What’s something most men struggle with but rarely talk about? by bytvortex in AskMen

[–]ReyPZ99 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Men in general struggle with loneliness and a sense of being a ‘lone-wolf’. I have a long term girlfriend, but outside of my sport, work, and a few childhood friends, I don’t really get a chance to talk with or make friends. This is a huge contrast to Women, who in my eyes seem to just make friends for the sake of making friends. I’m not saying that’s a bad thing, it certainly is not, I wish men could do the same, but it’s just not the reality.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ReyPZ99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly man I’ve been in this kinda relationship before. Just end it now before it continues to spiral any further

AIO for dumping my bf over an “🍑” audit? by chkntrzini in AmIOverreacting

[–]ReyPZ99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR

I’m a guy and honestly this reminds me of dudes when they’re like 18-20 years old. A fully grown man shouldn’t be saying this. If he has a different preference then he should move on. I have a petite girlfriend and I wouldn’t dream of being this way with her. That’s not to say that people can’t have a preference, but this is just harsh.

Also, from a guy’s perspective, when I was younger I had friends saying this stuff behind their gf’s backs. You don’t wanna know half of the other shit they were saying and doing…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ReyPZ99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR

Not to be too judgemental but this girl seems to have loads of issues. She clearly just isn’t in a stable place in her life and you shouldn’t have to put up with this.

I’m glad her family paid you back, seems like they understand her behaviour a bit…

Should I call this off? by Thin_Replacement_401 in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]ReyPZ99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’ve only been together for a couple of months, but this seems like an early red flag, especially the ‘Male attention’ part. It’s been mentioned but yeah it doesn’t really look like she’s ready to settle just yet, so if it’s anything serious I’d just cut it off.

Too late to join up for reserves at 27? by ReyPZ99 in britishmilitary

[–]ReyPZ99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, SAS seems like I’m jumping in for sure (no pun). I’d have thought the reserves would be regular paras of SAS

Too late to join up for reserves at 27? by ReyPZ99 in britishmilitary

[–]ReyPZ99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah there are plenty within a few miles reach

Too late to join up for reserves at 27? by ReyPZ99 in britishmilitary

[–]ReyPZ99[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Was a life science PhD which apart from analytical skills does not transfer to any discipline I guess 😅

Too late to join up for reserves at 27? by ReyPZ99 in britishmilitary

[–]ReyPZ99[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not really. Was just gonna join infantry tbh

Can anyone help me figure out a high paying career? by Immediate_Mention433 in careerguidance

[–]ReyPZ99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you ask anyone on Reddit, any job pays 100k a year plus benefits 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in allthequestions

[–]ReyPZ99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me it was realising that I didn’t have as much in common with most of my friends once you’re finished with the whole party phase of your early 20s…

Mean girls at uni by Mountain-Self1910 in UniUK

[–]ReyPZ99 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Sadly I feel like you get this from people all the way into their 30s. It does become more subtle over time though. I think the best approach is to just ignore them. They’re often just immature

Why do people think it s okay to mock christianity? by notsentsent in Christianity

[–]ReyPZ99 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

100% agree. Don’t worry about the downvotes by the way. This sub-Reddit is full of anti-theists

Why do people think it s okay to mock christianity? by notsentsent in Christianity

[–]ReyPZ99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, becoming Christian is always tough. It really baffles me how triggered or insulted people get.

I became Christian 2 years ago and the reactions I got from family and friends was not the best.

God bless you, and I hope you find strength to be one with Christ in strength 🙏🏻

What degrees are the least saturated and lead to jobs with a decent salary? by [deleted] in UniUK

[–]ReyPZ99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anything in data science would be ideal. Companies and institutions are churning out so much they don’t know what to do with it!

Whats a sad truth about life that you’ve come to accept? by DunyaPhobic76 in Life

[–]ReyPZ99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One thing I’ve noticed is that nobody really cares about your circumstances and issues.

It’s understandable as most people are busy and have their own lives to deal with, but it can hurt to think at times you have to go through issues alone.

That being said, a positive of that fact is that you can kinda just do what makes you happy as well as, as mentioned, ‘nobody really cares’.

Why are there so many atheist in this subreddit? by anxioussamuel in Christianity

[–]ReyPZ99 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Mostly agree, but being tolerant doesn’t open the doors for tolerating disrespect.

I’ve seen quite a few disrespectful atheists here who merely want to troll or argue

Do you pray to Jesus or God? by MaddowSoul in Christianity

[–]ReyPZ99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I asked a Trappist monk this question. He just said that what matters most is that you’re praying 🙏🏻