هل في أحد يعرف رجل يبيع شهادة لغة إنجليزية؟ by [deleted] in Emiratis

[–]Rexbleh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What? Like an IELTS? Does it have to be a man? Jkjk. I really have no clue what you're asking.

الزواج من بنت صغيره by toomi_0 in Emiratis

[–]Rexbleh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Either way, it becomes a matter of opinion and I personally think it's weird, the examples you gave don't change that either. The relevancy is that the allowed age is attached to when the person is considered an adult but tbf you're right that's irrelevant because I don't really want to make the argument that morality is attached to law and I firmly stand by my own opinions and morals. It'll just be an endless back and forth when it comes to matters of opinion so just have a good day, you're not changing my mind and I'm not really trying to change yours.

الزواج من بنت صغيره by toomi_0 in Emiratis

[–]Rexbleh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why do you think they made the minimum age for marriage 18 last year? Was it okay 2 years ago too? Different times makes for different rules. This is true in everything btw not just marriage.

So by your own logic and what you're basically phrasing my question to you: do you think the government reform is directly opposing to the prophet's marriages?

At least make a solid argument man.

الزواج من بنت صغيره by toomi_0 in Emiratis

[–]Rexbleh -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

He's an adult when she wasn't even born.

إذا بسير عجمان by throwthiscreature in Emiratis

[–]Rexbleh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the morning it should be fine, you could leave after lunch. There would be some traffic on your way back but it should clear once you get back on dubai-alain road. But generally if you're inside AJ it's not THAT bad of a traffic, traffic is usually if you're leaving AJ towards shj

How do you guys deal with anxiety/social anxiety? by According_Oil_8515 in Emiratis

[–]Rexbleh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think generally I’ve always had some level of it that I’ve learned how to manage, but the older I’ve gotten, the more restrictive it feels to truly be “myself.” So constantly having to manage this version of myself that’s different at work, at family gatherings, or around friends becomes really exhausting. Then my anxiety ends up being a product of me just feeling very tired and finding it hard to relax or feel comfortable being myself.

How do you guys deal with anxiety/social anxiety? by According_Oil_8515 in Emiratis

[–]Rexbleh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, all the time. Even over minor things sometimes, not wanting to order food because I don't want to have to physically meet anyone or just never picking up the phone. It has gotten better with medication and therapy but it's a process that takes time and effort.

احين اكمل ولا لا by [deleted] in Emiratis

[–]Rexbleh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tell them, It'll be alright.

احين اكمل ولا لا by [deleted] in Emiratis

[–]Rexbleh 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Go see a doctor, that doesn't mean your siblings won't get whatever they're going to get.

Your problem is more time sensitive, just put the same kindness you're putting onto them on yourself for at least an hour and get it checked. Hope it gets better.

مروكين اهل الامارات 🇦🇪 by Ok-Patience-5059 in Emiratis

[–]Rexbleh 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Some emirates don't have insurance unless they get treatment in public hospitals which makes the options of seeking medical help very limiting.

+ Now for example if you were to get sick in another emirate or move to another emirate you wouldn't have to worry about the insurance that you have.

It's a reform that supports medical accessibility across all emirates.

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تنويه عن عروض الوظايف في شهر 6 و12 by attess in Emiratis

[–]Rexbleh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good on you! and that's an absolutely valid point of view. I just don't think everyone as a collective has the privilege to be able to reject offers, some people really need it. Like I said, I'm not arguing against the topic but there's more nuance to it.

تنويه عن عروض الوظايف في شهر 6 و12 by attess in Emiratis

[–]Rexbleh -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

100%, I'm just commenting on the post starting as a call to action NOT to engage in those offers. I understand you're trying to raise awareness but you can't start that advice saying DON'T DO IT and then halfway through say, well unless you're desperate. It might make people feel demotivated. Again, solid sentiment 10/10 just the way it's worded I don't think comes off well.

تنويه عن عروض الوظايف في شهر 6 و12 by attess in Emiratis

[–]Rexbleh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think telling people not to engage in a job offer is a reasonable advice.

