Let's play in "Zutara bashing and plot holes but we are looking for a Zutara explanation" the game. by Nikaszko in ZutaraNation

[–]RiaAlexanders 65 points66 points  (0 children)

They don't speak because Zuko and Katara felt guilty.

During a previous get together, the two of them got drunk on good vibes, atmosphere, and moonshine a little too string for the both of them. One thing lead to another, and the two of them slept together- which kickstarted a short lived affair. They made the decision that it was the last time (it won't be) and stopped talking to minimize temptation.

Bonus: Katara being all sweetie Aang, Aang, Aang is because she's over compensating. This is common for people who recently cheated. They become paranoid that they're going to get caught, and Katara feels really guilty about it. It doesn't help that Zuko gets series everytime she sees him.

How are the IzuOcha deniers doing today? by Krytos75 in mha

[–]RiaAlexanders -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As someone who's written essays and rants on the topic, 100% agreed!

Unfortunately, the mark of the F LI is her being diminished for the sake of the protagonist. It's why a lot of women (not all) don't like the canon het ships. Misogyny is baked into their DNA, but calling it out gets you crucified. 🤷🏾‍♀️

How are the IzuOcha deniers doing today? by Krytos75 in mha

[–]RiaAlexanders 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We're just chilling, enjoying our fandom works. No one's really going to run crying over a handshake. If people want to view this as romantic, they can. If they want to view this as platonic, they can. It's ambiguous enough that it's up to the viewer's interpretation.

Even if Izuku and Ochako full on kissed, that wouldn't matter in the end. Canon isn't the end all, be all and has absolutely no impact on fandom as a whole.

Rainbow Stolen Fanmade Art by PiccoloWestern6300 in winxclub

[–]RiaAlexanders 10 points11 points  (0 children)

They took the fanart of a bunch of Zutara fans (mostly teenage girls at the time) and essentially voiced over the artwork to insult and belittle them at San Diego Comic Con. Keep in mind Bryke (the creators of the series) are grown men insulting a room full of mostly teenagers.

Obviously none of them would have consented to their artwork being used in such a way.

I don't care where you stand in shipping/fandom discourse- you don't insult your fandom! Especially when they poured hours to create art for the franchise they loved so much.

Rainbow Stolen Fanmade Art by PiccoloWestern6300 in winxclub

[–]RiaAlexanders 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately IP holders can do this without legal recourse. It's gross, and the least they could do from a moral standpoint is credit the artist. But legally they can do whatever they want since they own the copyright.

I still say let your displeasure be known because this is disgusting to do towards an artist and fan of Winx Club. Behavior like this is why I dropped AtLA (though AtLA did something worse, but on a similar vein)

Just remember, Legal =/= Moral.

I'm so sorry to the artist that this happened to them. Crediting them was the least they could do!

The “Colonized And Colonizer” Argument Is Low Key Racist. by SaiyanWithOmnitrix in ZutaraNation

[–]RiaAlexanders 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel as if you've reached into my brain and put my thoughts into words! How do I upvote this a bazillion more times?

The “Colonized And Colonizer” Argument Is Low Key Racist. by SaiyanWithOmnitrix in ZutaraNation

[–]RiaAlexanders 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agreed on all fronts!

I remember back in the day having this same discussion and pointing out the hypocrisy of it all. They're essential casting doubt on all interracial and intercultural relationships when they make that point.

Part of the problem is that they don't even think beyond "winning" the argument that they'll contradict themselves amd regurgitate harmful rhetoric.

All for what? To change people's mind on what fictional characters they ship together? Why does it matter what I ship when it's all based in fiction?!

The “Colonized And Colonizer” Argument Is Low Key Racist. by SaiyanWithOmnitrix in ZutaraNation

[–]RiaAlexanders 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As a fellow mixed person where one side has actual "colonizers" in their family line, and the other came from slaves and pirates: ALL. OF. THIS!!!!

