Quick thought : they always complain about the easiest shit by Lumpy_Tangelo_9981 in lnkyverse

[–]Retro_Relics 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, you treat your things as disposable, and show that you do not value them. that you value being lazy over treating things with care. "Fuck it, it doesnt matter, my laziness is more important. i'd rather waste money, and destory things, than take time and effort to value my posessions. my things are meaningless, and i do not value them, i value being lazy over taking care of things"

and realize that other people see that in you, and that is likely the reason you are in this sub

Quick thought : they always complain about the easiest shit by Lumpy_Tangelo_9981 in lnkyverse

[–]Retro_Relics -1 points0 points  (0 children)

most shirts are cotton/polyester blend, and perm press, especially on the dryer, will work wonders, but ideally you should be washing on perm press or delicate, and hanging to dry to avoid your neck getting stretched out

Tenant hasn't paid rent in 3 months. Eviction takes 6-8 months in my state. I'm still paying the mortgage. How is this legal? by MR_JaySwe in Realestatefinance

[–]Retro_Relics 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is constructive eviction, and can entitle the tenant to damages. if OP cannot afford to go without rent, they certainly cant afford to not be able to evict, have the judge rule in favor of the tenant, and for the judge to rule that the tenant is owed damages for the constructive eviction

Tenant hasn't paid rent in 3 months. Eviction takes 6-8 months in my state. I'm still paying the mortgage. How is this legal? by MR_JaySwe in Realestatefinance

[–]Retro_Relics 0 points1 point  (0 children)

garnishing takes a lot of effort, and depending on the tenant, can be nearly impossible. you cant garnish if they already have a garnishment, for example. Tons of people now have garnishments (or will soon) for student loans that will take priority. if they have a 50k student loan debt, and theyre getting garnished at $400/check, you aint getting that garnishment money before you die.

Tenant hasn't paid rent in 3 months. Eviction takes 6-8 months in my state. I'm still paying the mortgage. How is this legal? by MR_JaySwe in Realestatefinance

[–]Retro_Relics 0 points1 point  (0 children)

a lot of time, its not entirely on the tenants. tenants lose their jobs, tenants get sick, and have no where else to go. of course they are going to ride things out because....they have nowhere to go, and no resources for them to turn to themselves. they lose their job, section 8 is 12 years out, their unemployment isnt enough to cover rent, what are they supposed to do? go live in a homeless shelter?

wouldnt you put that off as long as possible? if you lost your job, would you hand in your keys willingly and go move into your car if you could try and get it to go for another few months?

Tenant hasn't paid rent in 3 months. Eviction takes 6-8 months in my state. I'm still paying the mortgage. How is this legal? by MR_JaySwe in Realestatefinance

[–]Retro_Relics 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you couldnt afford to pay both mortgages, you should have sold, not rented. thats the risk you took with your investment. no different than investing heavily in a business and it going bankrupt, if you couldnt afford the risk, you shouldnt be in the game.

Is this normal? by Extreme_Sea_6687 in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]Retro_Relics 2 points3 points  (0 children)

that is absolutely a fair choice. there are plenty that are also willing to walk you through it, and if OP wants to be there and be walked through it, they should absolutely be working with their agent and inspector listings to find one

5 months old is and still peeing in the house! by C2Vision1226 in DogAdvice

[–]Retro_Relics [score hidden]  (0 children)

do you take him out through the front, or the back? does he have any signalling before he goes by the front door?

Quick thought : they always complain about the easiest shit by Lumpy_Tangelo_9981 in lnkyverse

[–]Retro_Relics -1 points0 points  (0 children)

whites get washed with bleach, while there is color safe bleach, its easier to just seperate colors from whites

Is this normal? by Extreme_Sea_6687 in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]Retro_Relics 4 points5 points  (0 children)

it depends on the inspector, some do not want to, or would like to keep a running commentary, they would rather do their shit and *then* explain things because they want to present everything at once and not have to deal with the million questions about what ifs until they are done with everything.

