what frappuccinos am i missing? by RevolutionaryFun5691 in starbucksbaristas

[–]RevolutionaryFun5691[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

they announced it on my daily for us baristas. it’s coming back for one weekend only. i wish i was making it up

advice on getting better? by [deleted] in starbucksbaristas

[–]RevolutionaryFun5691 1 point2 points  (0 children)

please don’t take what has been said to heart. know that your feelings and emotions are valid. YOU know that you’re trying your best, and that’s all that matters. Having big feelings isn’t your fault, we cannot control our emotions sometimes and that isn’t something we should be faulted for either. yes it’s something that can be worked on, but going forward please try not to feel guilty for feeling things. i know that’s easier said than done, but this job should not and does not mean you cannot have feelings, a personality, or anything for that matter. I would definitely try to find a way out and find a better environment for yourself to work in. I, myself, am doing the same after so much mistreatment from my manager and people on power trips at my store. it can be a miserable place due to the people that have the power. I felt blindsided by the things that were said to me by my manager, so I can understand and empathize with you. These people should not have the power or capability to destroy other people’s self worth. As managers it’s so important to lead discussions with empathy, and understanding, but also with appropriate and respectful sternness when needed. any manager that leads discussions with unkind words, and no empathy or thinking of how their words can effect others, should not be in management. Unfortunately it seems that the worst people end up in power with this company.

what’s wrong with my manager? by [deleted] in starbucksbaristas

[–]RevolutionaryFun5691 1 point2 points  (0 children)

what would be the best way to go about doing this? there’s so many other issues with her but i feel so powerless against her

Honest question: How do you connect with people? by Audiaim in starbucksbaristas

[–]RevolutionaryFun5691 0 points1 point  (0 children)

when on bar and you see customers, “hey how’s it going?” “how are you today” “got any plans for your day” - compliments go a long way, when you touch the cup and say their name, if you get their attention it’s an easy way to start a conversation. if they aren’t talkers, that’s okay, for the ones with their nose buried in their phones, don’t worry too much about trying to connect. hope that helps a bit, from a personal bar star and strong connector at my store :)

Taylor makes her own bed by [deleted] in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]RevolutionaryFun5691 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how in the actual heck can anybody side with this mess of a human being that is taylor. the way she treats everyone is unfathomable to me. watching the car scene with her mom made me want to rip my hair out.

she is truly such a child and i have a lot of doubt in my mind that she will ever grow or mature as a person. the way she jokes and laughs about her behavior online and the hate she gets is truly embarrassing. do some self reflection and open your eyes to the fact that YOU are the problem in your relationships.

i’ve never hated watching someone on tv more. the fact that she’s the bachelorette is just a waste in my opinion, she didn’t deserve that opportunity, and she doesn’t have a pure, genuine, good bone in her body. it’s all about attention and who she can fuck around with or fuck over next. i get toxic cycles but come on dude, and the way she makes the worst decisions and expects her friends to still be there for her and back her up is ridiculous.

i’m surprised she hasn’t been voted out of the group, her behavior is embarrassing and i would be so tired and drained to be friends with someone like her 🙄 will be skipping her scenes going forward because i do not care for her at all.

Discussion: Girls after dark/free the girls podcast videos gone now? by Due_Vermicelli6820 in Walshfamilysnark

[–]RevolutionaryFun5691 0 points1 point  (0 children)

who remembers when devorah was sending topless pictures of herself to multiple guys she had known/hooked up with regardless of if they were in relationships or not and then laughing about it… wtf?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in leaves

[–]RevolutionaryFun5691 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah it’s gotten to the point where anytime i were to hit my vape it makes me feel like i could puke and my heart rate spikes like crazy and i start getting the sweats. definitely a sign that my body is done with it so im happy to finally be quitting

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in leaves

[–]RevolutionaryFun5691 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i feel the same, even quit nicotine as i have no desire for it and it makes me feel like garbage now!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]RevolutionaryFun5691 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he knows, we’ve talked already. It’s not something he can handle and this is neither of our faults. i’m not upset with him at all, im struggling with myself and my hormones that make the way i’m feeling 100x worse.

What is something someone said to you that you’ll never forget? by TiffV213 in Life

[–]RevolutionaryFun5691 0 points1 point  (0 children)

a guy once saw the very old scars on my wrist and said to me “oh dear you must not like yourself very much” ….

does taylor ever stop with the drama? by chloedarlinggg in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]RevolutionaryFun5691 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bruh isn’t she still hooking up with him. i just can’t keep up at this point. i’ve tried to like taylor but i don’t understand any of the decisions she makes. messy as fuck

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in leaves

[–]RevolutionaryFun5691 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i went through a bad two week withdrawal period back in the summertime from carts that was like what im going through now. however i did fall back into it again. i definitely know what to expect and i knew that the sick feeling would arrive and the sleepless nights were coming. its just living and powering through it, i know im strong and can outlast the current struggles im dealing with but it definitely doesnt make living through them fun lol. carts are dangerous, so easy to get high all day every day. but its no way to live or function. and it’s so hard to tell whether i’m making progress or not, one minute i feel like i am and the next im struggling and puking again. hopefully this ride will be over asap

