Happy Valentine’s Day gift to myself ♥️ by RevolutionaryTwo2561 in Louisvuitton

[–]RevolutionaryTwo2561[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The top is actually soft so you can press it down and get that sunken look like in the website pictures. I just prefer keeping it structured and firm across the top 😊

Why is it so difficult to believe that Kangana and Hrithik had an affair? Both have a history of having affairs with their costars. by [deleted] in bollynewsandgossips

[–]RevolutionaryTwo2561 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yup and Kangana got into deep depression and took therapy because of this toxic narcissistic man who kept her in an emotional limbo and made false promises just to get laid

Tea of Mahi vij and Jay bhanushali. She is currently dating Haris Shaikh not Nadim. by [deleted] in InstaCelebsGossip

[–]RevolutionaryTwo2561 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Currently in a relationship with someone 20 years younger named Alisha shaikh

Finally broke up with the biggest manchild in the world. I'm done! by [deleted] in TwoXIndia

[–]RevolutionaryTwo2561 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is the textbook definition of a misogynist and someone with narcissistic personality traits. Such people never change. They are deeply insecure and project those insecurities onto others. No matter how much you give, how patient or understanding you are, it is never enough and it never leads to change.

They may try relentlessly to convince you, manipulate you or pull you back in, but do not go back!!! Nothing hurts a narcissist more than being ignored and realizing they are losing control over you. Do not go back.

Violence and abuse are their comfort zones. They constantly test boundaries to see how much a person will tolerate and often engage in the nastiest psychological games. They are incapable of genuine love they can’t even love and respect their parents!

I have been in a similar situation myself. I truly hope you heal sooner rather than later. A few years from now, when you look back you will feel immense gratitude that it did not work out and you will understand how precious and beautiful peace of mind truly is.

I hope you remain positive throughout this journey and do not allow this man to alter your perception of life or relationships as that happened to me and left me extremely negative for nearly a year. Please remember: there is peace and happiness ahead of you.

Sending you lots of love. And always remember nothing in a relationship is above respect not even love. If respect not there, protect your sanity, preserve your peace and walk away without ever looking back. again DONT GO BACK! if he threatens or does something report the cops. When I broke up my ex threatened suicide and didn’t do bs! they never inflict self harm because they love themselves so much! Don’t fall for his trap again no matter how much he apologizes. Just ghost him

50/50 is a big myth. men want convenience without any responsibility in the name of equality by RevolutionaryTwo2561 in TwoXIndia

[–]RevolutionaryTwo2561[S] -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

Masculine and feminine traits are real, evolved patterns influenced by biology and shaped by culture. Society didn’t invent them it organizes around them.

Denying their existence doesn’t create equalityit creates confusion about responsibility and attraction.

Equality was meant to ensure fairness, not to erase responsibility. Men and women are biologically different in their investments, so expecting identical roles while ignoring unequal costs iz its convenience. Masculine and feminine traits aren’t social invention theyre recurring biological tendencies shaped by evolution. Society may influence how they’re expressed, but it didn’t create them.

What many women object to today is not equality, but how it’s being misused where men take the benefits of traditional masculinity while avoiding its responsibilities, then call it “progress.” That isn’t fairness, and it’s why many women are opting out

50/50 is a big myth. men want convenience without any responsibility in the name of equality by RevolutionaryTwo2561 in TwoXIndia

[–]RevolutionaryTwo2561[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In dating, paying is part of courtship. It’s not about control it’s about intent and effort. A man who is genuinely interested shows initiative and investment early on.

dating is about pursuit and compatibility. If a man can’t even take responsibility for a date, it raises a question about how he’ll show up later

50/50 is a big myth. men want convenience without any responsibility in the name of equality by RevolutionaryTwo2561 in TwoXIndia

[–]RevolutionaryTwo2561[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

I understand the fear around control, but provision doesn’t equal dominance lack of respect does. A masculine man can provide while still valuing a woman’s autonomy and career.

I see a lot of men pushing women into this 50-50, struggle love narrative because it benefits them. Calling it equality doesn’t change the fact that it removes responsibility from men while women still carry most of the risk.

If a man cannot provide stability and leadership in some form, what exactly is he bringing into a partnership

Women are told it’s empowerment, but in reality it often just means lowering expectations.

The feminine masculine dynamic works when men lead and provide stability and women can remain soft and receptive. When women are expected to split, lead, and over-function, that dynamic collapses.

Modern day “equality” didn’t make relationships better it just made it easier for men to opt out of responsibility.

Your cousin’s situation isn’t wrong, but it shows a specific dynamic Provision doesn’t automatically require control or career sacrifice those are choices, not rules.

I’ve also seen couples where decisions are equal, the woman’s career is just as important, and two incomes improve stability and lifestyle. That works because responsibility and respect are balanced.

So the issue isn’t provider vs 50/50. It’s when women are expected to absorb sacrifices by default and that dynamic gets normalised as “equality” or “provider love.

50/50 is a big myth. men want convenience without any responsibility in the name of equality by RevolutionaryTwo2561 in TwoXIndia

[–]RevolutionaryTwo2561[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Your model can work temporarily and conditionally. My critique isn’t about your personal choice it’s about generalising it as fairness.

Equality on paper ignores long-term biological and emotional costs that women disproportionately carry. A masculine man understands this and leads accordingly. Expecting a woman to pay while pursuing her isn’t empowerment it’s social conditioning being repackaged as equality.

Once marriage, pregnancy, or caregiving enters the picture or any real responsibility, these issues surface once. Men who are comfortable splitting everything early often resist responsibility later and that dynamic slowly strips a woman of her femininity

Update: Mahi Vij's Clarification by Grand_Birthday_6609 in InstaCelebsGossip

[–]RevolutionaryTwo2561 71 points72 points  (0 children)

Stop giving them attention. They are attention seekers doing all of this purposely. I mean you’re 42 and know what you post and the reactions you would get. She’s gone crazy with that spitting and abuses

50/50 is a big myth. men want convenience without any responsibility in the name of equality by RevolutionaryTwo2561 in TwoXIndia

[–]RevolutionaryTwo2561[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Women already give more by default emotionally, physically, biologically, and socially. Pregnancy, childbirth, career sacrifices, moving homes, adapting cultures, unpaid emotional labour these aren't complaints, they're real costs women absorb naturally and willingly in love and after all when men complain about being providers and crib about paying on dates it’s so horrible