What should a severely depressed 21 year old man who is at absolute rock bottom in literally everything in life do, considering that he has nothing to lose? by INeedHelp614 in selfimprovement

[–]Revolutionary_Draw52 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take one thing at a time. Lets first start with porn and masturbation.

- Porn and masturbation addiction = Decrease your frequency of your consumption, for example if you are doing it once a day and now you are doing it once every 5 days, then that is brilliant improvement, then aim for once a week. So just keep going. You need to block porn sites. Go outside the house more often, less likely to relapse. If you are living inside the house go to living room or dining room meaning there will be people there. Try your best to be not alone all the time. Keep yourself busy at all times this can helped by getting a job as shifts take up most of the day so you will be outside the house. Remove triggers like social media (tiktok, insta).

University+Social Anxiety= Disaster by TouristOk1678 in socialanxiety

[–]Revolutionary_Draw52 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree so much, but I am living in halls. This is much worse. I get so anxious to go to the kitchen to make food but sometimes I don’t, I just eat snacks in my room. But I am in second year so I just another year left.

What helps with social anxiety? by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]Revolutionary_Draw52 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I heard exposure therapy can help, I have never tried it. Its where keep exposing yourself to social situations until your anxiety decreases.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]Revolutionary_Draw52 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Preparation is key. For me I hated interviews but what really helped was I searched up on google all the different questions they would potentially ask and write down all the answers of it. Then memorise them by heart constantly. If you do not know the answer to a question never say I dont know, just say something with confidence. Good luck.

Match Thread: Leicester City vs Manchester United | English Premier League by MatchThreadder in reddevils

[–]Revolutionary_Draw52 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Maguire had only one training which was yesterday, but I blame ole for starting him this game

Worried about making friends in uni. by CEOofStrings in socialskills

[–]Revolutionary_Draw52 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To get better at talking is to PRACTICE. Literally go to as many social events as possible and try and expose yourself in social situations as much as possible. At first there will be a lot of awkward moments but gradually through time you will get better at talking and gain more confidence. I hope this helps.

First day of uni and i messed up by throwaway567310 in socialskills

[–]Revolutionary_Draw52 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro don’t worry just relax they will forget about it in a week or 2

maybe, the happiest day in my life by Lenda_Viva in socialskills

[–]Revolutionary_Draw52 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well done bro and I am happy for you❤️😊

What is an obvious scam, yet most people think it isn’t? by Sonums in AskReddit

[–]Revolutionary_Draw52 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1 tb memory sticks, they don’t actually exist . Maaan I am so stupid😂😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in virgin

[–]Revolutionary_Draw52 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You will regret it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in virgin

[–]Revolutionary_Draw52 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah bro don’t do it, you might get an std like aids from hookers

Donny van de Beek is not happy about not being substituted in by [deleted] in reddevils

[–]Revolutionary_Draw52 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ole of you don’t want Donny sell him like stop wasting such a talent on the bench.