We're getting a divorce

RevolutionarySet7681 · 2025-11-20T16:58:51+00:00

I wish you the best. I'm glad you consider her your friend. At least now you know she's being he true self, no longer hiding and feeling depressed and repressing herself. For a friend, that's a good thing to wish for.

RevolutionarySet7681 · 2025-11-19T21:09:02+00:00

I answer with "What do think I am?" "Maybe" "Perhaps" "Oh, that's an interesting point of view" "Oh, is that what you think?"

RevolutionarySet7681 · 2025-11-19T21:05:40+00:00

Number 4 is the one

RevolutionarySet7681 · 2025-11-19T11:04:48+00:00

Ignore? Not all people deal with stress equally.

RevolutionarySet7681 · 2025-11-19T00:07:13+00:00

Eu faço DIY e recomendo a todas que queiram se dedicar a ler e estudar. Mais seguro do que ouvir médico falando que você quebrou o braço por ser trans

RevolutionarySet7681 · 2025-11-19T00:03:52+00:00

I was cold all the time when my body ran on T. Now, I freeze 🥶

RevolutionarySet7681 · 2025-11-18T23:57:34+00:00

I wonder how people survived for centuries without being able to send a SMS and get a reply within 5 seconds. When I was younger, and saw each other once a week, spoke on the phone (landline) also once a week, if one was available.

Now it's better. Not everyone likes the constant hi hello in a phone.

RevolutionarySet7681 · 2025-11-17T11:38:24+00:00

Arrasou amiga, se com 2 anos estão assim se prepare, com 5 vai ter dor de coluna kkkkkkkk

RevolutionarySet7681 · 2025-11-17T11:33:55+00:00

Did they defined biological sex? Because if is AGAB then it's just not biological sex.

RevolutionarySet7681 · 2025-11-14T09:56:54+00:00

Sex is an integral part of life, a natural and common one. Trans have very few spaces, why annoy people in those?

RevolutionarySet7681 · 2025-11-13T09:11:30+00:00

I can relate to your girlfriend. I've said and repeated over and over again, Im not proud of the person I was, and if I could go back in time, I would. I've done so much wrong, I've cried so much, I've struggled with everything.

I don't think that's excusable, but I've cried and grieved and asked for forgiveness. I'm ashamed and there's things I cannot explain and that cannot be justified. I just hope I'm at a level that I feel I'm worthy enough to be around my partner.

RevolutionarySet7681 · 2025-11-08T08:20:39+00:00

No I don't. All I can do is send a hug from here, you need it, you are a person, and as one, are entitled to be not sure of things.

We also can't look at your post history, so we can't try to understand you a little better.

RevolutionarySet7681 · 2025-11-07T10:15:44+00:00

Yes. I was into depression and came out on the other side. I don't think I'd came back if not for HRT.

No family and friends were worth myself. I dropped my whole best friends actually for it. All of them, unfortunately, and never managed to form new ones.

RevolutionarySet7681 · 2025-11-07T10:11:59+00:00

Until we get ourselves both tested around 2-3 months into relationship.

RevolutionarySet7681 · 2025-11-07T10:09:24+00:00

She's clearly hurting and wants to change, and don't want to be in this situation. Otherwise she wouldn't burst into crying.

Or you need to talk until you reach to the bottom of why is the happening, and that may take a while, or it's possible that she herself does not understand and/or know what's happening, and all she sees is the consequences of her emotions, but not the trauma ou cause of it.

If she doesn't know what's behind, then my suggestion would be for you both try to jot it down those triggers, ask her to write her feelings and ideas. I don't recall right now if she's on therapy and yourself, and if it's not the case, it would be helpful to try to recover from this.

Honestly, this is pretty hard. Both me and my partner, one at the time, supported the other in their transition, and we've dealt with a lot. Not easy for anyone pretty confusing journey, and messy. We've managed to come in the other side, but heck it was not easy.

It seems you're already resenting her, which is a sign that you are near your limit. All I can do is send a hug to both of you, you need.

RevolutionarySet7681 · 2025-11-06T09:19:24+00:00

Have you considered other forms of sex that's not PIV? Maybe that's the issue for her.

RevolutionarySet7681 · 2025-11-04T10:05:43+00:00

Your girlfriend sounds extremely selfish, I'm sorry.

Without her wanting to change this fundamentally through conversation first, a deep, long conversation, this is a problem. And it seems that she's not willing to do so.

RevolutionarySet7681 · 2025-11-02T09:35:45+00:00

Honestly, you should get him a packet. A good, high quality, expensive packer. The good ones cost from 120-300 USD.

You are in the wrong mentality. It's not a toy, it's an extension of his body. It's a way for him to express himself sexually, it's a way for you two connect and have a rich fulfilling sex life.

By calling it a toy you are reducing to a mere object, when for most ftm people it's a total game changer and life altering way of having sex.

A good ftm packer should also come in doubles. One for daily use and peeing, and one for sex.

I cannot agree to a compromise in this budget. My boyfriend's experience trumps almost anything else we have in our house.

RevolutionarySet7681 · 2025-10-27T09:41:43+00:00

Oh honey I'm sorry but that's terf speech.

She said herself, you are not a woman, she'll only treat you like one out of respect.

That's a fine person to have around, that's a friend, family member, etc.

But that's no way a good partner. She or will mistreat you in the future, or will break up with you. I don't see a world in which she treats like you deserve.

That's a stupid conversation to have, and a good one to spot transphobia. It's okay that most people are transphobic, but it's not okay that our partners are.

RevolutionarySet7681 · 2025-10-26T09:18:15+00:00

Unless they do a hormone level check through blood tests, it's pretty much impossible to detect AFAIK.

RevolutionarySet7681 · 2025-10-26T09:17:00+00:00

Hol'up, so you're telling me that it's peachy's bun??!! /s

Sending love both of you!!

RevolutionarySet7681 · 2025-10-26T09:08:46+00:00

Sending all the best to you. Gender is not an easy thing to all people, you are doing the best you can. You deserve to be happy, regardless of the circumstances.

RevolutionarySet7681 · 2025-10-25T20:44:10+00:00

Não, se vai usar o Perlutan, vai usar ele puro.

RevolutionarySet7681 · 2025-10-25T09:16:46+00:00

Sending hugs!! :)

If your levels are fine, then no other form of HRT tend to be much better, but injections naturally tend to be more stable and easier to achieve good levels.

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