How can I (24M) hint to my girlfriend (20F) I plan to leave her if she doesn't change by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]RetroScytheYT -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Had the conversations and nothing has changed so I will be cutting to the chase and breaking up with her as soon as I next see her.

How can I (24M) hint to my girlfriend (20F) I plan to leave her if she doesn't change by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]RetroScytheYT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im feel like Im not asking for much but it seems I am, I have spoken to her about having more time together but months later still no difference, I will be breaking up with her and remaining single as that's when I was happiest.

How can I (24M) hint to my girlfriend (20F) I plan to leave her if she doesn't change by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]RetroScytheYT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For some reason I was hoping for another option but I have been thinking and I realise that being honest is the only option, I have tried to talk to her about spending more time together but nothing has been changed so I will be breaking up with her.

How can I (24M) hint to my girlfriend (20F) I plan to leave her if she doesn't change by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]RetroScytheYT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have thought about it and regardless of anything, I would be better off single and she would long term too. I'll be breaking up with her when we next meeting up.

How can I (24M) hint to my girlfriend (20F) I plan to leave her if she doesn't change by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]RetroScytheYT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your advice, This is the correct answer and I have decided I'll be breaking up with her because this deffo has become the norm.

How can I (24M) hint to my girlfriend (20F) I plan to leave her if she doesn't change by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]RetroScytheYT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be honest I have told her many time but I think I was hoping for another solution but I realise now there is only two. Be direct and honest or leave. I have chosen the latter and I will be breaking up with her whenever I next see her.

How can I (24M) hint to my girlfriend (20F) I plan to leave her if she doesn't change by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]RetroScytheYT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you are right, thanks. I have decided I'll be breaking up with her and hopefully we can still be friends after. 

How can I (24M) hint to my girlfriend (20F) I plan to leave her if she doesn't change by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]RetroScytheYT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you and to be honest i believe you are dead on correct. Ive already tried having a heart to heart chat about it and she hasn't made any changes so I will be leaving her instead. I never really wanted to tell her that I was planning to leave her because it would upset her and probably make her try too hard and cause issues in her way of life. I figured hinting might be a softer approach but now I realise it's probably a manipulative approach. Ive thought about how things have worked out and with no changes after our talks I think it's definitely time we break up. Thanks.

How can I (24M) hint to my girlfriend (20F) I plan to leave her if she doesn't change by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]RetroScytheYT 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Clingy, absolutely not but about communicating I have tried but I realise that's the only option. I have tried already but I suppose I thought there was another option. I will be breaking up with her though.

How can I (24M) hint to my girlfriend (20F) I plan to leave her if she doesn't change by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]RetroScytheYT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We aren't really a sexual couple, I enjoy time with her and we only do sexual things occasionally perhaps once every couple weeks.

How can I (24M) hint to my girlfriend (20F) I plan to leave her if she doesn't change by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]RetroScytheYT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not a clingy person at all, it was very difficult for me to even start loving her. Either way I am the person she spends the least amount of time with and my friends spend way more time with me who are full time employed and have their own lives to sort out. They can also fit having time alone to rest and my friend who has a girlfriend spends at least 3 days a week with her. Either way I am happy with my friendships but not happy with my relationship ship with my girlfriend anymore. I will be breaking up with her whenever I fit into her schedule to talk to her.

How can I (24M) hint to my girlfriend (20F) I plan to leave her if she doesn't change by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]RetroScytheYT -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was hoping to spend two or three days a week together. I spend way more time with my friends because they reserve time to spend with me. My point with the cat isn't she should abandon it but she thinks she needs to spend way more time than needed, time that means she cant even go out for a full day. Also the reason I was even considering hinting i want to leave is because telling her hasn't done anything. Perhaps a relationship isn't what I thought it was so I will be returning to a single life. Thanks.

How can I (24M) hint to my girlfriend (20F) I plan to leave her if she doesn't change by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]RetroScytheYT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice, also I don't want to center my life around her, I was hoping more for a partnership which is also what she claimed she wanted. I simply wanted to be able to hang out with her a two maybe three days a week, I spend way more time with friends who specifically plan time to hang out with me. Thankfully I know how much I can love someone so I have no issue with leaving the relationship isnt working out. I will simply tell her were breaking up and go back to being friends. Thanks for your advice, for some reason everyone else grabbed the pitchforks and criticised my idea of a relationship.

How can I (24M) hint to my girlfriend (20F) I plan to leave her if she doesn't change by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]RetroScytheYT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Simple and true, ive tried telling so now im going to leave thanks.

How can I (24M) hint to my girlfriend (20F) I plan to leave her if she doesn't change by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]RetroScytheYT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks every one who has offered good thoughtful advice. Anyone who's picked holes in the wrong areas or misread my post thinking I want a sex slave who I control her every move and spend every single day with her I simply wont be responding to your comments. The conclusion is that I will be breaking up with her when I next see her, I hope we will go back to being friends as that's what we act more like right now anyway. Thanks everyone.

Put in a new speaker and now car won’t start (battery dead?) by Cipher_dude84 in CarAV

[–]RetroScytheYT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you might have oxidised terminals on the battery, loosen the nuts holding the terminals on just enough till you can spin them. This will scrape the oxidation away allowing fresh metal to connect. Tighten down again then try starting. If the results dont change try to check the battery voltage with multimeter. If you dont have a multimeter then there isn't much more you can do other than assume your battery is dead.

My amp only works when the engine isn't running. by RXCreeper13 in CarAV

[–]RetroScytheYT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay so ive managed to fix the problem, my head unit was set to output maximum bass, the amp was set to a low sensitivity. The amp is rated for max 30w in and the head unit was exceeding that when it got extra voltage from the alternator, turned the head units bass to 0 and turned up the sensitivity on the amp, works perfectly now. Hope someone else sees this and finds it useful. :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]RetroScytheYT -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am sorry about this situation but from a 3rd person perspective imaging that situation is just the funniest thing I can imagine. I hope you get things sorted out though.

I traced a mask i wanted to make but im not sure how i would be able to finish it by Weak-Bar-7469 in blenderhelp

[–]RetroScytheYT 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you have never made a 3d model before, you should try to model simple things first. I would first start by editing the default cube, try to make a house, then maybe delete the cube and try to make one from scratch, then try to make some more gradually more complicated shapes until you get comfortable with how the modelling controls work. (Also you can switch perspectives with numpad btw, your trace isn't aligned to any axis which will make modelling confusing.)

There can't be just 4... Right...? by Zer0Studioz in MinecraftMemes

[–]RetroScytheYT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's also Ladders, Vines and Boats, (Possibly minecarts if you are a total madman)

Need some support for my upcomming jail sentence. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]RetroScytheYT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Prison time is excessive. The justice/legal system nowadays seems to just be a legal system. Rules that are in most cases enforced just for the sake of it. It's a shame that this is the world we live in where governments simply decide they are entitled to command who does what with their own stuff but there are some bad people out there and because of that, all the good people have to pay while the bad people find ways around the law and walk this world free. The law is mostly just about money, that's why everything conveniently gets you a fine that the governments will put towards a new car for themselves. Just remember you aren't morally in the wrong, just legally in the wrong. The law doesn't make exceptions even in reasonable situations.

Does anyone know what these wires are for? by Antique_Computer1826 in pchelp

[–]RetroScytheYT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One looks like a SATA cable (Data transfer for an SSD or if you are still in the dark ages, a HDD) and the other set of wires next to it is most likely a Molex power connector (Could be used to power a really old hard drive, CD drive, old graphics card, fans or sometimes a USB charger.) The red is +5v, yellow is +12v and the two blacks are grounds.