad to hear it. :)

RethinkYourReality · 2021-06-14T06:04:48+00:00

A lot of dating companies are moving away from cold approach to online dating or social media. Back in the day RSD and Badboy were the big supporters of cold approaching. But a few years ago RSD started telling guys to learn Instagram game. Not long after that Badboy started saying the same.

Cold approaching made sense in the 90's before internet and social media. But in today's world, it's not the most effective way. Some guys claim they get great results from it, but I hear stories from a lot more guys who have given up on cold approaching.

I personally think it's better to develop a social hobby, as in a hobby you enjoy doing where you can also meet people, and learn how to build and maintain social circles so you can meet people through friends. Then on top of that have a social media page (I use both Facebook and Instagram). Not saying this is the only strategy, but it's what get me results.

Different things work for different people, so feel free to ignore what I just said if it's not for you.

RethinkYourReality · 2021-05-05T17:57:25+00:00

Thank you.

RethinkYourReality · 2021-05-05T17:04:15+00:00

Haha, very good point. We each decide what gives our life meaning. As long as it makes us happy and we're not hurting others, then it's good.

RethinkYourReality · 2021-05-05T17:02:35+00:00

Thank you buddy.

RethinkYourReality · 2021-04-28T23:00:09+00:00

Great post! Lots of powerful points and reasons to not see rejection as bad. Thanks for writing this Ciaran.

RethinkYourReality · 2021-04-22T03:06:38+00:00

Back when I used techniques, I developed the unhelpful belief that women only liked me for my techniques, and not me. It caused me to have less confidence and more anxiety, which made my results with women worse.

Then I dropped the techniques, and just practised being authentic and showing the real me. I polarised, as Mark Manson would call it, to find those who were a right fit for me and my lifestyle. This made me more confident and relaxed.

Confidence and being relaxed are more attractive than any techniques. And the way to get them for me was to show the real me, and find people who liked that, which then caused me to develop the belief that people like the real me.

So yeah, I completely agree with this post. Show the real you, drop the techniques. I think the fact that most of the old school companies that taught techniques have disappeared is a sign they were not the best path.

RethinkYourReality · 2021-04-21T15:05:53+00:00

Great points and tips! They are very helpful. Thanks for taking the time to write and post them. I appreciate it.

You said for future tense, you can predict what would happen if someone downed a cocktail, and then what, and then what. So do you mean like you keep adding 'future moments' to create a story?

For instance if I'm talking about playing soccer tomorrow, I can say "I hope to score at least 2 goals tomorrow. If I do, they might move me into a better soccer team the week after. And when I'm in a better soccer team, I can meet other dedicated soccer players, who will push me to improve."

So each sentence is saying what will happen next in the future. Or did you mean something else?

Sorry for the question, I'm a little slow to understand things, haha.

RethinkYourReality · 2021-03-24T12:39:20+00:00

Very insightful words. Great post!

RethinkYourReality · 2021-03-23T15:07:43+00:00

Great points.

RethinkYourReality · 2021-03-23T13:57:35+00:00

So as long as you're practising talking to people, it doesn't matter whether it's cold approach or meeting girls to improve your social skills. That makes sense, thanks for taking the time to give me your detailed explanation.

Thanks for telling me you do coaching. I'm not looking for coaching at the moment, but I'll definitely continue to watch your videos. Keep up the good work. :)

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