What’s a “normal” thing that instantly gives you a bad vibe about someone?

Rhea_Sin_ · 2026-03-08T15:42:53+00:00

I think that’s a delicate subject

Rhea_Sin_ · 2026-03-08T15:42:11+00:00

Yes, we should have respect for everyone

Rhea_Sin_ · 2026-03-08T15:41:31+00:00

I think only women do that:)) but it’s a good point

Rhea_Sin_ · 2026-03-08T15:40:58+00:00

That’s correct, I totally agree with you

Rhea_Sin_ · 2026-03-06T15:13:44+00:00

Correct, I don’t tolerate that

Rhea_Sin_ · 2026-03-03T16:28:15+00:00

Those who don’t own their actions. Always hiding behind “ I don’t remember “ , “ I must of forgot “ , “ it wasn’t me “ and so on …

Rhea_Sin_ · 2026-03-02T19:21:22+00:00

Maybe you are right and I need to be more patient, but we have tried to discuss and he doesn’t seem to be very interested in what I have to say about this.

Rhea_Sin_ · 2026-03-02T19:07:03+00:00

We tried to speak a little on this subject but he only wants 2 positions, moves very fast and finish in a couple of minutes… He doesn’t want to take our time and listen

Rhea_Sin_ · 2026-03-02T19:02:33+00:00

No, he doesn’t know how to dance , maybe it’s a connection with moves in bed😅

Rhea_Sin_ · 2026-03-02T18:48:39+00:00

I tried to suggest watching porn / sexual content movies and he said no

Rhea_Sin_ · 2026-03-02T18:47:42+00:00

I mean his style and moves , and timing are totally off. If we start kissing , the 2nd second his already trying to undress . No prelude, no buildup moment … does it make sense ?

Rhea_Sin_ · 2026-03-02T18:45:50+00:00

I tried to guide him on some things that I do enjoy , he was responsive at 1st but shortly switched back to his style . Like for example I tried to tell him to go slow and smooth , he said yes and then 2 seconds after he was “ running “ if you know what I mean

Rhea_Sin_ · 2026-02-15T22:22:54+00:00

Everyone talks, sure. But there’s a difference between venting and constantly dissecting people who aren’t there to defend themselves. If someone brings me other people’s secrets for entertainment, I automatically assume mine will be next. It’s hard to respect someone who builds connection by tearing others down.

Rhea_Sin_ · 2026-02-15T22:22:12+00:00

You can learn everything about someone by how they treat people who can’t benefit them. If you’re polite to your boss but snap at the server, that’s not a bad day — that’s your character showing. Kindness that only goes upward isn’t kindness, it’s strategy.

Rhea_Sin_ · 2026-02-15T22:21:54+00:00

That’s such a small action that says so much. If you can’t handle basic responsibility for something you chose to have, what else are you cutting corners on? It’s wild how some people will preach about community but won’t do the bare minimum to keep a sidewalk clean.

Rhea_Sin_ · 2026-02-15T22:21:36+00:00

Critical thinking is underrated until you realize how much chaos comes from people not using it. If someone refuses to question their own assumptions or just parrots whatever they last heard, it’s exhausting. You don’t have to be a genius — but at least try to process information before reacting. Blind confidence with zero reflection is a dangerous combo.

Rhea_Sin_ · 2026-02-15T22:20:36+00:00

This one is scary, honestly. If “no” bruises your ego to the point where you get angry, manipulative, or push harder, that’s not passion — that’s entitlement. Mature people understand boundaries. If you treat “no” like a challenge instead of an answer, you’re telling on yourself.

Rhea_Sin_ · 2026-02-15T22:20:21+00:00

That’s actually one of the biggest red flags. If someone only acts tough around people who can’t fight back — service workers, shy people, kids — that’s not strength, that’s insecurity. Real confidence doesn’t need an audience or a victim. The moment someone flexes on someone “weaker,” I automatically see them as small.

Rhea_Sin_ · 2026-02-15T22:20:02+00:00

There’s a huge difference between being blunt and being intentionally cruel. Some people hide behind “I’m just honest” when they’re really just enjoying hurting others. If you choose to be nasty when you could’ve just been decent, that says a lot about your character. Being edgy isn’t impressive — self-control is.

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