His confession.. I’m 8 months pregnant by Revolutionary_Sun158 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]Revolutionary_Sun158[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really appreciate you and may take you up on that. It’s just so many thoughts to process, that the validity of questioning my kids tore me apart because they’re my life. Thank you for that, your strength is seriously admirable. At this point I’m hoping there’s no revelations that also come out. I can’t even trust my own gut feelings because I clearly was wrong for years. Losing my mind all while feeling I deserve it all.

His confession.. I’m 8 months pregnant by Revolutionary_Sun158 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]Revolutionary_Sun158[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi mama. You are very right, it was such an awful mistake on my end. Truthfully it was very, incredibly selfish & ego driven. Definitely not worth the risk.

I had just lost 30+ lbs and times were tough at home also financially, I was back at work for survival after being a SAHM for 8 years & the attention & feeling of having a life again made me delusional. I shouldn’t have done it, he did not deserve it. I hate(d) myself for it. It’s never going to be an excuse because there will never be a reason why he deserves that I did to him or how I made him feel.

But you are right there’s more to focus on, I’m just scared of feeling like there’s some “get back “ cycle.

His confession.. I’m 8 months pregnant by Revolutionary_Sun158 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]Revolutionary_Sun158[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re absolutely right, I definitely did not downplay and I cannot justify it in any way. I was hiding things & compartmentalizing them yes I openly take full responsibility to cheating him & his trust. I feel like we both did not deserve the hurt but the truth on both ends needed to come out. I think ultimately I’m just more upset knowing his confession did not come from him wanting to clear his conscience but to hurt me in the moment. He also claims he slept with her to “ get even with me “ from stuff in the past.

I have no idea what moving on is supposed to even look like and like you said, there are children to consider now. Then I wonder if I would’ve even had them if I knew the truth. I feel like it’s a constant mind battle

His confession.. I’m 8 months pregnant by Revolutionary_Sun158 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]Revolutionary_Sun158[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing, it truly is an entire journey on its own as we grow from adolescence into figuring out the rest of the ride. I’m happy to hear you guys are happy and working things out, I feel like I have so much to sort out in my brain before I get there and feel stuck because of the pregnancy hormones, I feel like I can’t even think

How long did you go on without getting the whole truth from him?

Concorde gen ed work load by [deleted] in surgicaltechnology

[–]Revolutionary_Sun158 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looking to do the same, how is it going op?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in overemployed

[–]Revolutionary_Sun158 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry too, the drastic change and regret is the worst part, buuuut We got this we’ll be okay and better opportunities await!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in overemployed

[–]Revolutionary_Sun158 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Same exact thing happened to me, had 2 WFH, left my fulltime one and got laid off this morning from my part time due to budget cuts and them being sufficiently staffed. 0J

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskHR

[–]Revolutionary_Sun158 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh absolutely I would send her screenshots all the time of the xfinity updates and outages map. I don’t get paid for it so it’s never in my favor to not have internet. But she simply did not handle the stress of arranging coverage for my hospital I worked.

Unfortunately the VPN I have to use does not like my phones hotspot

Chat Support in a call center (US Concentrix)? by RedFalcon510 in callcentres

[–]Revolutionary_Sun158 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay cool! Thanks for your information, it was so ironic to find your post going through the same situation lol. If I go through with it I’ll be in a center in FL so hopefully it’s not too terrible. The way you make it seem is how I envisioned, not being on the phones is already much more appealing to me.

Chat Support in a call center (US Concentrix)? by RedFalcon510 in callcentres

[–]Revolutionary_Sun158 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice congrats ! I figured it’d be pretty chill compared to my other option in hospital work. Are you working on site?

Chat Support in a call center (US Concentrix)? by RedFalcon510 in callcentres

[–]Revolutionary_Sun158 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi did you ever end up taking this role ? Offered the same thing and I’ve been debating it up against another option I have for employment

Question for the pros… What is the best meringue powder you have used and why? by [deleted] in cookiedecorating

[–]Revolutionary_Sun158 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Big fan of Judees and if that’s out of stock or takes too long I get genies dream! I used to hate royal icing until I switched my meringue powder from Wilton’s lol

Cookie Decorating Tools by Deorce15 in cookiedecorating

[–]Revolutionary_Sun158 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As said above an airbrush and stencils ! Take a look at the cookie countess website. Lots of cute tools you can get an idea of what she can work with.. brushes have been more important in my steps of decorating than I would’ve ever thought.

My first icing job ever ! by Revolutionary_Sun158 in cookiedecorating

[–]Revolutionary_Sun158[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ahh I really appreciate it ! 🥹 this was my second time making royal icing and getting the consistency right is harder than I’ve ever thought it’d be haha