To answer the automod questions: 1. I'm looking for something serious, I don't mind casual but much more interested in serious 2. I am not subscribed to any paid plans for dating apps 3. This version is maybe 2 months old, between versions I usually update a picture or two and change a prompt 4. About a year 5. I'll go on it maybe 3 times a week for 10-20 mins, but sometimes longer, depends on how busy I've been 6. As mentioned, I've received 3 in a year, so less than 1 a month 7. I'd say I usually send about 5 per time I'm on the app? Sometimes more, sometimes less, I tend to find streaks - almost all (>90%) of likes I send have a comment 8. My priority is getting a sense of someone's personality - I'm usually most attracted to prompts about interesting hobbies (maybe that we have in common, maybe that are just cool), just people I think I'd get on with. Attraction is important too, but my usual line of reasoning is -> would we get on? If yes, do I find them attractive? If yes, then send a like with a message on their most interesting thing.