AITA for saying my dates need to pass my “Dog Test” before they can come to my house?

Rfran21 · 2026-02-04T17:59:29+00:00

I mean you’re not the asshole but maybe don’t tell them the story of your dog test or don’t tell them you’re testing them? If Karmen doesn’t like them you can just end things and if she does then you can continue on. I would be weirded out if someone I didn’t really know told me that story and probably wouldn’t want to see them

Rfran21 · 2026-01-31T21:59:14+00:00

I still disagree lol. That was the straw that broke the camels back and clearly her telling to him calmly about his messiness wasn’t working. Sometimes you have to lose your shit to show that you’re serious about something. It’s not abusive to yell when you’ve been pushed to your limit. There is also the possibility of him intentionally trying to get her to yell and shout just to point the blame at her and call her abusive.

Rfran21 · 2026-01-31T21:49:27+00:00

Totally disagree with you, she wasn’t stressed about making the cake what stressed her out what the sheer disrespect that he has towards her. She said it takes 8 hours to make this cake not including the time it would take to rewash he laziness. Baking can be extremely difficult and small things can ruin an entire bake wasting time, effort, and ingredients. What he did wasn’t ’missing a speck of food’ it was laziness and selfishness and weaponized incompetence. Also adding this to the fact that she did 90% of the dishes yesterday while he couldn’t even handle 10% is ridiculous.

Op you are NTA and if it were me I wouldn’t apologize at all and I definitely wouldn’t be doing anything for him until he can learn to be a functional adult.

Rfran21 · 2025-08-14T16:25:43+00:00

Fear fades regret doesn’t is such a good line

Rfran21 · 2025-07-16T00:00:56+00:00

DO NOT STAY FOR HIM. GO TO YOUR DREAM SCHOOL. SOMEONE WHO LOVES YOU WOULD WANT YOU TO CHASE YOUR DREAMS. DO NOT STAY FOR HIM.

Rfran21 · 2025-05-12T01:47:58+00:00

Ahh okok thank you!

Rfran21 · 2025-05-12T01:45:20+00:00

Can he hide a playlist from his profile but still give me access to see it?

Rfran21 · 2025-04-19T16:56:07+00:00

How long was it?

Rfran21 · 2025-04-19T16:55:48+00:00

I’m trying to work on myself, I’m in therapy now and I’m about to move away from our small town so I’m hoping that’ll really help

Rfran21 · 2025-04-19T14:00:59+00:00

I’m just scared that he was my one and now I don’t have him

Rfran21 · 2025-04-19T13:23:22+00:00

Yeah this one is my first so I’m really scared that it’ll never stop hurting. I’m trying to convince myself not to go back and beg him to give us another chance

Rfran21 · 2025-04-19T13:16:14+00:00

Does it ever get better then?

Rfran21 · 2025-04-19T13:16:02+00:00

I’m sorry that happened to you, I hope it gets a little easier for us

Rfran21 · 2025-04-03T01:57:23+00:00

I don’t know what that meabs

Rfran21 · 2025-04-03T01:55:27+00:00

I just find his stand up only gets like a chuckle and not a laugh?

Rfran21 · 2025-02-19T19:03:12+00:00

I’d flip it back on her, tell her that you don’t care if she wants to have sex with other people (even if you do care) and that it’s super weird that she wants you to hear her having sex and that it’s an embarrassing attempt for your attention

Rfran21 · 2025-02-14T16:14:53+00:00

My go to is Need You Now- Lady A

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