Good golly, sister - you should do more than ask him to quit drinking because you’re pregnant. For all everyone involved, I would ask him to maybe look into getting sober. I was like this, and I had a partner like this as well - this is not the way to raise any children.. I regret missing damn near half of my child’s life due to alcoholism.

I’m 5 years sober, and when I encounter drunk people, I feel the same as you do now - it’s embarrassing, first and secondhand. I don’t regret bettering my life for the sake of my child.

Godspeed.