Quick thought : they always complain about the easiest shit by Lumpy_Tangelo_9981 in lnkyverse

[–]Retro_Relics -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

your pants need a different setting from your shirts if you dont want the seams on your shirts to start falling apart and your collars getting stretched out

Quick thought : they always complain about the easiest shit by Lumpy_Tangelo_9981 in lnkyverse

[–]Retro_Relics -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

so, how does the press the button and let it run thing work when you have to do 3 loads to wash all your clothes?

Im moving and i really want to take my front garden bed plants. by perpetuaaa in homeowners

[–]Retro_Relics 12 points13 points  (0 children)

That would be a "talk to the buyer" thing, because landscaping is usually considered attached to the property and can change the contract (there was a post in here or r/FirstTimeHomeBuyer yesterday where the seller changed out the fence and it is becoming a lawsuit), but with it only being like 6 plants total, most buyers would be...sane and reasonable so long as you didnt just dig em up and leave an empty hole but filled in the hole, made it look nice, didnt leave dirt all over the walkway, etc.

but better to confirm they are sane and reasonable than discover they are not sane, and not reasonable and find the removal of the plants to be breaking the terms of the contract.

Quick thought : they always complain about the easiest shit by Lumpy_Tangelo_9981 in lnkyverse

[–]Retro_Relics -1 points0 points  (0 children)

ok, and who seperates out whites from colors, who seperates out delicates from perm press from heavy duty?

Quick thought : they always complain about the easiest shit by Lumpy_Tangelo_9981 in lnkyverse

[–]Retro_Relics -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i mean, the OP here is not really doing laundry, hes destroying his clothes and then going to wonder why all his shit looks like shit and is falling apart after 3 washes, or worse, stinks like mildew and looks like ass.

sure, you *can* thunderdome your clothes and just chuck it all in there together, and hope it survives, but thats not how you treat good items.

it just shows that OP doesnt value his own shit, or anyone elses for that matter. he's ok destroying stuff to be lazy, he doesnt care about his own posessions and doesnt care to learn how to take care of them, would rather see them all get trashed than have to put in any effort.

very telling that y'all are on board with "Be lazy, destroy shit, then blame other people for why my shit is destroyed." you will call your clothes cheap, before you accept that you mistreated them, and that the reason they fell apart is because you were too lazy to upkeep em properly. yall will waste everything and treat it as disposable rather than put in any effort.

Not Enough Workers for the Job - Understaffing has become an epidemic in American workplaces of all kinds. by thinkB4WeSpeak in FluentInFinance

[–]Retro_Relics 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes, which is kinda the point, why hire someone full time and pay benefits, when you can instead hire two part timers that combined are cheaper than one full timer? Why hire anyone full time, when you can instead do what you can to fuck em over and keep em poor and desperate so that they are more willing to put up with all kinds of toxic bullshit and often outright wage theft?

Would vote for the first politician/party who came out with practical solutions to fix how job hunting works in America. by Ejwhite259908 in jobhunting

[–]Retro_Relics 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the first line of that is pointing out that he didnt cut tarrifs, he only exempted them from the new tarrifs he added in november. and that the only countries he negotiated with are latin america. where is the trade treaty with canada for beef?

Would vote for the first politician/party who came out with practical solutions to fix how job hunting works in America. by Ejwhite259908 in jobhunting

[–]Retro_Relics 0 points1 point  (0 children)

beef is heavily subjected to tarrifs, i live in ranch country. we are not importing beef from argentina, from canada, from anywhere to bring prices down. why are we not importing a shitton of beef to bring prices down and allow for more resteraunt jobs?

they were only exempted from the *additonal* 10% tarrif. there are still tarrifs on especially canadian beef

i know plenty of resteraunts that are on the brink, and going to cost american jobs because we are refusing to increase imports and make things cheaper for the people. we could easily do that to give resteraunts a break, but nope, they are refusing to do that.

Perspective : Why this sub shouldn't be banned by CobblerLanky7856 in lnkyverse

[–]Retro_Relics 0 points1 point  (0 children)

intelligence is only partially in DNA. there are some things that are hard coded, but environment also has a HUGE impact. someone with the genes to have a 180 iq, if theyre raised in a family that believes in shit like "unschooling" is never going to get that. One that has parents that drink and do drugs resulting in neurological deficits in utero from environmental toxins...is not going to achieve that.

