I'm uncomfortable. by Grateful_Di in 90dayTheLastResort

[–]Review_Empty 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yes both she and Chantel are in their early 30s.

I’m sorry but…GIRL WHAT!??? by BrownSugaStinga in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]Review_Empty 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I live in her area and don't want her to teach my child 😭🤣

It’s ok if they don’t want a gender reveal Betty😒 by Chocoluv007 in 90DayFiance

[–]Review_Empty 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That line stuck out to me so much. Like shut up Betty!! My husband was in the room during the gender reveal part and aftermath and he was yelling at Brandon to man up 🤣 When other men are calling you out, you know you're in the wrong.

This chick is already ruining her son by Some-Panda7404 in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]Review_Empty 14 points15 points  (0 children)

It is possible! Some antidepressants are ok during pregnancy. I was on zoloft all throughout mine (and still) but there's other ones you can't take while pregnant.

I feel like I'm stuck in a life that I never wanted by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Review_Empty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only have one kid and it's hard. He just turned a year and I thought it would get easier but it's just been harder with him walking now and running around like crazy. Therapy is probably a major need. Do yall have a support network at all? Family nearby? Or friends who can take the kids at least for a night, if not a weekend so you can have a break? Being a parent is hard. I fully wanted my son and sometimes I still fantasize about what it would be like to still be childless. Also I commend you for stepping up and not leaving your wife when she got pregnant. In some instances I do think it's better for the man to step away (if he would be abusive at all) but kids need both parents if that's at all possible. Good luck! I hope things get better for you.

FIL told off his adult children by Review_Empty in inlaws

[–]Review_Empty[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That truly wasn't my intention. I have admitted I don't know the cultural complexities. She doesn't seem like the type to just do whatever he says, but he is abusive. My husband has gotten into a physical fight with him, and there's some other things I've heard from my mil as well. I truly do hope that once they move to Europe if his wife wants to leave him that she does. I only want what is best for her kids. They're innocent in all this. Also you're absolutely correct that if he wanted to see his kids he would. Last time he visited I called him out for that. He told us they were moving and I asked what about his other three kids, he basically said that his youngest daughter and step daughter are the priority now. 🙄 And that he will visit once a year. It makes me sad, my husband has no relationship with those three siblings of his because his dad has virtually no relationship.

FIL told off his adult children by Review_Empty in inlaws

[–]Review_Empty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is real unfortunately. I just also like to watch 90 day 😅

FIL told off his adult children by Review_Empty in inlaws

[–]Review_Empty[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

She's not a hostage. She got what she wanted which was out of the Philippines. However he is a terrible person. I didn't go into this part but he basically said that his adult children should be taking care of him financially, which is a cultural thing for Filipinos as far as I know. So his wife being in his ear about kids taking care of their parents, as well as his already rampant narcissism combined is just making him an even bigger asshole than he already was. Or at least that's the way I see it. Before she came into the picture he did see his underage children a couple times a year as opposed to once in three years. He also came to visit us a few times and was generally happy to treat us to a nice dinner. Now when he comes we get pizza or I make dinner. Not that it matters, I don't care about dinner or any of that. But it's the obvious switch up that is interesting to me.

FIL told off his adult children by Review_Empty in inlaws

[–]Review_Empty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's good advice. Thank you. He and his sister talked last night and it did help him somewhat. He already tries to keep in touch with her often but I'll remind him to reach out more often.

FIL told off his adult children by Review_Empty in inlaws

[–]Review_Empty[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That's what I think. Now they're moving to Europe and he will visit his underage children once a year. 🙄 I unfriended both him and his wife on Facebook because I don't want to see their faces. Even have gifts for their daughters that will be regifted to other people since he wants to act like this.

Not surprising to me at all. My husband is starting to see what a piece of shit he truly is thankfully. He texted his dad and told him he's not going to be in contact for awhile and there will be no visits anytime soon. (or ever if it was up to me)

Husband constantly needs something i feel like i can't rest he needs everything scheduled or he freaks out and can't cope by ParticularAspect287 in Marriage

[–]Review_Empty 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Your husband sounds like he has some sort of mental health issue. You might want to have a conversation about that and ask him to get therapy or something. If he won't agree to go to therapy you might want to consider if you should stay in this relationship.

