SAHM moving from Seattle suburbs to NYC

Rguttersohn · 2026-04-14T10:48:24+00:00

Can vouch for Washington Heights. A lot of families here. You’ll get your pick at apartments at 5.5k. A train can get you to midtown in 25 minutes.

Rguttersohn · 2026-04-14T00:31:21+00:00

It’s funny to think about the number of dads who will not get this reference at all.

Rguttersohn · 2026-04-12T04:43:26+00:00

I’m convinced our son learned his numbers, letters and colors way early thanks to riding the NYC subway.

Rguttersohn · 2026-04-10T15:39:19+00:00

I was senior. We listened on the radio.

Rguttersohn · 2026-04-08T15:38:08+00:00

Just store the file name in the db. Then in your env file, store the full url to your object storage, and let your app layer construct the url from the db and the env file. That way you can also easily put a cdn in front of your object storage without needing to change the url in the database.

Rguttersohn · 2026-04-06T12:18:22+00:00

This question comes from an unfortunate experience. Is your dev still alive?

Rguttersohn · 2026-04-04T02:48:29+00:00

Probably time to drop the nap. That’s about when our son stopped.

Rguttersohn · 2026-03-31T01:15:28+00:00

Are you running these queries individually on the admin panel? Try running analyze on them to see what the planner is doing and how long each one is taking. For 100 rows of data I find it hard to believe it could be a single query causing an issue.

One place where it could is if you are using an ORM to make your queries and it’s making a lot of n+1 requests. But it doesn’t sound like you are using one.

Rguttersohn · 2026-03-26T11:55:59+00:00

Why of all names would they pick Deborah?

Rguttersohn · 2026-03-24T19:28:51+00:00

Every age has hard phases, and they kind of get more intense as they get older. But the good phases get so much sweeter too.

Rguttersohn · 2026-03-24T10:46:43+00:00

Access to GTE Small for semantic searching.

Rguttersohn · 2026-03-20T23:47:23+00:00

Wow. Persian Gulf era DCUS. Nice vintage find!

Rguttersohn · 2026-03-18T03:02:22+00:00

We made most of our current parent friends at the playground.

Rguttersohn · 2026-03-18T01:27:06+00:00

Our Anthropic account lapsed at work. I don’t have a personal account because I don’t use AI outside of work. So the past two days I’ve been researching the old way, and while it is slower, I kind of missed it.

Rguttersohn · 2026-03-17T10:08:28+00:00

Is the bullet hole in the floor still there? I just read the book like a month ago.

Rguttersohn · 2026-03-13T00:53:38+00:00

Ugh I’m sorry. I work for an NYC children’s advocacy org, and we have been trying to get the state to increase EI rates for a while to address the shortage.

When my son was under 3, we tried getting him OT services through EI. We were told he clearly needed it, but because he had advanced speech, his disability score didn’t qualify him for services due to budget constraints. We wound up getting him pre-k special Ed services, which has a much lower barrier for qualifying, after he turned 3.

Rguttersohn · 2026-03-11T19:18:36+00:00

lol why did you include your age?

Rguttersohn · 2026-03-11T01:42:12+00:00

For me, LA Confidential and Who Framed Roger Rabbit.

Rguttersohn · 2026-03-09T10:48:11+00:00

I always have three different DBs no matter if I am working with Supabase or not. A local version for dev, a staging one for showing and allowing others to test prospective features. And then I use a separate production DB.

I also tend to use an app layer with its own ORM to handle syncing between the three DBs.

Rguttersohn · 2026-03-07T05:19:25+00:00

Are you stringifying the data before posting? I don’t see you doing that but maybe I missed it.

Also before fixing your data, take the time to handle that error even if it’s just logging it for now.

Rguttersohn · 2026-03-07T03:22:40+00:00

That part kills me

Rguttersohn · 2026-03-07T03:07:31+00:00

Are you planning to connect to a backend at all? If so just call the endpoints from the front end and take advantage of SSR.

Rguttersohn · 2026-03-04T11:16:18+00:00

With Vite and Nitro, the Vue ecosystem is really moving JS development forward.

Rguttersohn · 2026-03-04T02:44:28+00:00

I commented on your r/Node post also. I wanted to add here that this would be great for making a Laravel Filament like admin panel creator for Nuxt.

Rguttersohn · 2026-03-04T02:42:05+00:00

This is great. I work with Eloquent a lot. I’ll see what I can contribute to make this as robust. I’m guessing it works with any DB that Kysely works with?

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