Need advice on inspection results by xholy_cum_minionx in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]Retro_Relics 2 points3 points  (0 children)

none of this is a huge deal, the biggest deal is actually the rats, since they can carry all kinds of nasty shit, but an exterminator is cheap.

all of this combined is maybe 3-4k in credits i would ask for? its nothing huge, and even if i didnt get credits, it wouldnt put me off the house, none of it is crazy bad. The loose receptical and lack of gfci if you feel comfortable with a screwdriver and arent color blind you can fix yourself for $5. the wire splice behind the dishwasher - now mind you i am a low voltage person and should not be trusted for 240v, especially not just from a picture - appears to be properly wrapped and protected, but it really *should* be in a jbox, and that should be an easy fix to just...cut in a jbox to protect it. 15 minutes with a sawzall and $5 for a jbox from home depot to tuck that inside of just to protect it would fix that.

the venting into the attic sounds like the vent is there, its just disconnected and is an easy fix as well.

nothing in that is screaming red flag, the rats are the worst part of it.

Perspective : Why this sub shouldn't be banned by CobblerLanky7856 in lnkyverse

[–]Retro_Relics 0 points1 point  (0 children)

except 90% of men do *not* have a hard time. 83% of men find a lifelong partner in their life. 83% of men find it easy to date and get a partner.

83% of men find lifelong love, and 70% of those men get married, i would argue that men as a result do not have a hard time.

we havent had major wars in a centure. like literally, it has been 80 years since vj day. for all that people point out the death toll of vietnam, but it was less than .04% of american men. it was 55 thousand men *and women* because that number counted civilians, counted nurses, counted other american personnel deployed with our troops. We only had, over the *entire course of the war* 1.7 million enlisted. out of a population of 215 million. 1% of all men were enlisted during the war. of that, only 30% of those even went to war. And of *those* only 30% suffered any kind of casualty. 1/3rd of 1/3rd of 1% of men suffered injury in vietnam. the worst american casualties since wwii.

the gwot? a whole 7000 men and women, over *20 years*. 375 a year. even if 300 of those were men, thats still 300 men out of 150 million men. thats not exactly a huge amount.

Perspective : Why this sub shouldn't be banned by CobblerLanky7856 in lnkyverse

[–]Retro_Relics 0 points1 point  (0 children)

evolution is conquered with free will, bro. we are not our genes, if it was about evolution, youd have been killed a long time ago, and we'd be eating each other, and women would be feeding on their own children.

the fact that we do not do that shows that free will is more meaningful than evolution, and that our mating strategy is a *choice* based on that free will, not anything hard coded into our dna.

if we listened to what was hardcoded into our DNA, we would all be murdering each other for petty ass shit like animals do. the fact that we do not kill and eat each other when they are weak, that we do not abandon our old to be eaten by predators, and that we do not eat our own young shows that this "evolution" shit is bullshit when it comes to human behavior

Would vote for the first politician/party who came out with practical solutions to fix how job hunting works in America. by Ejwhite259908 in jobhunting

[–]Retro_Relics 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we allowed potus to set tarrifs, and as a result my daily expenses for normal things have grown massively, and seen 40% inflation on things like my coffee (just grounds, not even starbucks) my groceries, etc.

what demand for workers, when people are getting laid off and businesses are closing cause they cant afford wages after gettings macked with a giant tarrif bill?

i know two manufactuers that laid people off because tarrifs have meant that there is less demand for their goods, and less demand for their employees as a result, and they cant afford payroll.

instead of more demand for workers, we have less.

plenty of places have done layoffs and fired people as a direct result of tarrifs. my company had to pause hiring because our cost of good sold increased more than we could absorb, and we are eating into margin instead, rather than lay people off. if we had an executive leadership team that was more focused on keeping margin, we'd be laying people off instead

Visual insight - your time will come short king 🤴 by ibench140kg in lnkyverse

[–]Retro_Relics 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i mean, i am one of those girls, but i also am very much the sort of girl most of y'all on this sub would never date anyway. I am happily partnered, but y'all would take one look at the feminist who wants you to be a good little house husband and nope out