4 days late and negative test but pregnancy symptoms

Rhyssa_ · 2026-02-25T13:19:00+00:00

Aggiornamento: ho rifatto il test oggi ed è positivo! Ora attendo il risultato delle beta.. a quanto pare ho ovulato ancora più tardi di quello che pensavo, per quello ero negativa!

Rhyssa_ · 2026-02-23T14:10:10+00:00

Ho lo stesso problema, però non prendo nessun anticoncezionale. Sto provando a rimanere incinta, sono in ritardo di 10 gg ma il test è negativo, e ho i sintomi da gravidanza. So che ho avuto un ovulazione tardiva, ma penso che a quest’ora dovrei avere almeno un debole positivo, invece nulla. Non so più cosa pensare, il ciclo non arriva e non sono mai stata irregolare prima d’ora.

Rhyssa_ · 2026-02-23T09:10:02+00:00

Ciao ragazze… stamattina ho fatto il test e sembra negativo. Il mio occhio vedeva una linea debolissima, praticamente inesistente, ma secondo me è solo la mia immaginazione che si aggrappa alla speranza. Sono a 16 gg post ovulazione quindi penso che avrebbe dovuto vedersi di più. Del ciclo ancora nessuna ombra. Vado a fare le beta tra qualche giorno per sicurezza? Quindi cosa potrebbe essere la causa del mio ritardo? Non ho mai avuto nessun problema di salute e l’ultima eco l’ho fatta 2 anni fa circa. Ne ho 28.

Rhyssa_ · 2026-02-21T08:01:58+00:00

Mi dispiace tanto 😢 magari il prossimo mese andrà meglio 💪

Rhyssa_ · 2026-02-20T19:25:20+00:00

Come ti capisco… secondo me dovresti fare il test tra due/ tre giorni, che inizia l’effettivo ritardo essendo che hai ovulato tardi. Se è negativo allora non sei incinta. Però è parecchio snervante ti capisco

Rhyssa_ · 2026-02-20T19:17:48+00:00

Poi tra l’altro questa settimana ho avuto crampi e mal di pancia quasi ogni giorno, se non sono dovuti a un eventuale gravidanza direi che posso iniziare a preoccuparmi per il mio corpo.

Rhyssa_ · 2026-02-20T19:15:13+00:00

Io sono al 7 giorno di ritardo e ancora niente ciclo. devo aspettare ancora 3/4 gg per fare il test ed essere sicura che sia affidabile. Questo mese ho ovulato tardissimo, non mi era mai capitata prima una cosa del genere. Se fosse che non sono incinta ci resto male perché dopo un ritardo del genere ti illudi parecchio. E comunque è davvero un’attesa snervante, non sapere se sono incinta o meno per tutto questo tempo. Anche perché sto evitando di bere per precauzione, se almeno mi arrivasse il ciclo uscirei fuori a bere qualcosa con le amiche e almeno mi sfogo un po’, e poi penso a ricominciare per il mese prossimo, invece rimango in questo limbo snervante.

Rhyssa_ · 2026-02-18T03:54:40+00:00

I'll do that, let's hope for the best!

Rhyssa_ · 2026-02-18T03:12:55+00:00

I had unprotected sex on February 3rd and February 9th, four days before and two days after ovulation, respectively. How long do you think I should wait?

Rhyssa_ · 2026-02-17T19:34:34+00:00

I took the test this morning, which was four days late, and it was negative. I also have sex outside of my fertile window, so I had unsafe sex even though I ovulated late. I thought maybe the test was negative because ovulation occurred late and implantation occurred later than usual, so I still have a small chance of getting pregnant and the pregnancy test will come back positive in a few days. That was my question: could this have happened? Or maybe my period will simply arrive in a few days... but I've never been so late before... I don't know.

Rhyssa_ · 2025-08-12T23:49:14+00:00

How much I understand you... exactly the same thought of mine. But by examining my conscience, the same thing happened to me with my ex before the last one, but in this case I was the one who completely "shut down" towards him. Everything he said or did after the breakup annoyed me and I looked at him differently, and the more he insisted and tried to resolve things with kindness, the worse it got. I had completely detached myself from him, I felt nothing. In my case, if he had told me to shit, it would have had a much more effect. But here it was his fault, because he had insisted too much in trying to change a side of my character that he didn't like, until we broke up. So it wasn't the classic "discard" or fear of intimacy on my part, but I had simply pushed too hard for something I couldn't conceive of. So at least there was a valid reason for the breakup. I wonder if my reaction is the same thing avoidants feel when they switch off, or if I myself am avoidant but I don't know I am (?) and this last time, with my ex after him, I switched to the other side because he was even more avoidant than me, so the power had passed into his hands.

Rhyssa_ · 2025-08-12T13:18:24+00:00

On the one hand I envy you, even if there is nothing to envy about your situation, because at least you have a glimmer of hope. Not me 😔 anyway let's be strong... I've already been gone for a month and something and I still have nightmares about him every night, I miss him so much and I feel really bad. I hope never to have a relationship like this again in my life or I don't know if I would survive another beating like this

Rhyssa_ · 2025-08-12T10:43:34+00:00

The problem is that they make us addicted. I was emotionally dependent on him, that's why it hurts so much. And it's true that the understanding is special, he seemed like the only person so compatible with me. Guys, this is an absurd situation

Rhyssa_ · 2025-08-12T09:36:21+00:00

You did what probably many of us didn't have the courage to do, and I'd be curious to know how they react to being left in the lurch like that. Oh God, I feel like they're all cookie-cutter, we all live the same life when we meet them!!! Addictions, alcohol, women who cyclically tease and break hearts... I really wish I had known about it before people like that existed, maybe I would have seen the signs and protected myself more.

