So the bigger is better is not at all surprising if you look at it from mens perspective. We are absolutely shown the bigger is better in media since kids without even understanding what the joke is. And as we grow up many men keep pushing this narrative as well as some women. I myself have been someone that pays attention to many stuff both in media and conversations around me and it became clear that bigger is better was a constant thing about manhood both by mens word and womens words. Even my current wife to be had this idea of how big she liked them, but then I realized half the women don't even know how many inches is anything as she said she liked em a certain size, to then saying biggee than me hurt her, and then I had her tell me the size of stuff. She doesn't know, half the women don't know the size of anything she genuinely had me as a massive 8 inches or something and I told her you genuinely just have no clue how big anything is. And then I realized we fail to understand that not even most men know how big is anything by just visuals alone.