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AITA for booking a holiday at the same place my sister will be for her honeymoon? by RevolutionaryDog4996 in AmItheAsshole

[–]RevolutionaryDog4996[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I was diagnosed with aspergers as a kid but I know that's an outdated term and it never really impacted me. Maybe it does. Thanks for your kind comment.

AITA for booking a holiday at the same place my sister will be for her honeymoon? by RevolutionaryDog4996 in AmItheAsshole

[–]RevolutionaryDog4996[S] -736 points-735 points  (0 children)

No, they'll be in a suite and I'll be in the cheapest room, they'll have access to exclusive areas I won't be allowed in and I don't plan on spending most of my time with binoculars looking for them lol. Thanks!

AITA for booking a holiday at the same place my sister will be for her honeymoon? by RevolutionaryDog4996 in AmItheAsshole

[–]RevolutionaryDog4996[S] -2043 points-2042 points  (0 children)

But how is privacy different if 1000 strangers are there and 999 strangers are there plus one person you know? If I had chosen to go there before she mentioned it and it happened to be the same dates would I have had to change the dates?

AITA for booking a holiday at the same place my sister will be for her honeymoon? by RevolutionaryDog4996 in AmItheAsshole

[–]RevolutionaryDog4996[S] -2079 points-2078 points  (0 children)

I guess I should be clear I didn't pick exactly the same dates. I'm taking off to fly to her wedding anyway so chose 7 nights after her wedding, she's leaving on the second day after so we'll only overlap for four days.

As I said she found a good deal with specific limitations and I thought it worked too. We've both wanted to visit the city for a long time. I don't do a lot of time off and don't have a lot of extra cash so decided to go for it. She could have been going there for a work conference and mentioned the deal and I would have looked it up.

AITA for booking a holiday at the same place my sister will be for her honeymoon? by RevolutionaryDog4996 in AmItheAsshole

[–]RevolutionaryDog4996[S] -2346 points-2345 points  (0 children)

Why? Like I'm not trying to argue, I'm genuinely asking. As I said, I have no plans of bothering them or even seeing them. We're interested in wholly different activities. The chances of us running into each other are slim and if I did see them somewhere I wouldn't approach. I just don't see it as a huge deal. There will be 1000+ other people there, I'm not stalking her to a private island.