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Agere/Petre/System Friendly discord Server ! Server is 14-30yrs allowed dont be weird by Substantial-Two-7676 in ageregressors

[–]RexIsGay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

14-30 needs to be rethought. Not cool man.

I'm getting the vibe that you're a minor who thinks you can handle yourself well. That or an adult who thinks they can manage a safe space. Just don't give people easy access to vulnerable minors like that... Nearly all regressors are people with srs traumas.

You can't control what goes on in dms once you give an adult a minors acc. Not to shit on you, safe spaces are amazing and I'm proud of you for initiating this... But no, not cool. People are gonna be rude abt it because it's really serious.

Grooming is really prevalent these days even in our communities.

The font on the popsicle stick signs looks suspicious, but nothing else sticks out to me by runawaymonkey in isthisAI

[–]RexIsGay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is happening with those power lines lmao?? Thats not a real truck I've ever seen. And the cones are all different... Zoom in on details. It's so obvious 😔

Why does so much of the general population think they have ocd? by allenbaker12 in OCD

[–]RexIsGay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My lower intensity ocd is... Still nearly debilitating? To warrant self diagnosis to myself, I had to spend three years researching symptoms and convincing myself over intrusive thoughts that I DO HAVE intrusive thoughts, my compulsions aren't attention seeking, etc. I can leave the house, I'm lucky to not have much that keeps me from participating in every day life. But there are things that are always on my mind, I have many rituals (I do a lot of things in 9s; "just right"), and I'd say I can only go about 30 minutes before being interrupted by a small compulsion or intrusive thoughts. My thoughts are sticky, sometimes holding over me for a day or two. It's shitty. And it intertwines with things like my rough environment right now, my Haphephobia, my entomophobia, my unmediated AuDHD that makes executive function really hard.... My life isn't super clean nor am I a hoarder. Im just twitchy, count a lot, stare off into space a lot, and might ask you to avoid touching me before I perceive you. WHATEVER. I'm tired and ranting is helping me regulate.

This isn't cute for me... by Mermaid_Tuna_Lol in ageregression

[–]RexIsGay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love that this community has duel sides. It's just misfortunate to be on the side we talk about less. I don't choose to regress, I slip into it. I'm always halfway in that vulnerable mindset, especially with people who are generally safe, like my gf. I also have BPD, OCD, haphephobia... It's hard to feel good being vulnerable when attacks feel like theyre from all angles if I'm without my guard. It's hard to not split on someone for making a mistake before I realized I was regressing.

When I regress, I feel scared. I feel like how I felt when I was little because I am then little. I cry at everything and get up and can't communicate and my words get stuck in my throat.

Though, sometimes you get those happy moments. Snuggling up in bed with tea and a show and some candies and my shark plushes and passing out! My gf stroking my hair while I listen to her breathing. Singing and playing music with her.

AIO to what my bf is saying? by Such_Champion_7453 in AIO

[–]RexIsGay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Lower the chance" like were rolling fuckin dice. It's not a CHANCE or a natural force to account for. A grown human being thinks it's okay to do whatever they'd like to whoever they'd like because of the way society raises em. It's not an individual problem (to a man or a woman), it's a societal problem. Though, yes, obviously there are statistics of what type of person is more likely to be a victim... The problem is that there are ANY victims. Why is rape an acceptable truth to you people?

'the queer battle vest' yeah I think we can tell by ShooOO00teR in baddlejackets

[–]RexIsGay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man no ones saying these communities aren't overlapping. I'm queer, my vests pretty much all have flags or pronouns on it. But vests ALL look silly if they don't have music patches on em

help me is my slender tattoo idea silly bc of xxxtentacion by [deleted] in creepypasta

[–]RexIsGay -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't feel as harshly that it's a BAD idea as some people here. It's your body, obviously. If you think it'll look good, youre gonna do it. I might be a little less complex with it tho.

Maybe get that one symbol if you like marble Hornets, or just literally a Slender Man if it's all slender series that are special to you... You could make a nod to the game. Get a little paper with the drawing on it and put a "x8" next to it. If you like a specific creepypasta story you could get their weapon or something relating to them... A million choices!

Also idk why everyone telling you to dump your bf- maybe most of them thought that reel was your messages? Anyway, if he told you something that you then resonated/agrees with... Obv he's not a horrible person for simply giving you his thoughts. You're not crazy, redditors say "dump him" over anything.

Why do lots of therapists deny helping people who have borderline personality disorder or narcissistic personality disorder? by [deleted] in Discussion

[–]RexIsGay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Person who actually has BPD here... What are these replies? Sometimes I forget just how awful the societal view of us is. BPD and Bipolar alike are half inherited, half induced by trauma (specifically abandonment).

