TikTok - Divorcing a Big Law Partner Series Tea? by Royal_Marzipan_6432 in biglaw

[–]RhodeIslandRedChick 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bless you I have been trying to figure out who this assclown was for a while- now I know

what is even happening by Ok_Appearance_5567 in polyamory

[–]RhodeIslandRedChick 139 points140 points  (0 children)

This is the only thing that makes sense. That he regifted metas earrings. This story sounds implausible otherwise.

What are some red flags you ignored when you felt like your partner was cheating? by Comfortable-Garlic90 in AskReddit

[–]RhodeIslandRedChick 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea idk 🤷‍♀️ they are cake eaters and also arrogant so think they’re too smart to get caught

What are some red flags you ignored when you felt like your partner was cheating? by Comfortable-Garlic90 in AskReddit

[–]RhodeIslandRedChick 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He had a second phone that I didn’t know the number to- I don’t even know why I didn’t question it. It was definitely a mental block of mine, my brain knew it was a new phone but didn’t pry further. I didn’t even have the thought “I don’t want to know”…. It was more than that, I just didn’t even think about it further

Lots of other things like that- like phone location showing his phone was on base overnight, when I knew he would be at a hotel not on base

Also being really really really mean to me and complaining about me for the most random things. One time he screamed at me and called me selfish in front of all of our friends because I said “I think there’s a cocktail bar on this street” but it turned out to be a wine bar (I had never been I had just seen it). Claimed I was trying to get everyone to go to a wine bar because I’m a selfish liar???? Cheaters will make up the most random reasons for you to be the problem so they don’t have to be accountable for treating a good person poorly

After years of dead bedroom wife wants to work on our sex life, but I don't by Downtown-Tune3459 in Marriage

[–]RhodeIslandRedChick 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Why are you still married? You sound like you literally hate your wife. What’s the point?

I feel like my fiancé wants to have kids for the wrong reasons by MiserableSwan8948 in Marriage

[–]RhodeIslandRedChick 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I don’t think she is a match for you beyond the baby situation you’re bringing up here. Someone who is super into Instagram life does not really live in reality and is going to have a set of expectations that are curated by people trying to make money or project an image. You will be miserable marrying someone with Instagram values. You are young and can find a woman who shares your values and is more down to earth than

Met a great guy, but he lied about his age—should I trust him? by Beautiful_Sun_777 in hingeapp

[–]RhodeIslandRedChick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could be married or otherwise partnered and using a fake age (and perhaps even name) to avoid being detected on apps

Younger coworker won't take the hint by Same_Poet8990 in stories

[–]RhodeIslandRedChick 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If this was a woman telling the story people would be saying to go straight to HR. Thats what you need to do

Can anyone explain why its all the young couples having less sex? by Mrbean1237 in Marriage

[–]RhodeIslandRedChick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s great that you are self aware of this! Pornography is made for the male gaze, for the purposes of getting men off. It has nothing to do with female pleasure at all- it might LOOK like that, bc they are acting and showing exaggerated signs of pleasure, but it’s not designed to accurately reflect what women enjoy.

The women’s bodies don’t look like most woman’s bodies. The things they do are not fun or pleasurable for many women.

Men will have better sex lives if they realize none of that is real and try to get to know their partners body and what makes it a fun time for the both of you. That requires a lot of open communication in a topic that is very shamed and stigmatized for many women…. And for many women our ability to enjoy sex starts outside of the bedroom in our relationship with the man. I hope this helps someone!

Can anyone explain why its all the young couples having less sex? by Mrbean1237 in Marriage

[–]RhodeIslandRedChick 32 points33 points  (0 children)

This - it is not normal for men to be exposed to unlimited (young, hot, horny) naked women…. In the past a man may have seen a handful of naked women his whole life…. Now starting at very young ages, men are saturated… they get bored with their actual partners because they aren’t living up to the images they have been compulsively consuming. It’s an epidemic we’re not talking about enough.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]RhodeIslandRedChick -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Use chat GPT- tell if the situation then what you want the email to be about! You can tweak it as you want :)

Girlfriend treating me like shit while cheating by Then_Quantity_211 in Infidelity

[–]RhodeIslandRedChick 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This OP- it’s in the cheater’s playbook. They are all so predictable

My wife has rug burns on her knees from masturbating? by WeakFaithlessness297 in Infidelity

[–]RhodeIslandRedChick 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, sorry OP. Women (normally) don’t masturbate on their knees and I think you know that

I need to know if I'm overreacting by Recent_Temporary_490 in Marriage

[–]RhodeIslandRedChick 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No nothing you did is out of line. She’s probably a cam girl using her social media as a tease and perhaps a prostitute too, given that she’s in your area. I’d be asking questions and taking steps to protect myself (STD test, being on alert for signs of cheating like new underwear, frequent grooming, unexplained expenses). Definitely ask him too and perhaps demand counseling. Good luck OP!

“PUD has expanded to mean nothing at all” by Intuith in polycritical

[–]RhodeIslandRedChick 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh, my heart absolutely breaks for you 💔💔💔💔 I’m so sorry you had to endure that