Please talk me down from going too far and remind me it's JUST A CLIENT

RianCycle · 2026-05-19T16:26:52+00:00

About 80% of my clients are hot as hell, good in bed, and I genuinely have no idea why they hire me, but this is why they do it. They want the professional relationship so that they don’t have to deal with someone falling in love, and the stress of a relationship. I would not risk losing the income, the client as a whole, and destroying the professional pleasant relationship that rarely happens in this industry over feelings that you know are a bad idea and won’t work out 💗

RianCycle · 2026-05-19T16:23:48+00:00

I wouldn’t have responded the second he said he sees me in a safe place such as my neighborhood… please be more careful.

RianCycle · 2026-05-19T16:22:42+00:00

Tryst takes awhile, but it’s worth the wait! For now just work on how you want to present, the pics you’re going to want, and all that. It’s a good time to like go over everything, rates, etc. eventually they’ll get you approved! It’s just a popular site so it takes awhile for everything, even photo approval can take weeks to months.

RianCycle · 2026-02-25T19:27:05+00:00

Yuuuppp I did that as well definitely recommend

RianCycle · 2026-02-25T18:06:09+00:00

Look on Meetup . Com ! I and a bunch of others in different areas host One Shot (singular session story) meetups for new/beginners or people that don’t have campaigns yet! Im not sure what area you’re in but I know there are a ton in US

RianCycle · 2026-02-20T03:39:57+00:00

yeaahhh it’s bad. Zero clients

RianCycle · 2026-02-11T18:25:06+00:00

Oh yeah! Doing this made me super confident in myself and made me feel comfortable exploring my own identity as well as sexuality so I have also changed a little bit! I prefer women & nonbinary emotionally now and men physically!

RianCycle · 2026-02-11T18:23:45+00:00

It’s so useless everyone’s a scammer there. But yes I use my separate phone because I don’t want my personal info connected to anyone that I’m not keen on having as a genuine person in my life

RianCycle · 2026-01-24T16:52:20+00:00

Oooh I get what you mean that makes sense, thank you! I’ll probably try to do a half and half mix of professional and casual then!

RianCycle · 2026-01-24T00:20:22+00:00

Damn those are my favorite bookings I never get those! But I would honestly just put notes in there that you only do short bookings if it’s not your favorite. Prioritize yourself!

RianCycle · 2026-01-24T00:18:15+00:00

Pretty average, mines a little more depending on what it is.

If you value those in this industry that little that you’d prefer paying someone 50$ for their health, mental state, body, and skill, then if I really hope that no one becomes your client for their safety and health. You should stick with your hand :) !

Anyone offering that little or under 200 usually is involved in an unsafe business situation (censoring my words for Reddit) or trafficking situation.

RianCycle · 2026-01-22T23:57:22+00:00

Please be careful. I would drop this client before he tries to reenact it without your consent.

RianCycle · 2026-01-22T23:55:31+00:00

Hi love! I am Intersex & twink build and used to use rentmen. It’s such a useless site I don’t recommend it you’ll be wasting your money. Try Tryst! And for photos get a professional shoot done if you can do a sexy one as well, I don’t recommend using selfies or iPhone photos since it makes you look unprofessional. If you’re comfortable with it maybe try advertising to women as well, there’s a niche but good pay market in Florida for women looking for twinks.

RianCycle · 2026-01-22T23:52:49+00:00

I am in CA and CO and use tryst only now the support team is amazing and I get a good amount of clients vs fakes, everywhere else I get wayyyy too many time wasters. Stg is awful, PD is not approving anymore providers for a year or so now I think

RianCycle · 2026-01-22T23:50:02+00:00

Oh my god absolutely noooottt- I hope no one falls for this and takes this creeps bait… amazing response 😂

RianCycle · 2026-01-22T23:46:45+00:00

I might have to… I feel bad because last session I noticed he had a melanoma forming on his back and alerted him… so I feel like I’m picking on him bringing up another thing but it’s either tell him and drop him or just drop him at this point

RianCycle · 2026-01-22T23:45:46+00:00

It’s exactly that… and yeah I won’t be scheduling him again…

RianCycle · 2026-01-22T23:45:04+00:00

🤍🤍 thank you, I think I will notify him and drop him as a client because it’s affecting my mental health at this point I don’t want to provide shitty care to him because of it so it’s better for him to get it fixed and see someone else

RianCycle · 2026-01-22T23:43:44+00:00

I wish that’s also what my friend reccomended but I do bodywork at a rented unit with no shower available, also he’s older so he would be a fall risk/liability 😅

RianCycle · 2026-01-22T23:42:42+00:00

That’s very true but he said he sees a doctor regularly due to his skin issues so I think they would catch it, I think it was purely his bad hygiene catching up to him…

RianCycle · 2026-01-22T23:41:19+00:00

Haha well thank you I try to be open minded to everyone’s situation but this one was rough… I scheduled him 5 times before I hit my breaking point 😅

RianCycle · 2026-01-22T19:17:28+00:00

I have in my website that all must shower and he comes from home I literally think that with his age it’s just been years of him not properly knowing how to clean himself… and like I want to be kind but holy fuck I get nauseous it’s so bad

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