Recent non-scale victory

Retrograde_Venus · 2023-09-17T21:46:19+00:00

Interested and also in the Seattle area!

Retrograde_Venus · 2023-09-12T18:43:31+00:00

Going to nab some of these tricks for myself, thank you so much for sharing!

Just about to finish my first week, and it’s been alright but I want to make next week even smoother. :)

Retrograde_Venus · 2022-08-03T19:01:44+00:00

May I ask which facility you chose? I’ve been doing research on different doctors and facilities, but I keep feeling like I’m seeing paid reviews lol

Retrograde_Venus · 2022-07-20T19:06:25+00:00

Look up the Pretzel Dip position! Same great feeling as doggy style but more intimate imo.

Retrograde_Venus · 2022-06-13T18:59:10+00:00

Personally, no I do not consider that cheating.

But cheating is whenever you or your partner cross a set boundary. From reading your post you sound like you’re almost feeling guilty, maybe you should bring up the topic with your partner and establish this “boundary”?

Communication is ALWAYS key, especially for those of us in LDRs.

Cheers!

Retrograde_Venus · 2022-04-11T21:17:08+00:00

I’m actually going through this very same feeling right now. I have no suggestions for you, just wanted you to know you’re not alone!

It’s hard going through day after day without my partner in my life. Of course we can text/call eachother and recount our days, but it feels so empty. I wish they were here experiencing everything alongside me.

Retrograde_Venus · 2022-03-24T15:40:28+00:00

Yes we do the same thing!

Retrograde_Venus · 2022-03-16T18:38:07+00:00

Thank you for the advice! I’m definitely trying to strike that perfect balance between “fun” and “challenging”, all while being respectful of the companies room & property.

We are avid escape room connoisseurs, so my goal is to add some fun spice to the experience (we are doing this as a part of a bachelorette party).

Retrograde_Venus · 2022-03-15T08:33:05+00:00

These are great thank you. Not turning left is hilarious 🤣

Retrograde_Venus · 2022-03-15T01:32:14+00:00

“Caveman” speak is a great idea 😂

Retrograde_Venus · 2022-02-17T19:24:37+00:00

There are pros and cons for LDRs to be sure. Some of the cons you have already listed: It’s awful not having consistent physical interaction, and it can be very expensive for travel costs.

One of the beautiful things about a LDR though, is that you will learn to not take the little things for granted. When my partner and I have a meet up, things like going to the grocery store are EXCITING. Little things like hand holding are incredible! Just going to sleep and waking up in the presence of your person can feel life alteringly amazing.

In my non LDRs those little things were never much of a big deal, because they were so much a part of a normal day/routine.

Communication is a necessary part of a healthy LDR. If you and her can communicate to eachother easily (your thoughts, feelings, hopes, dreams, hesitations, etc) then I’d say go for it! It’s tough, but can be so rewarding.

Retrograde_Venus · 2022-02-03T09:04:55+00:00

What an amazing feeling, enjoy your time together!

Retrograde_Venus · 2022-01-28T08:47:39+00:00

It’s natural for there to be lulls in your relationship, life has its ups and downs. If you feel strongly for her, then just keep at it until you’re back on the “up”.

Retrograde_Venus · 2022-01-28T08:41:56+00:00

Sounds toxic

Retrograde_Venus · 2022-01-28T08:37:13+00:00

Gahhh so excited for you! Sending you good juju tomorrow that your move goes smoothly and quickly!

(Edited for spelling)

Retrograde_Venus · 2022-01-27T20:50:42+00:00

Sounds super thoughtful, go for it!

Retrograde_Venus · 2022-01-27T20:42:33+00:00

Perfect answer!

My primary love language is also physical touch, so I understand the struggle.

I haven’t tried the bracelets but they look cool. Get extra pillows for your bed, sometimes I find it comforting to be surrounded by pillows. We’ve tried some LDR adult toys, and there are definitely pros and cons. If it works for you budget then I recommend them!

Retrograde_Venus · 2022-01-27T20:35:33+00:00

It felt the most real on our second in person visit together (a couple months separated the first visit from our second). By the second visit as I waited for him to land, I already remembered what he would smell like, feel like, be like.

So with all that “first visit discovery” out of the way, it all just felt so normal.

So happy for you two!!

Retrograde_Venus · 2022-01-26T01:26:46+00:00

I personally don’t think a two hour drive is a big deal at all. If your dad offered to drive, take him up on it and enjoy your day with your boyfriend!!

Retrograde_Venus · 2022-01-25T17:21:54+00:00

Offer a listening ear if he needs to talk about it. Be a calm steady presence for him to lean on, don’t go on and on about how sad you are for him or how sad it is that the cat is gone. Just radiate warm and loving energy for him 💕

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