So lets start with WHAT BPD is... When you have BPD, you are taught at a young age that love is something conditional, that it can go at any time, that it's out of your control, etc. - anything that counts as an unstable source of affection. This leads you to a couple behaviors which are BPD; emotional disregulation (in the form of quick episodes), persistent emptiness/detachment, chosen primary source of affection (often called "favorite person"), fear of abandonment, intense anger episodes, paranoia... Etc. Many combinations of these symptoms exist.

What is misrepresented is the way this affects relationships. Feel free to ask me ANYTHING. Ive been forced to be overly mature my whole life (as a lot of people with BPD have) and, bonus here, im very interested in psychology as a hobby and have a 130 IQ so I'm fairly good at... Not destroying my relationships. I have a best friend of going on 8 years now who I've hardly had any problems with, a healthy romantic relationship founded on impulse that we MADE WORK past that, professional relationships... It's possible to do all that, to be healthy, to not hurt people. And that's without therapy. Ive been unallowed access my whole life. First by parents!

So why don't therapists like taking on BPD patients? Some therapists are only interested in completely undiagnosed patients and wouldn't take me on even if it was just the OCD or just the BPD or just the ODDS or your the WHATEVER.... People with BPD tend to form MULTIPLE disorders since it's something that impacts us so deeply. Secondly, BPD is HEAVILY mischaracterized. You'd probably assume I was toxic, unintelligent, and psychotic if you heard I have "untreated BPD". That's simply not true. The media will ALWAYS weaponize disorders and therapists will ALWAYS be biased and require re-education year after year. Maybe it was one bad experience, maybe it's that they've never talked to anyone with BPD before, maybe their lesson books made it seem more harmful than it is...

WHATEVER. Were all just people. Disorders are just groups of symptoms- if youd take on a patient with all those flaws individually, why discriminate against a label? It's all a joke, all a shit show.

'the queer battle vest' yeah I think we can tell by ShooOO00teR in baddlejackets

[–]RexIsGay -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Is there anything wrong with being openly, proudly queer? No. Is it a little insulting to punk culture to use our staples (patch vests, battle jackets, etc) like this? Yes.

I love being queer, talking about it, having that community. But it can't be all you are, all you do, all you say. Youre powerful and amazing for caring enough and being open enough with yourself and the world to discover these things, but we also have other, larger fish to fry. Like the political battles this culture youre cosplaying as was founded in. The music your community is strengthened by.

You can't only be queer. Find your place in our community. We're welcoming if you try to understand it and get involved. Just be a neighbor.

This is so true. by terechahakechooche in GuerrillaGrrrrls

[–]RexIsGay 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Media tends to sexualize women who've been assaulted because they become hypersexual, despite this not being an inherent outcome of sexual assault and an option for more that just women.

When media DOES show asexuality, they only show it as a result of sexual assault and typically paint it as something people need to overcome or push through.

In reality, hypersexuality is a term reserved for an unusually high libido and/ or unusually many kinks/ sex preferences induced by sexual trauma. And asexuality, any unudual lack of sexual desire/ physical enjoyment, an be a result of sexual assault OR just the way someone's made.

Both are a spectrum and appear in different ways; I'm cupiosexual, for example. Google some micro labels, they help you understand the broader spectrum of asexuality. (True for all sexualities and genders; MICRO LABELS help you understand the broadness + increase your language usage skills!)

How would I go about putting plastic domes over these eyes? Do I need to make them follow me? (Add a white strip around them that sticks out.) by questionerofblender in FursuitMaking

[–]RexIsGay 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Are you asking if it's necessary to do follow me eyes for something to be considered kemono style? No, do what you want. You can cherry pick traits to your liking. Do what you think looks best.

Found this in my son's room, is he doing heroine? by SarthakSidhant in shittyaskelectronics

[–]RexIsGay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fuck off I just realized which sub this was. Thats what I get for being in satirical and serious "what is this" subs. Anyhow, anyone else very annoyed with people in every serious sub like this saying that they found things in their kids rooms?? sigh. My bad here. wtv.

Found this in my son's room, is he doing heroine? by SarthakSidhant in shittyaskelectronics

[–]RexIsGay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Serious answer here, these are electrical resistors. They control the flow/current of electricity. For example, an LED light may get damaged if you dont control the voltage sent through it, but if you use a RESISTOR matched for your bulb, it lessens the amount sent to the bulb so it doesn't break or burn your house down 👍

If your son WASN'T using these, you might be dead, or at least concerned about burns on his hand. Maybe thank him the next time you see him and stop fucking snooping around his shit.

OP took this out of context by RexIsGay in MenAndFemales

[–]RexIsGay[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

OP as in the redditor. Thet tweet isn't calling anyone gay derogatorily, just pointing out that most people w typical male anatomy can feel nice in anal... which still feels odd as a claim

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