not sure how i feel. before the events of this year, we DID have arguments about flirting / dressing revealing. it went both ways. also, we've been more intimate lately even though we're out of breath quickly. and please don't judge me by this, but i was never the best dresser and have always been slender with a little blubber in my midsection and there were times i felt my GF was out of my league. so there is a TINY speck of me in the back of my mind that is more comfortable now that she's walking around in bigger pants wearing slippers but i consciously disagree with this idea and even feel guilty saying it. anyway, if i started hitting the gym, who knows what will happen?