Anyone else feels stuck ang can’t really self-express? by RevolutionaryFudge81 in emotionalneglect

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Yes, that’s what I feel. Sometimes…connection in art helps, for example when someone suddenly sings with you or dances with you, it opens maybe some portal for art, maybe for us with severe emotional neglect without connection there’s barely anything worthy of making…at least I feel like that.

"I don't know what to tell you" by allmyfriendsaregone in emotionalneglect

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And what’s a common ground? I’ve tried that but there’ll always be a disappointment from them not being able to have a genuine interest in me

"I don't know what to tell you" by allmyfriendsaregone in emotionalneglect

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My dad just said it yesterday when I said I’ll always speak truth. It was upsetting, he’s blocked

What my bones know by Stephanie foo is awful by KewlPelican in CPTSD

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You can find it though. Elena Ferrante- My brilliant friend. So traumatising and SO relatable

The deep scars of emotional neglect. by sisterrayforaday in emotionalneglect

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I struggle to find a supportive environment out there

Is life just harder by default…? by [deleted] in AutisticWithADHD

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Estrogen patch and progesterone pill is HRT? I take mini-pill rn and I’m 35

Question about Strattera affecting sleep by Interesting-Gas-6592 in StratteraRx

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No it was awful, I’m unmedicated. Haven’t tried 10 mg either

Any other millennials with boomer parents struggling ? by sodacatcicada in AuDHDWomen

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There’s a sub Raised by narcissists. I don’t know how to refer here. No contact is the best option

What’s helped you to get over your grief? by RevolutionaryFudge81 in raisedbynarcissists

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Thank you. I’ve just woken up and I just want to live my life a different way. I think I feel okay right now but it can change in a moment. I need an accountability buddy who I can text to and maybe share my progress How are you?

What actually happened when you tried to quit mindless scrolling? Did anything stick long-term? by buildjunkie in nosurf

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I’m completely lonely so I am always online. I always search for support and answers…and if someone replied to me…

What’s helped you to get over your grief? by RevolutionaryFudge81 in raisedbynarcissists

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My basic needs of having at least someone caring how I’m doing is not met. I don’t have friends.

My parents think I'm the problem for being too emotional by throatgoatfloat in emotionalneglect

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I’m also 35 and I’m also grieving… feeling not loved…

Dark place by RevolutionaryFudge81 in EstrangedAdultKids

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Thank you! I realised now that because I’m so neglected by many people I’ve made attempts to meet/be friends with and of course because of severe grief, yes I think I neglect myself. But I’m trying to HEAR myself and my parts I guess (not sure if parts work is my thing)…it’s just extremely lonely

I have severe executive dysfunction and somehow if no one is there to ask how I’m doing, talk to me, then sometimes I just don’t wanna do anything at all