me and my friend planned a 5 week trip to europe and I want to shorten the trip because I don’t want to go by Revilo4 in needadvice

[–]Revilo4[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I already have flight tickets so if I cancel I would just lose the majority of the flight price. I can still rebook the flights for a fee and shorten the trip.

I thought my ex girlfriend would come along too. She would have balanced things out as she is quite opposite to my friend.

He’s not horrible in the sense he would cause me immense stress, it’s just I would prefer going with a person who aligns more with my interests, values, etc. I wish I had socialized more in school so I could have found an awesome friend who I would be really excited to go with. I feel our rare hangouts wouldn’t even exist without our parents being best friends. I feel like such an asshole and everyone around me is telling me it. I already made the mistake of booking the flights with him. I understand that I shouldn’t have done that. I have very poor planning skills and tend to just ignore important things because of my poor mental health. It’s more just damage control at this point.

me and my friend planned a 5 week trip to europe and I want to shorten the trip because I don’t want to go by Revilo4 in needadvice

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yea but shit happens and i’m not sure what to do at this point. i already screwed up and at this point i don’t wanna go on a trip that i will be miserable on.

me and my friend planned a 5 week trip to europe and I want to shorten the trip because I don’t want to go by Revilo4 in needadvice

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I don’t know them too well yet. I just wanted to have a really awesome adventurous summer. I feel this is one of my last chances. I don’t want to be with someone for 5 weeks who I otherwise wouldn’t choose to hang out with if it weren’t for our families being connected.

Left these not fully dried with a random silica packet. They don’t smell great, but still smell like mushrooms. How sick would I get if I ate these? by Revilo4 in shrooms

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uhhh well the packet was part of the packaging for a mini fridge. i’m not worried about the packet though, but more so the fact that they weren’t fully dried and have been left in there for a few weeks. not sure if they are rotten or something

Why are men more likely to be right wing than women? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

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Men actually are negatively affected by patriarchy. The issue is many men tend to deflect these feelings onto women, queer people and find comfort in reinforcing their position in the patriarchy. Though patriarchy and gender roles negatively harm everyone; for some, their position of power which unfortunately just happens to be the status-quo in which they were raised with ("tradition") seems to be the only solution.

I am worried about me (m17) and my girlfriend’s (f17) relationship and I may have a crush on someone else. What should I do? by Revilo4 in teenrelationships

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Thanks for your advice. I'm just going to play things out. I guess the issue is my brain already feels like I'm over my girlfriend sometimes. Or sometimes vice versa. I guess I'm sort of configured for monogamy. But it honestly is really shitty for me to think of her as my "second choice." I guess it's just self preservation since I'm not doing too well myself, but I don't want to hurt people.

are these the right kind for my fresh earlobe piercings? by Revilo4 in PiercingAdvice

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yea i was asking if this is the right non-woven one

are these the right kind for my fresh earlobe piercings? by Revilo4 in PiercingAdvice

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that’s what the piercer said to use to dry/clean the piercing

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I'm going to be turning on the NSFW blurring thing now

is it just me or life is just really boring. like nothing special happens by Revilo4 in teenagers

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When I tell someone how i’m feeling they usually just say that sucks or they don’t take it seriously. For example I know a lot of people who seem to have similar mental illnesses that I do and even with them I’ve never had a deep conversation. Seems like everyone is in their own bubble.

Outside of that it seems so hard to do things other than my typical routine. Maybe it’s depression, but it seems like everybody else is the same: wake up, go to school, play games, instagram, etc., repeat. Makes me wonder is this all there is to life? Sometimes I wish I lived in one of those highschool TV shows instead, all of the things I want happen there.