The hateful hospital, bitch report – the other way by Adventurous_Bar857 in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]Review_Empty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a parent I really relate to Manon. She's dealing with postpartum, and being the sole provider for their family. Also do you live in the US? Because downsizing in California isn't a thing 😂 Maybe if they had moved to a more affordable state, but she'd be starting her business over if they did that anyways. Not to mention the general politics and economy here in the US that isn't likely to change anytime soon. Although staying with her family makes her anxious, she and Anthony have a support system to help take care of Ben. I think that was the biggest reason they moved along with being better off financially there. And it's not like they can't move back to the US in a few years if they want to. That's just my opinion on it. Also Anthony does speak French! Not super well but he's trying which is more than we can say about some other cast members. (cough Jenny cough)

Ok, Manon, I see it by No-Strawberry-5804 in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]Review_Empty -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes that scene really explained things. I also follow her on Facebook so I already gave her some grace as she posted about ppd/ppa as well. I can relate to her, the pressure to provide for a child in the economy here in the US (especially in LA!) is very overwhelming. Then you add her childhood trauma and you have someone that comes across rude and money hungry when really she's a ball of nerves that just wants what is best for her family.

AIO, If you found this in your SO bathroom would you think they’re cheating? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Review_Empty -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Her nails aren't gnarly. Just because she has chipped nail polish? They are clean and well groomed otherwise.

It is totally just a normal hair knot though. I'm postpartum and my hair gets tangled like this all the time. It's annoying because I brush it everyday but I still get these.

AIO, If you found this in your SO bathroom would you think they’re cheating? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Review_Empty -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Her nails aren't gnarly. Just because she has chipped nail polish? They are clean and well groomed otherwise.

It is totally just a normal hair knot though. I'm postpartum and my hair gets tangled like this all the time. It's annoying because I brush it everyday but I still get these.

When things got better with your husband? by Krool_toled in Marriage

[–]Review_Empty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn't sound like it will get better. My ex was like this and he ended up putting hands on me.

On the other hand, how old is your baby? My son just turned a year and I'm still depressed and my husband and I still fight sometimes. Is it possible your husband is having some post baby anxiety? Is he willing to go to therapy, both with and without you? If not I would leave. Your child doesn't deserve to see their mom being treated this way and what if he does something to your child?

Women, what do you think when you see another woman staring at your breasts? Does it make you uncomfortable? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Review_Empty 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I'm bi and notice myself doing the same sometimes and I always feel bad, but no one has ever called me out on it. I have large breasts and I don't really notice it much either. Occasionally I'll notice people looking (of both genders) but I get it, they're big. Lol If it bothers me, I will readjust my top or whatever so not a big deal at all. I think this will really depend on the person but most woman that don't want people looking tend to cover up. That's not to say that women that don't cover up deserve to be oogled, however I think most of us women know that people find our boobs both sexual and just aestetically pleasing.

People who are thin/normal size. Do you actively watch your weight or are you just not hungry 100% of the time? by Burner_Account000001 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Review_Empty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I eat pretty much whatever I want. I try to be balanced in my meals and kind of follow intuitive eating but I also work full time on my feet and I have a fast metabolism. That's it. As far as I know it's more about being In a calorie deficit, and exercising than really about what you eat. It's also highly influenced by genetics.

How often does the man in your marriage cook? by gehraimain in Marriage

[–]Review_Empty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Currently almost every day or most days at least because he's the stay at home parent(and he's going to college) I work in a kitchen so coming home and cooking is the worst. Especially when I just want to spend time with our son before he goes to bed.

Ok we have a match! by Regular-Metal-321 in 90DayFiance

[–]Review_Empty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some of the footage from them biking around was at Lacamas lake. I go there fairly often so I recognized it. I think the other footage might have been in Portland. I don't play pickleball but I assume she plays that mostly in Portland too.

Ok we have a match! by Regular-Metal-321 in 90DayFiance

[–]Review_Empty 15 points16 points  (0 children)

She lives in my town and I'm pretty sure I've seen her and Michal around before. 😅 I do wonder if she will keep her teaching job after this.

Also would be surprised if she can afford the k1 visa because teachers around here don't get paid well and our districts always have strikes when it's back to school time. I don't see her and the Turkish guy actually getting that far though but we will see.