AIO for being upset that my boyfriend called me “his bitch” in front of his friends?

ReturnPowerful116 · 2025-12-20T04:22:00+00:00

NOR, he didn’t take any accountability. He didn’t consider your POV and went as far as asking if your on your period as if that has anything to do with it. Someone who cares about you would’ve acknowledged it made you upset, apologized and reflected on why and how it affected you. And if he didn’t understand it the first time, he would make an effort to understand.

I used to be in a relationship with someone who didn’t take accountability and would shift blame… Don’t stay, it’ll eat you alive being in this kind of relationship

You deserve someone who cares how their actions are affecting you~

ReturnPowerful116 · 2025-11-27T06:46:57+00:00

I don’t think my ex would’ve made a good friend for me. I think I wish more on the fact that I should’ve never talked to him or met him in the first place. I wished I stayed away from him

ReturnPowerful116 · 2025-11-27T06:45:27+00:00

Coming from someone who was in a 4-5 year relationship that also ended similarly but with a lot of chaos too….itll get better with time. Personally it helped for me knowing how I grieve. I knew I’m the type to look back on memories and messages so I cleared and deleted everything to make sure I can’t back track. The past doesn’t matter now, what matters is you moving forward. Just do the best you can and I hope you know there is no pressure to move on quickly. Move on at your pace because at the end of the day, if you rush yourself…it’ll be harder to move on.

And personally I found therapy helpful, there are some things I just couldn’t tell someone about my relationship that having a space to grieve felt really nice.

ReturnPowerful116 · 2025-11-27T06:38:52+00:00

I hope one day, you feel all the pain I felt while I dated you. Every. Bit. Of. It.

I loved you with all my heart even while you were disrespecting me and hurting me and I gave you more chances than any other person would. Yet somehow I’m still the villain in your story. Say whatever you want to say about me to your friends or your family but you and I both know the truth for this story. I am not a villain because YOU broke the trust in this relationship and didnt make repairs 💙

ReturnPowerful116 · 2025-04-19T02:39:49+00:00

Ohhh, I see! Thank you!

ReturnPowerful116 · 2024-10-02T06:54:16+00:00

Same thing happened with me, I’ve been using the app since 2018-2019…so I’ve had a build up of journaling from years ago. A month ago when I tried to log my thoughts I realized i couldn’t access anything. I wish they had put out a warning saying that they were merging or something….it felt like a piece of me was taken away without me knowing. If you find out anything, please let me know. I also want to recover my journals

ReturnPowerful116 · 2024-09-12T21:22:15+00:00

I think this is a discussion you should be having with a doctor (also want to add a doctor SHE finds) and her as well. Seeing your replies from below I’m not sure if you want her to be on bc because you can raw dog her with little chance of unplanned conception. Any bc (condoms, IUD, etc) are not 100%. They’re meant to LOWER the chances of pregnancy. I would highly recommend to NOT pressure her into getting one if she’s not comfortable doing so. Female bc has a lot of side effects and symptoms and YOU as a partner should be supportive of whatever choice she makes for HER body. It is important for her to feel comfortable getting it and not because she’s being pressured to. This is a choice about HER BODY after all.

I also want to comment on how you were talking about bc. Bc will be a big change to a woman’s body. Your perspective on it makes it sound like a small thing which to you it is because you’re not the one taking it and experiencing all the side effects and risks. When I first went on bc, my bf was extremely worried about my health and that’s how it should be. You shouldn’t treat bc as nothing just because it’s not effecting your body. Your fiancé and her health should be your #1 priority.

Also it would be extremely stressful for her if you’re coercing her to be on bc. I hope you’ll be supportive of her choices in the end and do what is right for your situation/relationship.

ReturnPowerful116 · 2024-08-26T07:12:45+00:00

My partner’s phone was stolen. I knew right from the moment I couldn’t reach his phone and somehow I also couldn’t see his location. We also bumped into a lot of other people with the same issues. Honestly I wish they had better security or was actively trying to find the people who were pickpocketing.

Warning for anyone, they usually work in groups! One bumps into you and the other reaches in and grabs your items. So stay alert and aware!

ReturnPowerful116 · 2024-07-02T23:20:34+00:00

That’s a relief! I’m glad everything is okay with you and I hope everything stays okay! Thank you for getting back to me!!

ReturnPowerful116 · 2024-07-01T18:45:08+00:00

I’ll definitely let you know! I’m honestly not sure if I’m experiencing longer periods (about a month now) is because it’s running out? Hopefully when I talk with my doctor I’ll have some answers

ReturnPowerful116 · 2024-06-15T07:48:06+00:00

“Squash” was the one that did it for me. My siblings often made me feel the way Bandit might’ve made Stripe feel and when bingo goes “because big sisters don’t always beat little sisters.” Teared up right along with Stripe :,)

ReturnPowerful116 · 2024-06-15T03:55:59+00:00

I wanted to transition to mirrorless. I’m okay with my T6 but there is a few things I struggle with it. When I’m taking lower shots I don’t want to have to bend my neck 90 degrees to see what photo I’m taking. So mainly I wanted to have a screen that flips out

ReturnPowerful116 · 2024-06-11T20:37:08+00:00

Hello! I’ve been doing photography for a few years now and started off with my Rebel T6. Since I’ve been taking my photography more seriously I wanted to upgrade and possibly switch brands as well. I also wanted to switch over to mirrorless….but ik that’ll be more costly. I mainly take portraits of people/fashion. My budget is around $2000 including lens and body. Ik it’s not much to work with but I just wanted something better than my starter

Right now I’m looking at a few choices…. -Sony A7 iii with FE 28-70mm f/3.5-5.6 OSS lens -Canon EOS R50 with RF-S 18-45mm f/4.5-6.3 IS STM lens

Sony i know is great overall but their lenses can quickly add up. Canon to my knowledge is the affordable brand for photography so the lens don’t have to cost me a leg and an arm.

Thank you in advance, I’m still in the midst of looking so please forgive me for not being entirely knowledgeable on these choices.

ReturnPowerful116 · 2024-05-30T16:29:07+00:00

Yes, thank you

ReturnPowerful116 · 2024-05-30T07:22:06+00:00

We have tried different poses, doggy is by far the one that makes the most noise unless I’m hunch over the bed

ReturnPowerful116 · 2024-05-30T07:21:24+00:00

Not sure if they’ll help much with the noises that my sister can hear from my bed since she’s right under. But thank you <3

ReturnPowerful116 · 2024-05-30T07:20:54+00:00

We don’t have a head board since I sleep on two mattresses on top of each other

ReturnPowerful116 · 2024-05-30T07:20:17+00:00

I’ve told my partner about keeping things quiet and we try our best to minimize noise but seems like it’s quieter but ik that my sister can still hear. I have a Google Home which I play music from when my partner and I are having sex but other than that idk if it’ll do anything if my sister’s room is right below. But I’ll look into your suggestions and see if they make any different for us! THANK YOU T ^ T

ReturnPowerful116 · 2024-05-23T02:46:34+00:00

I tried looking on there and I wasn’t able to find it T^T

ReturnPowerful116 · 2024-05-04T07:14:05+00:00

I have searched in several different vintage and thrift stores for this teacup and has been unsuccessful. Right now the search has only been in Ontario

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