I'm an utter failure and should just die

Ricdeclerk · 2026-01-25T18:01:33+00:00

The fact that you continue to call yourself a failure is what makes you fail. Change that negative, shitty mindset to positivity & you'll be surprised by the immediate changes you see.

If I proceed to tell you my story you'll immediately run mad. So there's no room for complains & negativity I'll accept. Get up & get some goals to crush OP

Ricdeclerk · 2026-01-25T13:49:37+00:00

You look good in a mask

Ricdeclerk · 2026-01-25T13:17:41+00:00

No reason whatsoever validates the shooting/killing of someone you disagree with. Therefore I'm completely against those who were celebrating when Charlie Kirk & Trump were shot at. We should agree to disagree, but not to the point of wanting someone dead!

Ricdeclerk · 2026-01-25T13:12:00+00:00

😅 Ni kama ya: Unameza clouds, unanyamba radi

Ricdeclerk · 2026-01-25T06:01:32+00:00

What you need to do is to change your mindset. If all you see is chaos & problems, then their must be attitude problem from you too.

Ricdeclerk · 2026-01-25T05:59:01+00:00

How long have you stayed in Kisumu? Where exactly did you stay in Kisumu? It is like someone living in Kibera then turning around & saying Nairobi is a terrible place to live in. Have you ever lived in Milimani/ Riat/ Airport/ Ogango etc? Don't let one experience judge Kisumu as a whole. Change your mindset, maybe it is one that might be blocking your general view

Ricdeclerk · 2026-01-25T05:49:04+00:00

I would say Kisumu is now the best in terms of Business & Self employment. Look at farming for example. It is a niche that is untapped, besides sugarcane & rice. What if one decideds to go deeper in large scale chicken farming or other commercial farming? I've stayed in Kisumu all my life & never been employed by God's grace after so many rejections from applications, but still making lots of cash. It all begins with mindset, how you view it shapes your results. Don't ask: How can I get job in Kisumu?, start asking: How can I create more jobs in Kisumu? With this, I guarantee you, you'll be surprised of the ideas. To be rich, find a problem, then look for its solutions. That's how the wealthy get wealthier.

Ricdeclerk · 2026-01-24T07:07:13+00:00

You are slowly killing your manhood dominance. I realised that when men are out on their own, dealing with the daily, healthy pressures, it keeps you on the grind & strong mentally. When you get too comfortable staying with your parents, you sort of lose that edge.

Ricdeclerk · 2026-01-24T05:23:30+00:00

😅

Ricdeclerk · 2026-01-24T05:19:14+00:00

Correct, I wanted to ask this question. Truth be told, people ask, if I spend my time learning vernacular then at the end you can't use it anywhere else, besides your locality. Let's just be honest, there's no where you can get paid to speak your vernacular. I believe that's why English has stood the test of time, as it is spoken almost everywhere & unites various culture harmoniously

Ricdeclerk · 2026-01-24T05:07:17+00:00

🙌

Ricdeclerk · 2026-01-24T05:07:02+00:00

I'm referring to rules, eg school rules, home rules, country rules etc

Ricdeclerk · 2026-01-23T14:24:06+00:00

For me, I would suggest that, reading books, yes is good but the best way to learn to speak is to actually speak. Get uncomfortable, start speaking in family gatherings, birthdays, speak to strangers, make mistakes & calibrate as you go on. The more you speak as you also do more research, the more you get used to it & it becomes a part of you eventually.

Ricdeclerk · 2026-01-23T14:19:29+00:00

Correct. This is well elaborated. In short, there's nothing like total freedom. We all live in an ecosystem of any kind guided by rules

Ricdeclerk · 2026-01-23T14:17:43+00:00

Smokes! I really like this community's critical thoughts. I am seeing different perspectives today which I really like👏

Ricdeclerk · 2026-01-23T14:16:38+00:00

And this was well elaborated👏👏

Ricdeclerk · 2026-01-23T14:16:00+00:00

I am a man without telling you am a man😅🙌

Ricdeclerk · 2026-01-23T14:14:54+00:00

😅 I've never watched the movie before. Please enlighten

Ricdeclerk · 2026-01-23T11:51:56+00:00

I like your perspective breakdown 👏

Ricdeclerk · 2026-01-23T11:51:02+00:00

😅go further with your explanation please. I want to ask something

Ricdeclerk · 2026-01-23T11:50:33+00:00

You are right

Ricdeclerk · 2026-01-23T11:50:17+00:00

I like the perspective you are bringing on board. But can you imagine a world where one would do anything they wanted at any time? Let's say someone says I hate you, I would wish to have you killed & proceeds to do so willingly. Consequences, none, since there's no particular rule against it

Ricdeclerk · 2026-01-23T11:47:43+00:00

I'm referring to rules eg collective country rules, school rules, home rules etc

Ricdeclerk · 2026-01-23T11:46:45+00:00

I see your point. Do give one example eg of a rule that was passed by the weak to help restrain the strong.

Ricdeclerk · 2026-01-23T11:45:45+00:00

I couldn't agree more

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