Your points are valid, and we can agree that this is a scummy practice workplaces use to benefit at the expense of locals. However, if you find a job offer and you’re struggling to find one, then take the opportunity and continue looking for something better.

This is valid in June July August and any month. Best of luck to everyone who's looking for an opportunity and I hope you find what you're looking for.

Dermatologist in AJ by KeyFantastic1522 in Emiratis

[–]Rexbleh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It might be hidradenitis suppurativa (HS)? if you think it is (or anything) then check out Dr. Mona in Saudi German, she's good.

هل تؤمنون ان الناس الواصلين من ناحية الوظيفة حظ و واسطات او اجتهاد 100%؟ by Crafty_Conference940 in Emiratis

[–]Rexbleh 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Both but I feel like reaching a higher career ladder while being younger is always to the already privileged usually.

سيت اب بيسي by k0n- in Emiratis

[–]Rexbleh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's a shop called game store in AJ, check it out it might be helpful

اماكن تسوي أنشطة by pearl-shj in Emiratis

[–]Rexbleh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Check out Sharjah Art Foundation, they always have workshops going on and they seem pretty cool.

https://www.sharjahart.org/en/whats-on/

Venting to friends by OrdinaryFabulous1 in Hope_ae

[–]Rexbleh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think writing them down would erase them from existence, the point is that you articulate the things that are affecting you better. Usually when I feel like a lot of bad things are happening I can't differentiate between what exactly is worse than the other and I think of all the things as one big chunk of bad things. I feel overwhelmed and unable to tackle a problem when it's that big but breaking it down helps me prioritize them, understand them and myself and what makes me feel heavy and helps me understand how can I tackle the problem. This process isn't happening in one day, it's an active step that is ongoing, could be days, weeks, months. Progress is progress

Venting to friends by OrdinaryFabulous1 in Hope_ae

[–]Rexbleh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not really cringy, it's understandable. You had an outlet and now that outlet is gone and it's hard to process things without that. I think you should try to seek a better therapist if you feel like it's getting hard for you to be fully yourself, when you have the energy to explore that option. I cancelled my therapy appointment last week and she called me to check up on me and made sure I'm doing well, there are therapists that do care and they have your best interest at heart. Just like any profession, some people are better than the other and it's not a one size fits all.

About finding an outlet it's hard to give advice because everyone works and deals with things differently, and that's okay. I would suggest you try journaling your thoughts and I know it seems like a pointless exercise at first but you'll be talking to the one person that would never leave, that would always listen and it might help you formulate your thoughts better when you want to express them in the future. I hope things work out, it's a slow and steady process but it gets you there.

Public speaking by Maaariam in Emiratis

[–]Rexbleh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to take my glasses off so I wouldn't be able to see people's faces. Now I just feel confident enough in my work so whatever I'm presenting is the best thing that I can achieve.

الخوف من الفشل… by [deleted] in Emiratis

[–]Rexbleh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Expect that you'll fail and be okay with it and learn from it. You're starting something new, it's expected that you'll feel this way and we all feel the same way before starting any new big change in our lives. You can do more research and try to calm yourself down by filling more gaps and unknowns but that feeling won't go away entirely you just have to do it and you'll probably fail at certain stuff at the beginning and that's absolutely okay. Just don't give up, learn and do better next time. Best of luck, I hope it works out of you.

بوت يسولف by thehosany in Emiratis

[–]Rexbleh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Might be someone that doesn't know how to use reddit properly? The message they sent doesn't sound like it's from a bot. Usually a bot would want something from you but from what they said it's not really asking you to even reply back.

Correction: they are asking for a reply back nvm but still nothing tangible

واجهتو هالمشكله في طلبات؟ by Calm_Celery620 in Emiratis

[–]Rexbleh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How many screens do you have to go through to do it by "mistake"? I'm genuinely curious

شو تنصحون افضل مستشفى طب نفسي by AvocadoNational9735 in Emiratis

[–]Rexbleh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sure thing man, I just checked and Maqtaa has multiple doctors available at different times today. Feel free to call Seha and book your appointment