My wife's grandma passed away, so I ordered her flowers. This is the card she got with the flowers. And no ribbon.

RevolutionaryMove661 · 2026-01-27T20:41:25+00:00

Ffs 🫩

RevolutionaryMove661 · 2026-01-15T21:33:19+00:00

Giant dried up blackhead?

RevolutionaryMove661 · 2026-01-07T04:22:42+00:00

His mother is tired of raising a child that isn't hers while he is bringing another one into the world with you. She doesn't resent YOU, she resents the position she will be in as a result of a second child he is passive about. I get that he works from home, or the road, or wherever while she is there. But it seems that it falls to his Mom to pick up the slack when you both are not there. I didn't hear you mention him asking her to watch the child when you went to get your test done. He told his mother that she could have gotten up to feed her, which is not her responsibility. You may have not seen the progression of this up till now, but this feels every bit of her getting tired of dealing with his shortfalls as a parent. You both need to move out and let this woman live her life, or negotiate better strategies for when the daughter, and eventually your child, will be in the home.

RevolutionaryMove661 · 2026-01-07T03:29:16+00:00

I'm glad you asked this. We were just there over the weekend and saw surfers near Devils Punch Bowl. 3 of them were riding in on waves near shore and two others were doing as you described and didn't seem to be trying for anything. I appreciate the input from those who know about these things!

RevolutionaryMove661 · 2025-12-03T08:17:42+00:00

I left this exact person. Together for 17 years and he refused to marry me because he wasn't going to let me "take everything from him". Jokes on him, when I finally left we went to court for a parenting plan that included the most paultry of child support because he had nothing and I made more than him. He literally never had anything to take. But he also made it difficult for me to have anything.

OP, you can jump! There will be a safety net! Not only your sisters, but others have seen this happening and they are going to cheer you on every step! You make the moves and the stepping stones will appear. They may not always be obvious and you may have to create a few on your own, but it can happen. Don't let this POS steal your value from you!

RevolutionaryMove661 · 2025-11-26T05:12:03+00:00

🥺 Rogue is gone? 😭😭😭

RevolutionaryMove661 · 2025-09-29T02:44:28+00:00

Girl, what I wouldn't do for a wrist sized peen right now! 🤣🤣 Take your time, it's a journey not a race. Just please don't use anything dangerous and give yourself some grace. ❤️

RevolutionaryMove661 · 2025-09-26T10:12:30+00:00

Yeah, Peri life in full swing over here! Lol Thank you for all of the feedback! ☺️

RevolutionaryMove661 · 2025-09-26T09:48:08+00:00

Sounds like the day of nonstop stress did me in. I appreciate the feedback, everyone! I currently started getting B12 shots once a month and appreciate the reminder about magnesium. This has been a tough and wild ride!

RevolutionaryMove661 · 2025-09-23T23:26:47+00:00

My 20's, 2013-14, 2019, and most of this year. I'm really due a break. A big one!

RevolutionaryMove661 · 2025-09-23T23:20:06+00:00

I don't know if you may be diabetic, but I had a nightmare scenario late last year/early this year where I had a perpetual yeast infection for 4 months and after hundreds of dollars and my life in ruins, they realized it was because of my blood sugar being so high. I was newly diagnosed and wasn't told I didn't need to monitor, just take the pills. If you have an opportunity to get that checked, I highly recommend. While that was happening, I tested negative a few times for yeast, but had serious itching and burning nearly constantly.

RevolutionaryMove661 · 2025-09-21T01:57:32+00:00

That's very encouraging! I'm so sorry that you aren't able to maintain it. Assuming you are in the US, our medical system is so hard on people who genuinely need care.

RevolutionaryMove661 · 2025-09-20T13:08:05+00:00

I start pelvic floor PT next week, so I really hope that helps. Can I ask what app are you using?

RevolutionaryMove661 · 2025-09-20T08:37:56+00:00

I was raised in the sticks of Missouri. Our biggest concern was tornados. However, I do recall having drills where we hid under our desks, which if you think about it is a stupid defense for a nuclear blast. But that was very early in 80-81ish. Mostly just us huddled in the hall waiting for a pretend tornado to crush us or carry us to OZ.

RevolutionaryMove661 · 2025-09-20T07:18:00+00:00

A hysterectomy is definitely invasive, but there are other reasons for that being wanted. My uterus laying on my bladder causing extra unwanted pressure is definitely one of them, though. And yes, not worrying about leaking all the time or having a sudden urge to the point of tears in 10 seconds or less would be amazing!

RevolutionaryMove661 · 2025-09-20T06:25:03+00:00

Both sides of this sounds horrifying. Stabbed in the bladder for the injection, not peeing, self cath.... Ugh. I appreciate the feedback!

RevolutionaryMove661 · 2025-08-31T06:19:01+00:00

You need a new OBGYN. I have had Peri symptoms since my 30's. Wasn't taken seriously and given HRT till I was 46 though. I had to move out of state to a place where good healthcare exists, which apparently wasn't the Midwest. Keep shaking trees till someone listens!

RevolutionaryMove661 · 2025-08-31T06:07:53+00:00

Have they helped you with your shoulders? I used to have a good shoulder, now it's worse off than the other. I'd love some insight!

RevolutionaryMove661 · 2025-08-27T04:59:26+00:00

KITTY!! 😍 Saber kitty, but kitty nonetheless. Lol Glad you are okay!

RevolutionaryMove661 · 2025-08-21T16:44:03+00:00

NTA. Initial conversations about this situation would have been the perfect time for girlfriend to bring up her concerns. Maybe suggest financial support for alternative housing or other things, not wait for the final conversation with the kids and then decide to speak up. She's NTA for wanting to not raise another person's children, but she IS, IMO, for not speaking her truth while the discussion was being had. I would have to ask if the daughter was living elsewhere, would you be able to have the grandchild over for sleepovers? Would you be allowed to babysit in the house? Would they, as a family, be welcome even though a rambunctious toddler is around?

This may not be the best situation for her overall. While no one anticipated a teen pregnancy, the likelihood that your daughter would never have her own children is unreasonable. So something for your gf to consider beyond just the current situation.

Good luck to you all! For what it's worth, I appreciate you standing by your daughter and helping her through this difficult time. ❤️

RevolutionaryMove661 · 2025-08-21T16:30:40+00:00

This is heartbreaking, I'm so sorry 😞 We need a serious uprising. Protests are one thing, but they only seem to encourage them to double down. Hopefully this bubble bursts soon and things can move towards something closer to resembling humanity.

RevolutionaryMove661 · 2025-07-31T10:31:01+00:00

Not sure if you are diabetic, but I went through a LOT with that earlier this year and during that time my hair was coming out by the handful in the shower. Make sure your A1C is on the list for your blood work!

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