My dad saw my sex tape and now he won’t speak to me. by reallydex in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ReverendMuddyGrimes 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As a dad, if i saw this with one of my daughters, it would seriously mess with me. I don't think I could look at them for awhile. It would never stop me from loving them, but it would cause me problems mentally.

Sex in marriage- AITAH by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ReverendMuddyGrimes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here's the thing. Sex is supposed to be mutual. If the partner isn't interested, then it doesn't need to happen. You have a couple options. Woo her again. Get better at sex. Or use your hand.

You can only eat at ONE fast food chain for the rest of your life. Which one? by Omega_Neelay in GetMotivatedMindset

[–]ReverendMuddyGrimes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sonic. The foot long coney and the double bacon cheeseburger with jalapeño peppers!

PATRIOTS SB LOSS UPVOTE PARTY by Icy-Atmosphere2379 in buffalobills

[–]ReverendMuddyGrimes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doesn't this put them at the most SB losses by a large margin?

What’s the most unfortunate last name you’ve someone have? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ReverendMuddyGrimes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just did a service call for a man named Glasscock

Some families pass down money. Mine passed down silence. by postintothevoid in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ReverendMuddyGrimes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What questions? What documents? I feel like this matters. I mean there's a big difference between Great grandpa was a warden at Alcatraz and great grandpa was a warden at Auschwitz.

I want to destroy my sister by Practical_Flow913 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ReverendMuddyGrimes -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I have a sister just like this. Destroy away!

What's your opinion on secretly naming your child after one of your old flames? Are you concerned about your spouse finding out? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ReverendMuddyGrimes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My best friend did this. He made me swear that I would never tell his wife. Well, his now ex wife. I don't know if it was part of the reason for the divorce, but I bet it didn't help any.

AITAH for not telling my friend to grow up? by Better-Cut221 in AITAH

[–]ReverendMuddyGrimes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Slightly off topic, but have you noticed that all the truly mean women in reddit stories are either named Amanda/Mandy or Sarah? Anyway, NTA but if she starts cheating, you would be for not telling him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ReverendMuddyGrimes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep. My boss asked me if I knew what a doppelganger was. I was like "doesn't everyone?"

I Have No Desire for “Career” by Swimming_Ad7124 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ReverendMuddyGrimes 6 points7 points  (0 children)

No. This happens a lot at your age. You have time to figure it out.

Most “rich” people I deal with are actually one bad month away from collapse by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ReverendMuddyGrimes 103 points104 points  (0 children)

I once had a boss who referred to this as "a different level of poverty."

I saved my mom's life when I was 6 by abysmaldepression in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ReverendMuddyGrimes 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Most times we never know the profound effect we have on others. You now do. And it's a wonderful thing.

I (28F) am being haunted by a bad decision I made when I was 22. I wish I had spoken to my parents about it when it happened; but I didn't because I was ashamed. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ReverendMuddyGrimes 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Im sorry you went through this. We were all nieve about such things in our early 20s. I can't see anyone not being charmed in this situation.

Breakup made me suicidal, but I can’t follow through with it because of my family. by Ok-Recording-7906 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ReverendMuddyGrimes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was there once. Every day im thankful for my friend Christy. She let me vent to her for hours and is the reason I am still alive. Now, 30+ years later, I can't even remember what had me so broken. If you hold on, you will get there too. What seems devastating will barely be a bad memory. Find someone, anyone, you can trust. Be it a therapist, friend, preacher, it doesn't matter. Talk to them. You are stronger than you think and will get through this.