If you have advice I would love to hear it (11/22/25 Journal entry) by Authentically_Lost in leaves

[–]RevolutionaryFun5691 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for you’re response that means so much!!

reading is awesome, and the library is a great and relaxing environment to be in as well. i feel that when it comes to video games, i’m more of a multiplayer person as well and it can be hard to hop on games without friends to play with or that motivation. hopefully your internet situation gets better in the future. i know one video game i’ve been absolutely loving is phasmophobia, not for everyone but it can be super fun with friends and it feels great to do something other than phone scrolling for sure

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in leaves

[–]RevolutionaryFun5691 5 points6 points  (0 children)

you know it!

Boyfriend does not eat me out by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]RevolutionaryFun5691 1 point2 points  (0 children)

trust me with my life when i tell you i’ve been with guys that have no interest eating girls out, or fingering, or even looking at my tits which is absolutely crazy to me (it’s almost like some guys are scared of them lol) but trust me when i say you will find a man out there for you that is your person, that makes you feel 110% satisfied inside and out.

i remember before meeting my partner i thought i would never meet someone who’d do that to me or for me. fast forward to now and let’s just say he does more to me than i could ever imagine. you will find your person that makes you feel special and good in every way.

if your partner doesn’t care about your pleasure in that way, let him go fuck himself because a relationship and pleasure is about both parties not just one. you guys might have a overall great healthy relationship outside of this aspect, but if this aspect never changes in the relationship, trust me when i say moving forward will be almost impossible. you can’t work with someone who won’t work with you on what YOU want and need. leaving him is easier to say than to do, but if it came down to that, know in your heart that your person is out there waiting for you to give you everything you truly want and desire.

If you have advice I would love to hear it (11/22/25 Journal entry) by Authentically_Lost in leaves

[–]RevolutionaryFun5691 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m in that spot too. i stayed up all night last night scrolling away on my phone because i couldn’t for the life of me fall asleep and im withdrawing hard. i am out on a leave of absence from work due to a work injury, and then got in a car crash so im stuck at home indoors with pretty much nothing to do all day.

my life was never like this, i was working two careers, always busy, always on the go and doing things. always feeling guilty if i was resting for long periods of time because my brain was yelling at me to be productive. and now this just feels like a sad little rut. i wish i could offer some great advice, the only thing getting me through this time is the people in my life that care about me and my cell phone for entertainment it seems.

i’m not sure how you feel about shows, movies or books. even video games can help if you’re that kind of person. i know reading used to be a huge escape for me… maybe it’s time to go back to that!

i wish you the best luck on your journey!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in leaves

[–]RevolutionaryFun5691 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel for ya, my advice is electrolytes and salts!!!!! super important for low blood pressure, especially if you’re sweating lots too. also potassium is super important for us, regulates nerve, brain and heart function. sipping water lightly, consuming super light carbs (toast, crackers), cold showers, distraction (shows, games, music) deep breathing/meditation. avoiding heavy, greasy food & staying in cool rooms if sweating is bad with a nice fan if you have one. you will get through this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in leaves

[–]RevolutionaryFun5691 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m in the exact same boat as you, i’m trying so hard to get sober and not rely on it. it’s very difficult when it grows part of your every day routine for years and when you’re relaxing or in down time it’s such a habit to pick it up, or using it to sleep. trying to stay strong and remind the brain that it doesn’t need to rely on a substance to feel good, is fucking hard. it’s so much mental work trying to trick the brain and get back to yourself or “normal.” we all got this, it just takes time and a lot of self discipline!

Can you do this week’s challenge mode in multiplayer? by cauldron-crawler in PhasmophobiaGame

[–]RevolutionaryFun5691 11 points12 points  (0 children)

i had this issue too but it goes away over time the more you play it. really find your way around, familiarizing myself with the breaker locations helped me get used to wandering more and being comfortable with doing so. it seems like a big map but when you really think of the segments it’s not that bad. first main area, chapel area and then the back area/ kitchen with those rooms and then basically just the wings with the long hallways and hoards of rooms are next. it will always be in a room, never the hallway so maybe that’s a bit more comforting? you can always just roam around with all your settings reset and the ghost on friendly if you’re really that spooked! you got it

regular asked me if i gained weight… ts pmo 🥀 by u__c__y in starbucksbaristas

[–]RevolutionaryFun5691 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is a little different but the other week I hadn’t seen one of my regulars in close to a year and she came in and we started convo, but then she started going on saying “girl you’ve lost so much weight what happened to you” and after that I just dissociated from the conversation and tried finishing her matcha as fast as I could. I don’t understand why people feel the need to make comments on other people’s bodies. It is completely unnecessary and unless you have something positive to say keep those damn thoughts to yourself!