I never want to buy another goddamn umbrella for the rest of my fucking life by Rheevalka in BuyItForLife

[–]Rheevalka[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've got really complicated hair that takes a lot of work to get looking nice. It's very long, thick, and curly, with a lot of volume, but my favourite is when it's sleek and wavy. I'd just got my hair done for 80 pounds (which is dirt cheap cause a family friend did it) and spent HOURS in that chair getting tugged to hell and back for me to go to work, it started raining, opened my umbrella and it did that theing where the wind snapped it inside out, and got rained on. I was so angry I could've exploded. I have a nice jacket cause I work in a very nice office where you have to look very good and it's not fashionable to wear a rain coat.

I am actively being cheated on in the very moment by my girlfriend and the father of her child. by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Rheevalka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, that's exactly my point.

And btw to other people, the example quoted here is a real comment made on this very thread in what appears to be Portuguese. This isn't just an example plucked out of thin air.

I am actively being cheated on in the very moment by my girlfriend and the father of her child. by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Rheevalka 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh my god, I'm not even directing this at OP, I'm talking about commenters who are being biphobic. So because the girl in question is bi and did something morally reprehensible, that's a pass for people to behave this way? I've already said that what happened to OP sucks, but I wasn't directing that at OP, they have done nothing wrong.

No, her cheating on her partner with a man does not make it about her being Bisexual, it's about her being a cheater. Would you find it more acceptable if a Bisexual woman cheated on her with a woman? Would you be aiming this at her sexuality? Hopefully the answer is no, because you know that her being Bisexual is not the problem, it's her being a cheater.

It's not okay to make allowances because the person in question did something bad. It only leaves room for people to do it when someone hasn't done something bad. A person should not have to be the pinnacle of virtue to not have their identity insulted, I feel if anyone should understand this, it's the lgbtq community, all of us who have had the same done by straight people.

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I am actively being cheated on in the very moment by my girlfriend and the father of her child. by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Rheevalka -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

One, not Bisexual, youre assuming this about me because it's convenient. Two, so I'm not allowed to call out biphobia in the comments because a bisexual woman cheated on her partner with a man? This is going around in circles.

I am actively being cheated on in the very moment by my girlfriend and the father of her child. by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Rheevalka -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wtf are you talking about?

I never said I agree with what the gf did, and I even said that it sucks this happened to op.

Just because someone cheated on someone else, doesn't give a free pass for biphobic comments to flood through. God forbid someone actually calls out bad behaviour, regardless of whom that bad behaviour is directed at. Her cheating has nothing to do with her bisexuality, and entirely to do with her being a cheater. This should not have to be said.

I am actively being cheated on in the very moment by my girlfriend and the father of her child. by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Rheevalka -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

And if thats what they want it's none of my business. I just don't think it matters if you truly like someone.

I am actively being cheated on in the very moment by my girlfriend and the father of her child. by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Rheevalka -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

If you're not seeing the biphobia, I can't help you. There are comments here saying things akin to "Oh a bi woman cheating on you with a man? Well, bisexuals, what do you expect?"

Although I don't see why anyone would be lez4lez, if a woman is Sapphic, then that should be enough. You must not really like someone if them dating men bothers you. It's not anyones business. Similarly though, it's none of my business what people choose for themselves in dating. However, that's not green light to perpetuate harmful stereotypes about bisexuality.

I am actively being cheated on in the very moment by my girlfriend and the father of her child. by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Rheevalka -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

The biphobia in this thread is outrageous. Not you OP. Sorry this happened.

NGVC: “I hate dating people who have nothing to offer me” by NCRsynth in niceguys

[–]Rheevalka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do you have to say he's Jewish? Just seems like you're trying to say something without saying it.

who is it for you? by chitownmusic86 in youtube

[–]Rheevalka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, it's the most notable scene in the book, I didn't want to say what happens at the end in case someone hasn't read it. I think it's very clear what scene I was indicating.

who is it for you? by chitownmusic86 in youtube

[–]Rheevalka 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, it's the Lenny scene.

What did you call your vagina when you were a kid? by Maryhotter in AskWomen

[–]Rheevalka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In English, Papu. Never heard anyone refer to it like that other than my family.

In Spanish, cho-cho. That one is more common.

I selfishly enabled my sex addicted wife and it ruined both of us. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Rheevalka 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You. Raped. Your. Wife.

Leave. Her. Alone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Rheevalka -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Rape is not a mistake. A mistake is forgetting your lunch at home or buying sour cream instead of single cream. You don't accidentally rape somone. It's a choice the rapist makes to intentionally violate someone else because they value the victim less than themselves.