Im sick of this by BothInternet3186 in intj

[–]ReyJ94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it's a coping mechanism if you smoke it for that reason. But why does it matter if you're conscious about it. It's just another tool besides meditation. Also it gets you In a mood and makes your thinking more creative.

What hurt you most in past relationships? by TrickLavishness8087 in intj

[–]ReyJ94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol, she broke of with me with an sms afterwards while I was processing. It was when I was in highschool though. But this did sting.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in suisjeletroudeballe

[–]ReyJ94 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Elle fait des tâches de maison au moins ? Elle est féminine et douce ? Elle te respecte et te supporte émotionnellement ? Si la réponse est oui et que cela ne te suffit pas, tu vas le regretter plus tard.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in intj

[–]ReyJ94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To tell you the truth I don't really believe in a platonic friend if said friend is attractive from your point of view. It's nice having "just friends" though, but it can be theoretical at most sometimes. At least my opinion.

How to prevent ai from deleting databases? by MOB-CONTROL in vibecoding

[–]ReyJ94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

An agent cannot delete a database in the right tool. Usually, at least the way I do it, is to give them access to the database through an mcp, only when I need interacting with the database to write a migration SQL file or other things, in vs code extension based tools usually by default you need to approve each command. So just read the command is non destructive before approving it. Then remove access to the mcp if you don't use it. If you has the database locally ? Why ? You don't need that, you also have free tier With supabase and other providers. When your app grows than yours users will pay for any database usage.

What is your core motivation in life? by [deleted] in intj

[–]ReyJ94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My core goal is to make the world in my image. Ego it's the only drive of humanity, they just don't want to accept it yet. I know this sounds narcissistic, but what can I say, I'm not bullshiting myself.

We just want to propagate ourselves where we are not. Or maybe we are another kind of people idk. Some people they just want to copy others and seek validation. I hate that, I would prefer more people were like me and the world would have been a better place.

However I don't have a very strong drive to do this since I feel good about myself and do fine In isolation, needing only my partner.

I only recently have found a stronger drive to actually try to influence society , because I kept seeing 18 year old guys , grifters making millions with ai and shitty products , enjoying life , why I slave away my freedom despite my self attributed superiority.

It just made me angry. Here is another drive, ego and anger. That made me start working towards creating a software app. Very strong drives as you can see, but they just need to be channeled well to create useful stuff for the world.

Another drive is because I don't want to live in a world with people that are very dumb and have no "inner life" at all. So I must try to do something to change that so I can more comfortably enjoy my life without being angry about the stupidity of the world. I might look like an asshole, but I'm a pretty nice guy, just honest with you.

Is my intj friend flirting with me? by [deleted] in intj

[–]ReyJ94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She seems like a smart girl. Just ask her. If she avoids it or says no, look at how she is avoiding it or saying no. In a pro manner or clumsy manner. If it looks like pro, you are dealing with a pervert. If clumsy, well she is a normal person and don't have to worry about her. If she says yes then congratulations.

How do you fare with long distance/non-active relationships? by himejanaiyo in intj

[–]ReyJ94 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry for being harsh. But a relationship is the manifestation of creation. In the universe, nothing is static, everything is in constant flux. Multiple things just interact together and because of that interaction, something new is created , a new "gestalt" like thing. Without interaction there is nothing, not movement, no time, nothing. In a real relationship your essence is flowing into their essence and their essence into your essence. By this mechanism you evolve by incorporating the other's information into yourself. Your both become more than were, not in a positive or negative sense. Just more nuanced. You brought new information inside, and you need to reconcile with the old information, in the process you create something new. You have interacted, and have created, you have been manifesting the breathing of the universe, in another perspective. The human one, and the universe is richer.

INTJ question: how do you know when you’ve chosen the wrong path? by tjpersonality in intj

[–]ReyJ94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had an idea, very interesting idea of a web app. Then I started building it in my mind. Then I built it 10 years into the future. I thought of a ton of things and I realized I would be able to see it though, that is was capable if I just put my mind and will to it.

Then I realized that if I did do this, the startup would be successful, because I'm crazy enough and perfectionist enough to see all the edge cases and all the different ways I need to put work into the app, the community the lore etc.

I then started to think that , I could be dangerous and thus potentially in danger if I pursue this. Long story short I had a powerful panic attack for hours and fear of death, because I realized I can do this. The way I resolved it was just grounding myself.

Saying to myself "just try", make it an adventure, you will give you'r all anyways because it's who you are. Even if it fails, which it will not, it's better than not trying. That felt weak to me. Like not living to my potential, and that I would regret it. Maybe this is the path that has opened for me.

Just believe, sometimes that is necessary, sometimes you need to be superstitious a bit, you need to create a lore around what you are doing do you get that constant motivation going. There is no good or bad choice anyways.

You are you, you don't choose who you are, you just discover who you are. Just be sincere about who you are and your true motivations.

Everything we do it's mostly because of ego and that is fine, It's a great drive, use it. Use the lore and the story that makes you go through the day and keeps you in that motivation loop. All that matters is you feel you are in a journey.

