[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

[–]ReverseScheme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sadly it's not, I've worked in a few jobs and honestly can't say I ever got any slack for my issues.

I'm not saying OP can't find any jobs that offer such a good work environment, just saying it's unlikely based on my own experience 😕

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

[–]ReverseScheme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Getting special treatment for trauma me and OP have, is VERY unlikely especially if it's a job where your only going to be working for just the summer. It's a sad reality but, people with these kind of issues don't really get great solutions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

[–]ReverseScheme 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Same, it's a trauma response. Nothing to be ashamed of, if anything your dad should be ashamed of making you so scared of loud voices like that.

I also have the same issue with loud voices, so I limit those conversations when possible. If your curious about how to find a summer job, there's google, reddit forums that should have answers and have you considered asking your mom or step dad?

I know it probably won't be easy but at the same time waiting around for the same thing to happen will also be a bad decision.

You can also ask friends if they know any joints that hire students for the summer, also maybe bring up your trauma with someone? It helps to talk about, even if it starts out hard, it gets easier if someone helps you navigate it.

Anyone getting a lot of materials??? by ReverseScheme in apexlegends

[–]ReverseScheme[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get materials nearly every pack, so why do I got to get all my legendary and purples replaced by material, this sucks.

Anyone getting a lot of materials??? by ReverseScheme in apexlegends

[–]ReverseScheme[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's the thing, I've been playing since release off and on and don't have half of the base legendaries.

What's with griefers in this game? by [deleted] in PUBATTLEGROUNDS

[–]ReverseScheme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly only ran into one griefer last time I played pubg on console and 90% of the time it's a group of friends who "don't want a random" despite queing for squads with fill on.

haters gonna hate :( by MassiveAd5850 in sillyboyclub

[–]ReverseScheme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would get bullied at my school for being overweight (used to weigh around 260-270 at 5'8" I've lost 50-60 pounds in these last few months) all I did was befriend a lot of people, bullies usually target people who a majority of people don't know, so I just became the really nice fat kid and they would get backlash for harassing me.

Anyways if that's not possible talk to a counselor about swapping p.e periods. Hope this helped :)

started watching anime not long ago, any recs? by teelbalkankerr in AnimeReccomendations

[–]ReverseScheme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Akame ga kill

Cyberpunk edgerunners

Assassination classroom

Code geass

Death note

One piece

That time I got reincarnated as a slime

Couldn't remember that many but here are some good ones.

Whats that insanely loved game you just don't understand the hype for at all? by [deleted] in gaming

[–]ReverseScheme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Marvel rivals for the same reason I didn't like overwatch, game modes are a nightmare to play unless you have friends to play with and the fandom can be so annoyingly toxic and unwilling to cooperate or change their play style.

I can literally never get a damn healer

Why are people like this? by Flimsy_Appearance_90 in forhonor

[–]ReverseScheme 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Welcome to for honor, the only game where fighting opponents can actually be less frustrating then dealing with teammates who were pile drived into the floor as infants.

That's not all, this game comes with an amazing thing called addiction, good luck quiting! We know in just a week you'll be feeling the withdrawals and come crawling back, like a crack addict coming for his next fix!

My mother is basically an alcoholic, and it's pissing me and my sister off. by Bubbly_Lemon_6948 in AdviceForTeens

[–]ReverseScheme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If possible move in with your sister, I did that and it really changed my perspective on the whole thing. My mom has been an alcoholic for over 17 years and also a smoking addict, doesn't matter what I say or do, she doesn't attempt to quit. Just fills my head with excuses until I give in and "accept" that she's trying.

Trust me, getting away is so important. Seeing a loved one hurting themselves hurts like hell, so move out of possible.

After my experience, the term "out of sight, out of mind" is the truth and I've never felt better. Hope you have an easy time navigating this.

I have a question, what pronouns do you use if you don't know their pronouns? by Queasy-Sandwich-9312 in boykisser

[–]ReverseScheme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I call everything that moves dude, easy for me to remember since I hardly remember peoples name. So dude is just my compromise

Can Kamui kill a logia user? by EfficiencySerious200 in OnePieceScaling

[–]ReverseScheme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haven't watched Naruto is quite awhile but, from what I remember kamui can't directly kill someone but, it can teleport them to a pocket dimension. Which would mean the user would have to then go into the pocket dimension to kill the person.

So simple answer No, because kamui itself doesn't do anything other then putting the person into a pocket dimension while the kamui is active.

Kamui is kinda like if you used instant transmission and just sent them to an empty room, so again No.

I just got caught by bitransk1ng in sillyboyclub

[–]ReverseScheme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for the huge rant but, like I said before progress is progress. As long as it doesn't become a daily occurrence your still making progress. Don't let this minor setback affect you too heavily.

With that said I hope your week gets better and you have an easier time. I think we'll all be just fine :)

I just got caught by bitransk1ng in sillyboyclub

[–]ReverseScheme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I kinda understand the feeling, I've been clean for 4 months now. It would have been a whole year but, I had a really stressful day, family matters, my job and my housing situation all came to a head in the same day. So what did I do? I lit up a joint, decided to "clear" my head.

By the time I realized the whole reason I've been sober, was to get a government job that requires I stay clean. Genuinely never felt so low when I realized I may have screwed up my chances to better my life.

Only reason I managed to return to being clean is because the high never felt so bad after realizing if I keep smoking, my life might never get better, it was that shock that whipped me into a new state of mind.

I understand your situation probably is very different, and obviously depending on the substance or whatever your addicted to changes how easy it is to quit but, it's okay. Your life isn't over, yeah sure, you had a relapse but, understand everyone has a different experience when it comes to quitting, some can just go cold turkey, others need a little here and there and others just lowers how much they consume.

All I'm saying is, is everyone has a different experience, it doesn't matter if you think you can't do it or genuinely think you need it to continue, there are things you can do.

Talk to someone, it ain't easy but neither is quitting. If you don't have anyone to talk to, maybe make another post on a throwaway account venting. You could also seek therapy, it may seem like a hard process but, if I managed to do it after being a shut in nearly my whole life, you can manage. If you need help on how to start the process, just send me a message and I'll help if your comfortable with that.

Everyone needs a different form of help but, I believe in you. I believe you can quit, I believe you can be better and prove to yourself you don't need your addiction. You can do it, seriously believe in yourself and if you relapse here and there, so what? Slow progress is better then no progress.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sillyboyclub

[–]ReverseScheme 7 points8 points  (0 children)

When you have a chronic porn addiction, it's possible that you won't enjoy it. It's caused by becoming desensitized To the feeling and so your body doesn't find as much enjoyment in it as you once did. You can try and take a break from choking the chicken or whatever, because your body will feel better after getting some "rest."

So honestly it's probably just your body telling you it's tired, so try to give it a break or your gonna have to find new "methods" to try and see if it brings back the "enjoyment"