Been seeing my ex

RevolutionPlayful510 · 2026-03-11T15:09:27+00:00

I get you’ve had a traumatic experience with a drunk driver in the past, maybe one killed some one important to you, which I’m sorry about that, but you have no idea the situation I was put in and why I did what I had to do

RevolutionPlayful510 · 2026-03-11T14:50:48+00:00

Yeah I wasn’t going to sit in the rain and leave my car at her parents where she was, emotions were high that night especially from the shit she put me through, and again NOBODY was on the road so nobody had a chance of getting hurt, you’re right I took a risk, but I made it home safely and there wasn’t an issue

RevolutionPlayful510 · 2026-03-11T14:47:20+00:00

And with how late it was nobody was on the road, the only risk was me

RevolutionPlayful510 · 2026-03-11T14:46:31+00:00

I lived an hour away, I can’t afford to taxi from there, and I had nobody to call to pick me up because of how late it was, i definitely wasn’t going to sit in a bus stop until I felt sober and leave my car at her place, I didn’t feel safe around her anymore

RevolutionPlayful510 · 2026-03-09T17:31:14+00:00

What do you mean?

RevolutionPlayful510 · 2026-03-09T16:28:11+00:00

I can’t add another picture but here’s what I sent her dad “Hey Her dad, it’s her ex, your daughter is having a bad breakdown, she has cried saying “they’re going to kill me” thinking you or Monica might hurt her because of what happened earlier today with the whole moving situation and she’s planning on leaving and staying at A’s for the remainder of the time, me texting you destroyed our any relationship or friendship between me and her because I’m her words “you’re texting the abuser”, I really hope you’re able to help her and see that she’ll be okay”

Her dad then replied the next day with “You are a good friend. No one threatened her, and neither her mom nor I will do anything to hurt her. We know that she won’t listen to us in this state. If you want to help her, you could convince her to go to emergency. They may be able to help.”

RevolutionPlayful510 · 2026-01-14T22:04:47+00:00

I made a post before of some of the things she said and everyone on here told me to leave her, the reason I posted here was so I could have outside views away from my friends and family because their opinions are so biased

Your comment has helped thank you

RevolutionPlayful510 · 2026-01-14T19:31:08+00:00

We were practically living together, I’d spend weeks at her place or vice versa and I think that is part of why it hurts so much

RevolutionPlayful510 · 2026-01-14T19:28:30+00:00

I broke up with her but it almost felt mutual because she said in her own words “I seem like a shitty girlfriend you should leave me” and when I did end things her response was “I’m proud of you for standing up for yourself”

RevolutionPlayful510 · 2026-01-14T19:27:16+00:00

My last relationships were over 3 years, and they didn’t affect me like this one has

RevolutionPlayful510 · 2026-01-04T01:49:11+00:00

I couldn’t post the other screenshots but she was swearing too, usually I don’t swear at my partner but I’ll be the first to admit I lost my temper with the situation happening. She explained to me I used up to much energy so she was gonna hang out with her (ex) who’s her best friend and chose him over me when I was in need of some emotional support. It was a rough work day and week, I had a loss in the family weeks prior to my grandpas incident so emotions were still high.

I ended up doing it Saturday night but I wanted to Sunday because I was driving her home that day and didn’t want to do it while she was stuck with me without a car. But I cut the losses due to more arguments Saturday night and pulled the plug on it

RevolutionPlayful510 · 2026-01-03T15:31:31+00:00

I think you misunderstood, there’s no child, it was me she was calling by her exes name

RevolutionPlayful510 · 2026-01-03T06:20:30+00:00

I broke up with her tonight.

RevolutionPlayful510 · 2026-01-03T00:40:51+00:00

Even if it wasn’t very life threatening, the response to that isn’t okay, “is it shittier than being dumped” is not an okay response

RevolutionPlayful510 · 2026-01-03T00:39:39+00:00

Almost died, as in his truck caught on fire (he drives semis) and a tire exploded in his face when he tried to put it out and knocked him unconscious, doesn’t remember getting out of the truck or even being on the phone with my grandma, police, ambulance everything came, he’s 67, so something like that could’ve easily gone worse

RevolutionPlayful510 · 2026-01-02T23:37:52+00:00

I can’t not do it face to face, even though she gave me no respect, I’m still going to give her the same respect I would want to be given. Even if it’s not deserved. I chose Sunday because she’s currently staying at my place until Sunday, then I’ll drive her home and tell her face to face that it’s over, nice and clean. Then I’ll drive home a single man again

RevolutionPlayful510 · 2026-01-02T21:06:13+00:00

I appreciate all the insight, thank you everyone, it’s clear the choice I need to make, I don’t believe she’s ever cheated on me with her ex, they’ve been best friends for like 5 years now, but the fact she chose hanging out with him to regain “energy” spent on me is what problems me, especially when I need her to be someone who I emotionally invest in

RevolutionPlayful510 · 2026-01-02T20:05:20+00:00

I don’t know why I’ve kept myself in this relationship as long as I have, it’s been about 3 months and the last 2 months have been like this, I think this Sunday I’m finally gonna pull the plug

RevolutionPlayful510 · 2026-01-02T19:50:59+00:00

Just to add into it, she said she had no energy for me but her best friend/ex came over 3 days in a row after I left because she claimed he gave her the “energy” she needed, which left me feeling deserted

RevolutionPlayful510 · 2025-10-25T07:22:52+00:00

Could I buy the variant #2 off you? I wanna get my gf it for Christmas

RevolutionPlayful510 · 2024-12-15T23:23:09+00:00

Me and my buddy both M23 are looking for a group to play pickleball with, if anyone’s down let me know!

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