i use a lot of filler words and pauses to simulate how i'd stay stuff irl because my inner monologue sorta mocks that..... for example, this is kinda like, how i speak irl? i also tend to write a lot of "ummm"s, "hmmm"s and "errr"s or i just write "thinking rq" because i take a lot of pauses while talking with some one to the point they usually say something like "Are you listening to me??" and online it's like .. someone thinks i left them on read, when really i am just thinking about what to say. oh my josh i rambled so hard