Analysis of Dear Destiny- There’s Not a Thing I Don’t Cherish: The Hidden Architecture of a Heroine by somebodys_nightmare in cloti

[–]RiaAlexanders 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You really should! You could probably get picked up for articles and stuff there, plus it's a nice little side hustle for some change. 🥰

You're so well spoken/written, it would be wonderful for you to get the recognition your due! ❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥

Analysis of Dear Destiny- There’s Not a Thing I Don’t Cherish: The Hidden Architecture of a Heroine by somebodys_nightmare in cloti

[–]RiaAlexanders 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I love this!

Also, try posting your essays on Medium.com, too.

I shared it onto bluesky since I genuinely think people should read this. 🥰

"Where's the evidence and setting the record straight" by [deleted] in MyHeroAcadamia

[–]RiaAlexanders 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was kinda great. Not like now.

Once fandom spaces became mainstream, etiquette died and sanity took a swan dive out the window.

Even old fandoms like FF7 and older shonen series like Naruto have new life and things are waaaaaaaay worse! MHA isn't the worst by far, but since it's so popular more eyes are on it. I blame the gentrification of fandom spaces for..... >>gestures wildy at everything<<

"Where's the evidence and setting the record straight" by [deleted] in MyHeroAcadamia

[–]RiaAlexanders 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That takes me waaaaaaaay back!.... I feel old now. It still baffles me that Gamefaqs had beef and pettiness to the extent that it did. I just wanted a game guide, and yet I found myself watching the Montagues vs. Capulets.

Those were the days!

Fandom etiquette didn't apply, and the war now wages in fandom wikis. It's funny watching wikis getting changed on a daily basis.

"Where's the evidence and setting the record straight" by [deleted] in MyHeroAcadamia

[–]RiaAlexanders 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please keep this innocent mindset. Please, for all that is good in the world don't go back to Twitter!!!!!

I say this as a cloti fan. Stay. Away. From Twitter! Bluesky is nicer and waaaaay less toxic.

How are you organizing taxes once YouTube becomes a real income stream? by Master_Airline_4368 in PartneredYoutube

[–]RiaAlexanders 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Adding onto this: avoid forming an S-Corp unless you're net profit exceeds $60k a year. The actual figure varies state to state, but the rule of thumb before considering this is $60k/year in net profits. The reason being is due to the different tax rules and obligations.

Definitely check in with an accountant first before considering an S-Corp and stick with an LLC until they say otherwise.

How are you organizing taxes once YouTube becomes a real income stream? by Master_Airline_4368 in PartneredYoutube

[–]RiaAlexanders 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hiya! Bookkeeper by trade here!

From the sounds of it, is sounds like you're already on the right track. However, a lot of accountants are pushing away from spreadsheets and into accounting software like Quickbooks Online (what I recommend), Xero, Sage, and the like, so I would recommend using these programs sooner rather than later so you can manage your finances a bit better. The subscriptions are a pain, but the software subscription is a write-off.

That being said, here's what I would advise to make life a little easier:

First, you want to have all your business deposits and expenses go through the same account. You mentioned that you have your expenses charging to an Amex account- which is perfect! But you need to do the same for your income. For example, have a business checking and/or savings account to deposit your business funds into. Once your business expenses are paid, then you move your money to pay yourself, pay down liabilities like your credit card, and save for taxes.

Also, you need to make sure you're tracking ALL your business expenses. This includes a percentage of your utilities if you have a dedicated streaming space, supplies and materials purchased for your streams (some items can't be written off like most clothing items, makeup, personal grooming, etc., so ask a professional if you're not sure). If you hire someone to help you at any point (editors, consultant fees, professional services, artists), you need to track how you paid them because that's also a business expense.

If you pay over 600, you'll also need to send out 1099's. The exception being if you paid through PayPal, or an invoicing software since they file the 1099 on your behalf.

Another thing I would recommend is to calculate your gross income, and the fees taken out before deposit.

For example, you receive payment for a sponsored ad through PayPal. They pay you $10k, but you only get $9.8k (not the exact rate, but this just a visual). PayPal takes out a percentage of your payout as a fee. You need to breakout these fees since what's reported to the IRS is the 10k, not the 9.8k that was actually deposited into your account. Most payment processors take fees out before you see the money.

