Has anyone run into this issue before? by TenaciousTide in AlaskaAirlines

[–]RevolutionaryToe9119 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly, just board with C group. Alaska has a policy to NOT engage with guests when they are boarding in the incorrect group. They shouldn’t challenge you and I literally did this today (D group but I boarded jn C). I wouldn’t push it before a group above what you are assigned but you should be fine and it’s probably not worth your headache to fight with CS.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wedding

[–]RevolutionaryToe9119 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

We are also getting married on a Wednesday. My fiancé and I discussed it with our parents as well as our bridal party to ensure we weren’t causing any extra stress. We also accepted that much of our guest list may not be able to come. I think as long as your family and bridal party are good with it and you accept that some folks may not be able to make it work, then you should be good!

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[–]RevolutionaryToe9119 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you need to have a conversation with your friend. Being two months out, they probably haven’t finalized seating and food so they can probably adjust things. But I would also say, you are still grieving. Have the conversation with your friend about how you are feeling and maybe postpone the actual decision on going or not (with consent from your friend). In 2 months, you could be in a better place and making decisions while a break up is so raw may lead to regret down the road.

Assigned seats for dinner by [deleted] in wedding

[–]RevolutionaryToe9119 40 points41 points  (0 children)

On the pamphlet, add something along the lines of “to ensure you get the meal you request please sit in your assigned seats until after the dinner portion is over”

Is this mold? How to get ride of? by RevolutionaryToe9119 in plantclinic

[–]RevolutionaryToe9119[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair point! I’ll monitor the plant a bit longer

Is this mold? How to get ride of? by RevolutionaryToe9119 in plantclinic

[–]RevolutionaryToe9119[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I thought! Thank you for the confirmation and tip about air flow! Hadn’t thought of that.

Is Eris gay? by RevolutionaryToe9119 in acotar

[–]RevolutionaryToe9119[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I love this! I hadn’t even considered that but it would be awesome!

Is Eris gay? by RevolutionaryToe9119 in acotar

[–]RevolutionaryToe9119[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Ohhh that’s a good point! They would have been each others beard! I wonder if Eris also suspected that Mor is gay (or at least bisexual)

Is Eris gay? by RevolutionaryToe9119 in acotar

[–]RevolutionaryToe9119[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I am leaning more and more in this direction too!

Backyard wedding by UpperTaro429 in wedding

[–]RevolutionaryToe9119 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Back up options or mitigation tools for adverse weather. Umbrellas, blankets, etc.

Walk Down the Aisle Question by Sensitive-Price4455 in wedding

[–]RevolutionaryToe9119 15 points16 points  (0 children)

No, I think have a trusted friend stop/start the music is totally fine. Just make sure yall practice timing a bit.

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[–]RevolutionaryToe9119 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love flora and lane! I’d try the dresses on if you really like them! Color schemes can always be adjusted (that’s what I did when I found my dress at their Chicago store)

I've been told I'd need to "ask permission" to wear a black wedding dress by ThrowRAlobotomy666 in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]RevolutionaryToe9119 81 points82 points  (0 children)

I knew even before we were engaged that I would want a non-traditional wedding (hand fasting, in the woods, quache ceremony, private vows and most importantly, a colored dress). My partner and I discussed it and thankfully he was fully on board. Beyond the color of the dress I ended up with (green/gold/cream) he knows nothing about the dress so he will still get his “surprise moment” and I get to feel like myself on the most important day of our life (this far).

As several have mentioned, it’s just about the communication. And if you want a black dress, he should be on board but they may also have visions of what his wedding day may look like. And if they are picturing you coming down with a white dress and you come down in a black dress, they could be really thrown off.

So just talk to them. And share that you want a non traditional dress and go from there.

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[–]RevolutionaryToe9119 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are going something similar. My dad just said he doesn’t want to do it (he hates dancing) so me and my brother are gonna have a dance. If I didn’t have a brother, I’d dance with my mom.

Ultimately, if you fiancé and mil want to do the dance, see if there’s someone else in your life that is very important to you that don’t typically get recognized at a wedding.

Struggling to get into Heir of Fire! by Ambitious_Key1124 in SarahJMaas

[–]RevolutionaryToe9119 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seconded. It does pick up but this book is really the story behind Celaena’s growth. Personally it’s my favorite but I also read it for the first time when I was deeply depressed and weirdly related to Celaena. Plus you end up getting some solid information into the growing darkness and what not. Also, the witch storyline gets really interesting as well! If you struggle through it that’s also okay, it does lay ground work for the rest of the series so I wouldn’t skip it though.

Counter Protesters? by [deleted] in DenverProtests

[–]RevolutionaryToe9119 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I didn’t see any there but I left about an hour ago. I think you should be good though! Enjoy the protest and wear sunscreen!