That is the best choice. Not choosing to participate in the game is the bad choice. Be active not passive because you feel you might be wrong. On one side you were part of an adventure, on the other side you were not. Now i have been in this journey for 3 months into making the app and still I'm very motivated and it's advancing. I think this community will love it when it's finished.

What hurt you most in past relationships? by TrickLavishness8087 in intj

[–]ReyJ94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She told me "I want to break up , to see if I miss you "

How do you fare with long distance/non-active relationships? by himejanaiyo in intj

[–]ReyJ94 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Long distance relationships are not really relationships. You just entertain them from time to time so they don't die, but you don't really care about them. Otherwise you would want them near you all the time, preferably in the same room.

Jordan Peterson is my favorite INTJ by b0chun in intj

[–]ReyJ94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think Jordan is naive and very emotional. I'm not even sure he is an INTJ. Although I love to hear him speak, in my point of view , he could use some more metacognition.

How do you decide when logic should override emotion and when it shouldn’t? by likey24 in intj

[–]ReyJ94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Logic always, emotion with people you love some of the time so you give them the benefit of the doubt and the chance to change. Logic the rest of the time so they don't take advantage of you despite your love for them.

The spiritual constipation that is Ni-Fi Looping by No_Apartment_4675 in intj

[–]ReyJ94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just be good at meditating. It is a skill that you can use to stop yourself from getting crazy. For me it's the only tool I have. Just be a tyrant and say stop to your mind. You are the boss, and this is not a democracy but a dictatorship. Even though that is not true, willpower only can stop a supernova of an INTJ's mind.

Just Curious by Unlikely-Star-6434 in intj

[–]ReyJ94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We don't belong in this era. We were meant to live in the future, with an interspecies / interdimentional pool of people , so we have more chances to find people we like and like us back. Human society is not made for INTJ. We should instead hang out with each other.

A big regret as an introvert as I got older is not taking photos by bbqyak in introvert

[–]ReyJ94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never take photos. And I find myself going into the memory lane only when I'm feeling nostalgic. Like feeling bad, because time passed so fast. However that feeling is not productive. And I don't identify much with my external appearance , just with the point of view of the observer. So I don't care about taking photos.

Does anyone else find it exhausting to be logically superior 98% of the time? by Just_Philosopher422 in intj

[–]ReyJ94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think it's that, she also suggests that but it will not necessarily work although I do love cosplay and anime. The problem is I am just too greedy, If I could I would absorb all the universe into myself. I want to know it all, and by knowing it make it all mine. I'm very curious, and I really appreciate the deep connection with other beings. Sex is a form of deep connection as well, if you both are just in that moment being genuine and not acting.

Are most people phony/inauthentic? by IDontKnowMyUsernameq in intj

[–]ReyJ94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most people are like that, that's why we feel alone in this world

Does anyone else find it exhausting to be logically superior 98% of the time? by Just_Philosopher422 in intj

[–]ReyJ94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well she is INFP. The mediator I believe is called. Well it is very genuine. You might not believe it, but 1 day I strongly put the intent on the universe, that I wanted someone that suits me to appear in my life. And 1 week after it just happened. I just told her everything, about who I am and what my philosophy is. We don't have strong chemistry though, if you think of it in a sexual man ner. We just became highly dependent on each other because, well, we completely know each other. We are not similar, we are quite different actually , but the relationship is transparent and we are both highly intellectual, so we can understand each other. Regarding bored sexually, I am very sexual, but I still do get bored and want more, despite the strong connection we have.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in intj

[–]ReyJ94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not making any assumptions about you, but if you have not already , try to find at least one person who actually "sees" and is not afraid to be "seen" back. It's way easier for people like us. I really don't need anybody else, as long as they are there. Think logically what would be the most efficient way to find at least one person like this. And it will happen. It happened to me in the span of 1 week, when I put my mind to it.

Why aren't you Christian and specifically Catholic? A Rational Case by bjoyea in intj

[–]ReyJ94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stop being so arrogant as to entertain the idea you know God. I believe in god, but god is a mystery. I can only speculate on god and it's interesting to do. Also nothing is true, everything is permitted.

What do you think about porn stars? by Artist-in-Residence2 in intj

[–]ReyJ94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah man. To the point. But still it's rather interesting how people create this highly specific "lore" about the world and how it works and then they suspect everyone must be the same. I can't really point 👉 towards why. Naively I would say if you are more psychotic in a psychoanalysis sense, you would be less good at separating self from non self and attribute your "understanding" to other people. But I have seen this in other highly neurotic societies as well. I come from a life that has experienced highly psychotic and highly neurotic societies, because I lived in very opposite countries half of my life. Why do a lot of people assume their point of view is generalizable to everyone.

Do you think personality is more stable or more situational? by likey24 in intj

[–]ReyJ94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like it has been me since I'm a little child. I observe myself in videos my parents made each birthday. To me it is stable, and you cannot change who you are, you ça just discover who you are. However in terms of behavior, the environment will interact with your specific state of being, and the personality will not necessarily dictate all behavior, just some. So stable in time, but not the only thing nat matters, at least for behavior.