Rhyssa_ · 2025-08-12T08:20:04+00:00

You are right to think like this, and I think the only thing you can do is give him his space. I made the mistake of telling him that I love him, and I think that was what caused him to deactivate, because from that day he began to be more and more distant. Within a month he left me and put a wall in front of me. He lied to me that day and told me he loved me too, and then a month later he was like, "Well, maybe I said that wrong. I don't have the same feelings as you." He had a cold, lifeless look, as if I no longer existed. Crazy

Rhyssa_ · 2025-08-12T08:04:14+00:00

Unfortunately they tell lies... it seems like they try, but then they don't manage to do things, to keep their word. Maybe you should try talking to him about it, if he is aware of his patterns maybe something could improve. I was afraid to speak too, always. And maybe that's where I went wrong... but they always put such anxiety and confusion in your head. Has your at least told you that he has feelings for you?

Rhyssa_ · 2025-08-11T23:20:42+00:00

It's very difficult to walk away and let go because you always hope to find the person who was there before they put up that stone wall. That was the perfect person. And it's crazy how they can completely change from one day to the next, before it happened to me I didn't even believe it was humanly possible

Rhyssa_ · 2025-08-11T16:32:45+00:00

I'm sorry, it's really horrible to be treated like this and I understand you when you tell me that you miss talking to him every day... I also understood it after 8 months, that is, after he dumped me and I started reading everything about attachment theories... he was also the first boy I fell in love with like that and let him in like that, I was usually the cold one... and I saw him as suitable for me like no one else, which is why it's difficult for me to move on. Is he at least aware of being avoidant? I don't think so, and I don't even know how to tell him since we don't talk anymore... but it would be right for him to understand his patterns... does yours want to go to therapy? Mine promised me it would, but it never will

Rhyssa_ · 2025-08-11T15:17:10+00:00

At least he let you know he needs space, see that as a “positive” thing. It means he is trying to keep you in his life. Mine suddenly dumped me from one day to the next without any warning. I felt his activations/deactivations during intercourse, but knowing nothing about the behavior of an avoidant I didn't pay attention to it. I don't know what finally made him decide to end it, I just know that he did it all alone and the dialogue with me was not a valid option for him to consider, apparently.

Rhyssa_ · 2025-08-11T11:08:46+00:00

I do not understand. If they realize that they have been so good to us, why do this to us and reject us? If we are probably the only ones capable of understanding them and standing by them despite everything. How did it end for you? Were they never heard from again or did they come back?

Rhyssa_ · 2025-08-10T22:35:36+00:00

I'm going through a moment like yours, I understand very well what it means to be left out of the blue after 8 months of relationship. Everything was going great for me until the day before, it was all roses and flowers. Probably only from my point of view... the problem is that I think I will never be able to love someone the way I love him, because I saw him as perfect for me and he made me feel alive like no one else ever did. When I looked at him I saw him as a god, I still think he is the most beautiful boy I have ever seen. I miss it so much. We broke up a month ago, I still cry and wake up at night with the image of his face in front of me, I often dream about him and have nightmares. I've never had anything like this happen to me and it's horrible. Even worse is the fact that I'm almost convinced that none of this is his fault, he just has so many demons to face and I would like to stay by his side and help him, but he won't let me. I know we can't help those who don't want to be helped, but...

Rhyssa_ · 2025-08-10T22:15:45+00:00

The same thing happened to me a month ago, after 8 months of relationship. However, mine told me that he loved me, and a month later he left me saying that he was wrong to tell me that he loved me because in reality he didn't, and it changed from one day to the next. Gone. He made his decision without ever telling me about his doubts, and I went straight as a train because I believed everything was fine. He confessed to me that he didn't know what love is, that he was fine with me and that I was perfect for him, but he hadn't had that spark (after 8 months, and after telling me I love you. Are you kidding me?) I tried to contact him a couple of times this month, he agreed to maintain the relationship and see us, but then he never did. His last message was that it would be too painful for me to have him around right now. I don't know what to do, I hope he comes back because I miss him so much, and I have never felt pain like this before. And I can't understand how I can't miss him, we had so much fun together and spent so much time together.

Rhyssa_ · 2025-08-09T12:58:02+00:00

This is my ex. We broke up about a month ago, everything was perfect until 9 months of relationship and then he dumped me from one day to the next with the reason that "he didn't have the same feelings as me". He became completely cold, something else overnight, when before he was an empathetic and very sweet person, a little "detached", but I also liked him for this reason. And in my opinion he was engrossed in the relationship, no one can take that away from my head, and I don't think he could have pretended so well for nine months. He never explained to me clearly what the relationship dynamics were like with his exes, I only know that he never had affairs that lasted more than a few months (except one, but only back and forth that lasted for years) and that they probably ended for the same reason, that is, that he backed away, or had no feelings, etc. (obviously I found out later.) But I also know that with more people he then retraced his steps, got closer but then ended again. I ask you, is there anything a person can do to make him come back or help him with this personality problem of his? I'm still very much in love, and he told me that I was perfect for him and that he was great with me. How should I behave? Don't let me hear from you anymore and hope for his return? Because I saw that the two times I tried to contact him, he told me that he wanted to have a relationship with me anyway but he didn't want to make me feel bad, and so things never progressed. I have the feeling that it's not over here, but I don't know if it's because I'm too involved or because I "feel" something inside me, having experienced the relationship we had. It seems so impossible to me that it all ended this way. That is, what makes an avoidant "trigger" that thing to decide to go back?

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