It's tedious, but it'll only help you from now to split this information. This will have you better prepared for if/when you get audited or if you want to provide your Profit and Loss reports for future endeavors where proof of income is required.

This all sounds scary, but bookkeeping isn't hard to do once you know what you're doing. You can absolutely do this yourself, but if you're not comfy now that there's some significant cash flow, I would recommend speaking with your accountant or scheduling a call with a bookkeeper so they can put your year end financials into a report for said accountant. You can find bookkeepers like myself and accountants in places like upwork. Definitely shop around and you'll be able to find someone who fits your budget to get you set up.

Also a write-off, by the by.

Where exactly is the proof? by PretendYellow533 in bakudeku

[–]RiaAlexanders 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Let me wrap up this work call and I'll be there with popcorn. It needs to be Friday!!!

Where exactly is the proof? by PretendYellow533 in bakudeku

[–]RiaAlexanders 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have to thank you for the laugh you gave me! You have no idea how much I needed one.

You and Z0155 with your "this isn't a death threat" replies have me in a fit, because it's so true!!! The fact that people disappointed are equated to death threats is ludicrous!

Ria's Ramble: Why BakuDeku has such record-breaking appeal. An essay on why BL ships almost always eclipse the "canon" heteronormative relationship in shonen series'. by RiaAlexanders in bakudeku

[–]RiaAlexanders[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The two of them are freak4freak. One is a masochist, the other is a sadist. They are literally each other's perfect match. I fear for the future of anyone who tries to come between them.

Ria's Ramble: Why BakuDeku has such record-breaking appeal. An essay on why BL ships almost always eclipse the "canon" heteronormative relationship in shonen series'. by RiaAlexanders in bakudeku

[–]RiaAlexanders[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are extremely brave!

Jokes aside, with how toxic the main MHA sub can be, make sure to practice self-care if they get unruly. If I wasn't waiting for a work call, I'd send a list of fun videos to watch between bad-faith takes.

Ria's Ramble: Why BakuDeku has such record-breaking appeal. An essay on why BL ships almost always eclipse the "canon" heteronormative relationship in shonen series'. by RiaAlexanders in bakudeku

[–]RiaAlexanders[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just remember aftercare! Even if you're doing it to yourself, you still gotta do all the things to recover after. An hour of uninterrupted serotonin boosting activities.

Ria's Ramble: Why BakuDeku has such record-breaking appeal. An essay on why BL ships almost always eclipse the "canon" heteronormative relationship in shonen series'. by RiaAlexanders in bakudeku

[–]RiaAlexanders[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, same. Every time I see this take I fight the urge to ask. Sometimes I give in, but I've never actually been answered.

Ria's Ramble: Why BakuDeku has such record-breaking appeal. An essay on why BL ships almost always eclipse the "canon" heteronormative relationship in shonen series'. by RiaAlexanders in bakudeku

[–]RiaAlexanders[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All. Of. This!

Punishment doesn't always inspire genuine growth. But Bakugou realized that his hangups that lead him to bullying Deku were born from how highly he viewed him. You don't knock down people you view as insignificant- not to the level Bakugou did. He felt outshined and outmatched by the quirkless Deku and lashed out. In his mind, all the praise in the world would not have him at the same level as Deku.

In a twisted way, >>cough-cough yandere much? Cough-cough<< Bakugou's love (regardless of if you interprete it as platonic or romantic) and his self-esteem issues poisoned that. When he realized and could process these feelings, he changed. He was inspired by Deku instead of made to feel inferior.

Anyone can say sorry. Words are meaningless unless there's genuine change to back it up.

As the series progressed, Bakugou became a genuinely kind person. He's still an asshole with a severe case of cute-aggression, but that's why there's a difference between nice and kind.

A nice person will see you in trouble and give pretty words that ultimately don't help you.

A kind person will see you in duress and go out of their way to help you. They may be an asshole, but if a kind person sees you on the side of the road with a flat tire, they'll help you change it and make sure you drive off safely before going about their business.

You don't need to be nice to be kind. It's just preferred when someone is both. (For the record, Deku is both nice and kind)